OK I have a good female friend. She's a good friend after a short-lived relationship a few years ago that ended quite peacefully. We've always had respect for each other all this time, and recently we both became single.... Yeah, i'm going there.
I'd just like your opinions on whether or not it would be the right thing to be upfront with her and straight out tell her that yes "I wanted to kiss you X night" (if we all go out as a group of friends one night). I had chances recently, and to be honest in terms of "yes/no" I think it could go either way (her going along with it or not), perhaps favoured towards "yes".
But that's not the issue.... regardless of how she would feel, it's been building up and it's bothering me not doing anything about it. I figured that being upfront with her and seeing her reaction would be better than to just go for it... But i'm a newbie, so even that may be a stupid idea.
Basically, i'm sick of sitting back and having a good time with her while she's oblivious to the fact that i really would like to kiss/have some kind of intimacy with her. But we all know that it's not necessarily a good idea to act on emotions.
Help?
I'd just like your opinions on whether or not it would be the right thing to be upfront with her and straight out tell her that yes "I wanted to kiss you X night" (if we all go out as a group of friends one night). I had chances recently, and to be honest in terms of "yes/no" I think it could go either way (her going along with it or not), perhaps favoured towards "yes".
But that's not the issue.... regardless of how she would feel, it's been building up and it's bothering me not doing anything about it. I figured that being upfront with her and seeing her reaction would be better than to just go for it... But i'm a newbie, so even that may be a stupid idea.
Basically, i'm sick of sitting back and having a good time with her while she's oblivious to the fact that i really would like to kiss/have some kind of intimacy with her. But we all know that it's not necessarily a good idea to act on emotions.
Help?