ThatGuyOverThere
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Last year, my roommate had a huge crush on this one girl and ended up falling in love with her (at least he told her he loved her). They had a "thing" that lasted about a couple weeks but he got too needy/clingy so she told him she wanted to just be friends. Well it's nearly a year later and he still hasn't gotten over her, in fact he's goes to counseling every week for depression/alcoholism because of her. She recently broke up with her boyfriend, and hasn't told my roommate because she doesn't want to give him false hope.
I used to have a thing for this girl last year but didn't receive many signals in return and decided to just be friends. Right now I would probably consider her my best friend and she has told me the same thing. However, I've noticed that since she broke up with her boyfriend she's been a lot more flirtatious with me, and she has outright told me she's attracted to me. So far I've mostly ignored these things because of the roommate situation and because I currently have a crush on another girl. Unfortunately this other girl has a boyfriend already
down: ), and I've been trying unsuccessfully to get over her the past few weeks (I've been trying to meet other girls but I go to a school with a lot of fugly chicks and this girl is not only pretty hot but also really interesting to talk to, it's difficult finding a good replacement for that). I've tried the "hooking up with random girls" method on the weekend and it somewhat helped but they're still just hook-ups, which is not what I want. My dilemma is, pursuing the first girl could help me in the "getting over it" process, but I obviously don't want to cause my roommate to be further depressed. I feel like a selfish bastard for even considering this, though it sucks that my roommate's inability to get over this girl could be standing in the way of something great - even though now I sound like a hypocrite because I'm having similar problems. :crazy: What to do?
I used to have a thing for this girl last year but didn't receive many signals in return and decided to just be friends. Right now I would probably consider her my best friend and she has told me the same thing. However, I've noticed that since she broke up with her boyfriend she's been a lot more flirtatious with me, and she has outright told me she's attracted to me. So far I've mostly ignored these things because of the roommate situation and because I currently have a crush on another girl. Unfortunately this other girl has a boyfriend already
down: ), and I've been trying unsuccessfully to get over her the past few weeks (I've been trying to meet other girls but I go to a school with a lot of fugly chicks and this girl is not only pretty hot but also really interesting to talk to, it's difficult finding a good replacement for that). I've tried the "hooking up with random girls" method on the weekend and it somewhat helped but they're still just hook-ups, which is not what I want. My dilemma is, pursuing the first girl could help me in the "getting over it" process, but I obviously don't want to cause my roommate to be further depressed. I feel like a selfish bastard for even considering this, though it sucks that my roommate's inability to get over this girl could be standing in the way of something great - even though now I sound like a hypocrite because I'm having similar problems. :crazy: What to do?