CONFIDENCE vs. CAPITULATION

[MAN_OF_TOMMOROW]

How do you tell if someone is doing the common AFC thing in a Bar/ club. What if he is interacting with his friends but not approaching women for various reasons?

Just as women choose whether to give you there number or not. A man should be able to choose whether to speak to a women or not who he lays eyes on. I noticied many senior DJs saying if you get rejected. Move on and next! She may have just broken up in a relationship,Bad day or her cat just died.

Sometimes,personalyy I find it hard to interact with females who're gorgeous but AIRHEADS,because I have more CHARACTER within myself and COMPASSION for these types of females, not because I'm not confident,but for my OWN dignity.

It is HIGHLY ANNOYING to capitulate with them (Having to approach FIRST, Having to SHOW INTEREST FIRST). When its alright for a female to just earwig her friend and let the friend do all the dirty work. If we did this,as MEN it will normally be AUTOMATIC FAIL or you'll be seen as an AFC.

If I see a girl I like,but dont approach her the whole night for my OWN REASONS,then its a small price to pay for my dignity.

Anyway, confidence vs. capitulation,THOUGHTS?

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

I don't feel compelled to approach every chick I'm attracted to. I see alot of hot chicks who also seem trashy or stupid, and it shoots the horse. Unless I just want to screw that night.

But you need to forget about this Rule of Power about disdaining things you cannot have; it's a stupid rule. Did Alexander disdain Persia? Did Henry Ford disdain the horseless carriage because he was poor, uneducated, and everybody thought he was a joke? The only way, is to believe that you can achieve anything, and to get started doing so.

Don't take the easy road.