Michael Chief
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Alright, since the era of blogging is pretty much dead I guess I'll just post whatever I want to ramble about here.
We all know that one guy who loves being negative and talks sh!t about everything. He appears to be confident because he unabashedly criticizes everything as if he's above it all. He speaks with an air of certainty when he says that the next whatever movie is going to be sh!t, that the next date he has is going to be sh!t, that the next weather tomorrow won't be good enough for the whatever event, etc.
He's a pessimist who calls himself a "realist." He seems to be confident but he never seems to have the best of luck not just with women, but with most areas of his life. He's the type of boy you point to as an example of how confidence alone doesn't get you laid.
Well, if you're an older man, of course you're less likely to have any peers around you who are like this since most men outgrow such immaturity eventually. Hopefully you've learned by now that one of the key things that makes confidence attractive is optimism.
Optimism is a mental habit that allows you to eventually develop core confidence as opposed to just situational confidence. It's a mental habit that conditions you to believe that you have the capacity to adapt to any situation, and it makes you behave in ways that align with that. It allows you to face any situation with the positive outcome in mind first as a default, allowing you to transfer positive emotional states far more often.
Even if you've never tried something before, this mental habit allows you to face it with the attractive attitude of a hero from a monomyth. If you've never tried rock climbing, for example, being confident and optimistic will make you excited about the possibilities from the get-go. This excitement and the confidence of you knowing that you're in for a good time will make everyone around you more drawn toward you. It also demonstrates an important trait of a leader.
On the other hand, chicks are just going to be turned off by Mr. Debbie Downer who "confidently" says that we're all just going to get hurt if we climb those rocks.
This concept should come as common sense for the seducers in here, but I noticed a lot of people here calling themselves incels and thought it might be useful to start highlighting their mental inefficiencies as a whole.
We all know that one guy who loves being negative and talks sh!t about everything. He appears to be confident because he unabashedly criticizes everything as if he's above it all. He speaks with an air of certainty when he says that the next whatever movie is going to be sh!t, that the next date he has is going to be sh!t, that the next weather tomorrow won't be good enough for the whatever event, etc.
He's a pessimist who calls himself a "realist." He seems to be confident but he never seems to have the best of luck not just with women, but with most areas of his life. He's the type of boy you point to as an example of how confidence alone doesn't get you laid.
Well, if you're an older man, of course you're less likely to have any peers around you who are like this since most men outgrow such immaturity eventually. Hopefully you've learned by now that one of the key things that makes confidence attractive is optimism.
Optimism is a mental habit that allows you to eventually develop core confidence as opposed to just situational confidence. It's a mental habit that conditions you to believe that you have the capacity to adapt to any situation, and it makes you behave in ways that align with that. It allows you to face any situation with the positive outcome in mind first as a default, allowing you to transfer positive emotional states far more often.
Even if you've never tried something before, this mental habit allows you to face it with the attractive attitude of a hero from a monomyth. If you've never tried rock climbing, for example, being confident and optimistic will make you excited about the possibilities from the get-go. This excitement and the confidence of you knowing that you're in for a good time will make everyone around you more drawn toward you. It also demonstrates an important trait of a leader.
On the other hand, chicks are just going to be turned off by Mr. Debbie Downer who "confidently" says that we're all just going to get hurt if we climb those rocks.
This concept should come as common sense for the seducers in here, but I noticed a lot of people here calling themselves incels and thought it might be useful to start highlighting their mental inefficiencies as a whole.
