confused? don't know what to do, need help!

freshprince

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Okay i am 18 and in university, currently not working and being supported by my parents
there is this girl at the uni thats been giving me signals, i think she likes me, she winks, flirts all of that but the thing is i have not talked to her, i have seen her and noticed her and just picked up the signals (am i reading them wrong) and i know she have been noticing me too. The last time i complemented on the way she looked while i was walking up the stairs and she replied nicely and then she stoped (paused) like if she was going to say something but instead keeped on walking down the stairs .....

oh yea this chick is in her 20s, early and she is working this i gathered from reliable sources, now the fact that this chick is working and at a certain age, older than i, i am afraid to approach her, because of rejection and because i tried hustling a 22 year old woman, who i thought was interested but she told me that i was too young and she would try to rule me in the relationship ..she gaved it to me straight (it hurt but i respected the honesty) she said i was cute and all but if i older and working then she would give me a chance
this being the main reason i am afraid to approach because i might get the same rejection i did before only thing it maybe worst if i tell the truth about my age and status and i don't want to lie either because i am not in her category eventhough i might look older than 18 and she probably thinks i am because women there usually want a guy like that, an independent person who is more likely driving a car.

so i said to myself to save the embarrassment i would just not approach her at all, was i wrong?? and may it be too late to act before she thinks i am a coward or something?? i am confused and don't know what to do here, what do you guys think??
 

AMDG

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Grow up and get a job, then come back here :)
 

freshprince

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seriously dude is that your advice to me lol, i know i am young but i don't think there is any need for a remark like that.
 

kingsam

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your problem is that STILL you are afraid of rejection.....it dont matter who the woman is... you are making excuses NOT to approach (and you will do this agian with another girl in the future for some other reason)- i think you know this deep down.
...and so you wont do anything ... she will loose any interest she had...then you will be left wondering "what if id just talked to her"???

at some point you have to decide if your gonna man up and grow some balls, or just say the typical AFC and fail with women...your choice
 
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