coming up with original material

[SPS]

So I've read the game, art of seduction etc. and seem to be becoming less of an AFC, yet one of my biggest problems seems to be coming up with original material. I've been using canned material up until now which seems to have worked but at the same time I don't really feel as if its my own personality I'm projecting. The trouble is I don't seem to be able to thing of original stuff in the spur of the moment meaning I'm either resorting to canned material or more usually f*cking it up. Any thoughts?

PS: Hi. I've been lurking for a while

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

If you don't have a natural delivery (whether you're using canned lines or not), things aren't going to work. I approached a pair of girls sitting down at a bar the other night and asked them the common "who lies more, men or women?" opener. The girl responded with something like "are you really asking because you want to know, or is this a pick-up line?" Suave was kind of out the window as my alcohol intake made being my usual smooth self a bit less successful, but we talked for a while and it was still worth it.

Canned material can be a nice crutch. It can help you get to a place where you won't need to use it anymore. If you're nervous about approaching women or worried about not being able to think of something to say, having a couple of things in the back of your head can be helpful. Once you do this enough, things will be more natural, and it will all fall into place.

 

[sorin]

you can be very original by being yourself...

wait you don't like what you are right now?

then change what you are right now into the person you want to be... step by step...

and talk from that place... generate your happy state by good experiences... learn how to relax, what you love about the world...

and then just talk about YOUR world not some stupid canned routines someone once invented...

it's hard to be original when seduction for you means telling "poetry" and not developing your personality and communication skills!

all the best,

Sorin