Hey guys,
reading the forum, it seems to me relatively accepted that to increase success with women, you have to go out, approach, and e.g. strength exercises to get pumped / feel more confident. Everyone accepts this is a major time commitment and some consider it a lifestyle of its own.
On the other hand, the alpha male is supposed to pursue his goals, find happiness without women and within himself, just do his thing.
So what if these two are in absolute conflict? I am doing a science degree, which is a major time commitment. I am also doing a side project, my own invention out of passion and something I believe in, which is also a very serious time sink. I am doing two men's work in one person.
Yes, there is a question in this, and conveniently, I also know the answer! Q: I don't want to compromise my dreams, but also I cannot get chicks without training/instruction/effort, how to resolve? A: If you want chicks, you will have to cut down on other things in life, this is the price.
Just wanted to vent that this is really pissing me off. In theory, having discovered and going after what you love to do in life should radiate, attract chicks automatically. I was hoping for a while that life will somehow reward my attitude, and send me a wonderful princess, so I can have the best of both worlds. But in reality, if you don't have the looks and/or the necessary experience in flirting, chicks couldn't care less about your dreams, they won't even have the opportunity to know them. I am conflicted and I know I will have to make a decision, either keep pushing what I do best, or taking a step back and learning game the painful, time-consuming and slow way that everyone learns it.
reading the forum, it seems to me relatively accepted that to increase success with women, you have to go out, approach, and e.g. strength exercises to get pumped / feel more confident. Everyone accepts this is a major time commitment and some consider it a lifestyle of its own.
On the other hand, the alpha male is supposed to pursue his goals, find happiness without women and within himself, just do his thing.
So what if these two are in absolute conflict? I am doing a science degree, which is a major time commitment. I am also doing a side project, my own invention out of passion and something I believe in, which is also a very serious time sink. I am doing two men's work in one person.
Yes, there is a question in this, and conveniently, I also know the answer! Q: I don't want to compromise my dreams, but also I cannot get chicks without training/instruction/effort, how to resolve? A: If you want chicks, you will have to cut down on other things in life, this is the price.
Just wanted to vent that this is really pissing me off. In theory, having discovered and going after what you love to do in life should radiate, attract chicks automatically. I was hoping for a while that life will somehow reward my attitude, and send me a wonderful princess, so I can have the best of both worlds. But in reality, if you don't have the looks and/or the necessary experience in flirting, chicks couldn't care less about your dreams, they won't even have the opportunity to know them. I am conflicted and I know I will have to make a decision, either keep pushing what I do best, or taking a step back and learning game the painful, time-consuming and slow way that everyone learns it.
