Complications at Work

[stevey_2000]

Fellow DJ's,

I've recently been hitting on a girl i met at work, i'd say she is an 8!, so anyway me and this girl went out on a date and was seen by another workmate kissing and fondling each other on friday and now at work it's got round that we are going out together which is very embarrassing for us both.

Now me and this girl actually went back to my place afterwards and had sex BUT they don't know this at work, only that we we're hitting it off in the pub, now the question i ask you, my fellow DJ's is how would you treat this as it's highly embarrassing for us both because it's got all around the entire workplace (300+ members of staff) and also another workmate who i turned down ages ago is keen on speading a load of rubbish about us both, should i just stop all personal contact with this so-called girl?

comments?

 

[bp1974]

If you had sex with her and you now cut off all contact with her completely you'll be storing up a heap of trouble from her later on. She'll hate you, and who needs that.

Forget the rumours and gossipmongers for now - what do YOU want to do with her? Was it a ONS? Do you want to take things further?

bp1974

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

1. Your fooked man!

2. Never shat where you eat!!

If you are getting heat from others at work refer back to #1.

M.A.C.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Hmm, 2 threads in a row I'm agreeing w/ BP here... damn the begrudgers and see what happens with you 2.

One place I worked a while back a couple started going out, then seemed to break it off. Secretly they were still going out. When the guy had his new job in the bag they finally came out and admitted that they were engaged. A week later he started his new job, with no stress.

There's a couple of couples in my current company - no problems there, but not necessarily advised.

If you work day-to-day with the person then it could become a problem.


Matt? I found your post unhelpful - less mature than normally expected from an older sosuave member. Oh well.

Osc.

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

It's the time old suggestions. You know that DJ's always suggest not to date at work...it never works. As a DJ you shoudl appear to be a challenge, if you date a girl at work then you will become a daily fixture and the challenge is null and void.

Just being blunt thats all...

M.A.C.

 

[MDgood]

Dude, have fun while you can, because you're heading for a hell of a lot of trouble down the road.

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