communication and discipline in LTR's it's an Art

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Exactly - it’s simply a litmus test on your strength of your own relationship. If she flirts back, that’s something to consider.

Even then, you might still be looking at an automatic response, not desire.

My women always know when I answer the phone and there's a woman on the other end. Something changes in my voice when I talk with a woman that isn't there when I talk with men. So it's not about her flirting back, but how much she's flirting back.

While I accept insecurity from women, I truly think that a man who wants to be with beautiful women shouldn't be this insecure that he worries about men flirting with his woman. If his woman is in any way desirable, men will flirt with her.

And since most women are not very direct in rejecting, she might on the surface appear to mirror, but she likely unaffected by their adoration if she loves you. And if she isn't, you shouldn't be with her.

 

[jhonny9546]

If she flirts back, that’s something to consider.

Remove the "if"

if she loves you

Defining love is still a quest. That's so temporary and it could happen in the moment she's a little bored.