Charlie_aus
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See if anyone can work this one out:
I am in a LTR and another girl who I met recently and knows about LTR started to hit on me and we have fvcked.
The new girl was in a LTR about a 1 year ago for several years and when it ended I understand it was pretty serious.
The way I see it she is after me for one of three things:
1. Sex
2. Really likes me and wants a LTR (pretty ****an unlikely me thinkgs)
3. Some sort of game - perhaps to play me off against someone else?
The sad thing is, and I know this is AFC behaviour, but I actually quite like this new chick. I figure if I want to get her into a LTR and dump current LTR I have to play the game very carefully.
I have been very C+F so far, and I know it because she has commented on it. I have also, at least left her with the impression that I have other women available if I need them. Pretty standard DJ stuff here.
However I think I dont want to over do this beause I suspect that she is very untrusting of men after her LTR ended - which had to hurt.
But again my thoughts bring me back to the fact that no matter what I want - she could just be after sex?
Anyone have any opinions on this one?
-Charlie
I am in a LTR and another girl who I met recently and knows about LTR started to hit on me and we have fvcked.
The new girl was in a LTR about a 1 year ago for several years and when it ended I understand it was pretty serious.
The way I see it she is after me for one of three things:
1. Sex
2. Really likes me and wants a LTR (pretty ****an unlikely me thinkgs)
3. Some sort of game - perhaps to play me off against someone else?
The sad thing is, and I know this is AFC behaviour, but I actually quite like this new chick. I figure if I want to get her into a LTR and dump current LTR I have to play the game very carefully.
I have been very C+F so far, and I know it because she has commented on it. I have also, at least left her with the impression that I have other women available if I need them. Pretty standard DJ stuff here.
However I think I dont want to over do this beause I suspect that she is very untrusting of men after her LTR ended - which had to hurt.
But again my thoughts bring me back to the fact that no matter what I want - she could just be after sex?
Anyone have any opinions on this one?
-Charlie