Complicated Situation - Need Help

zeroelement713

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Okay, bear with me, this is pretty long. So back in November there was our Homecoming dance. At first I didn't know who to go with, 'cuz I got stuck chasing after one of those flirty girls, you know the type, and she found a date really fast. So then I was gonna go as friends with this girl I didn't even like that much, but she said that she'd "think about it" before answering. Now, if she said no, the only person left to go with would be my ex girlfriend, and that is totally messed up.

Okay, I'm a freshman, and when my friend asked me if I was going to homecoming (they're admitted by couple in our school, you can't go alone) I had to be honest, and I said that I wasn't sure. After I told him that, within thirty seconds I was going with a senior. Yeah, good friend, idn't he? Well, anyways, for the next month I talked with the senior a lot and we got to know each other a lot better, and then I asked her out, and she said yes. I couldn't believe it.

Now, a couple days later, there was this Marching Band competition (we were both in Marching Band) and you could hardly seperate us all day. It was great... but then I screwed up. On the bus ride back I sat next to her, and then I put my arm over her shoulder and started caressing her hand. Back then it seemed like the right thing to do, but now I wanna kick myself in the head for it. We'd been going out for two days, and I was acting like we were in love! So, after the homecoming, and a few more not so big mistakes on my part, but mistakes all the same, she broke up with me the next day.

So I still couldn't figure out what went wrong, so I just moved on. I went out with another girl about a month later, a freshman, and then I started having dreams about the senior. I thought I had figured everything out, but now I'm not so sure. Well, my relationship with the freshman girl, frankly, sucked, from beginning to end. We broke up a little later.

Okay, where I'm at now. See, my school decided to have a Valentine's day dance this year, and I'm stuck in the same situation as before, with no date, and no clue how to get one. I just can't get the senior off my mind, and I really don't want to like her, I just do. And the way it happened (she sent a friend to break up with me) I just kinda had no closure on it. I don't know what to do, and I need help. This isn't like me, and I've got to figure this out!
 

PleasureKing

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you know, you DONT have to go to the dance. you know you can find a girl OUTSIDE of school. did it occur to you that maybe the senior was desperate? you can find better girls. you know your not desperate, but your really giving off the impression that you are! so stop and ask yourself, "should i really dwell on the fact that i dont have a girl to go to the dance?". just take your time, alot can happen between now and Feb 14th (im assuming thats the day of the dance, or something close to it).

so you had a dream about the senior girl. so what? your conscious mind is not thinking about her, but your subconscious mind is. its hard controlling that, time will let it pass.

save yourself the depression by focusing on improving yourself.
stop caring about what others would think about you.
start caring about whats right for you.

peace
The PleasureKing
 

Zerotwoonenine

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errr the jouney to become a good DJ is long and hard one, it takes dedication, devotion and practice, if u r willing, u wil be a good senior DJ within half a year, then u will reap the rewards.
Dont be upset by set backs, these r just minor ones,go through this site and look at all the good posts, read the bible, then practice.
No one can sumup how to DJ in a post, its just too long, it takes knowledge and practice.
 
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