InvisibleMan
Don Juan
OK completed week 3 of the Boot Camp:
Goal was to approach 10 women I would be interested in and have a conversation. Did that (although I pretty much did this in week 2). Asked 7 women out and they all said no for one reason or other.
The point of at least the early Book Camp weeks seem to be to get over fear of approaching women, but I don't have too much fear of that. I'm just tired of women saying "I have a boyfriend." It just gets old. Everybody has a boyfriend around here and they all seem to love 'em. I bet if I was Brad Pitt they wouldn't have a boyfriend. LOL
Many articles on here talk about watching for the "signs" that a woman is interested in you. I never get those signs. Women are nice and polite to me. That's it. If I smile at them they always smile back. Women never initiate a smile. If I press for a date for coffee or something they start hemming and hawing after I talk with them awhile, most say they have a boyfriend, some reluctantly give phone numbers but some have been fake and the rest never return phone calls.
Why am I so psychologically castrated? Women seem to think of me as a eunuch. I just don't get it. I'm in better shape than 90% of all the men around me, I dress nice, smell nice, and don't come across as creepy or needy. People say I am masculine, handsome - don't come across as gay or anything, but its as if women see straight through me regardless if I am ****y, confident, or whatever.
It's actually becoming quite amazing. I can't even get dates from 300 pound women or women with missing teeth! It's gone past the point of frustration into the realm of supernatural. I think I need to check myself into Harvard or Cambridge or something and have a team of pyschologists study me for a couple of years.
- Invisible Man
Goal was to approach 10 women I would be interested in and have a conversation. Did that (although I pretty much did this in week 2). Asked 7 women out and they all said no for one reason or other.
The point of at least the early Book Camp weeks seem to be to get over fear of approaching women, but I don't have too much fear of that. I'm just tired of women saying "I have a boyfriend." It just gets old. Everybody has a boyfriend around here and they all seem to love 'em. I bet if I was Brad Pitt they wouldn't have a boyfriend. LOL
Many articles on here talk about watching for the "signs" that a woman is interested in you. I never get those signs. Women are nice and polite to me. That's it. If I smile at them they always smile back. Women never initiate a smile. If I press for a date for coffee or something they start hemming and hawing after I talk with them awhile, most say they have a boyfriend, some reluctantly give phone numbers but some have been fake and the rest never return phone calls.
Why am I so psychologically castrated? Women seem to think of me as a eunuch. I just don't get it. I'm in better shape than 90% of all the men around me, I dress nice, smell nice, and don't come across as creepy or needy. People say I am masculine, handsome - don't come across as gay or anything, but its as if women see straight through me regardless if I am ****y, confident, or whatever.
It's actually becoming quite amazing. I can't even get dates from 300 pound women or women with missing teeth! It's gone past the point of frustration into the realm of supernatural. I think I need to check myself into Harvard or Cambridge or something and have a team of pyschologists study me for a couple of years.
- Invisible Man