would you study with a girl your really attracted to, and got rejected from? This girl I use to like asked me to study, she really doesn't understand the material. I know as a fact it ain't going any where, she has a boyfriend .. etc. Theres no benefit for me causeI know my **** pretty well. I'm kinda reluctant to do it, I always treated her really nice and stuff, but when I got rejected by her, she then only talked to me when she needed help.
But then again I kinda don't wanna be a ass.
Originally posted by jayhu12 would you study with a girl your really attracted to, and got rejected from? This girl I use to like asked me to study, she really doesn't understand the material. I know as a fact it ain't going any where, she has a boyfriend .. etc. Theres no benefit for me causeI know my **** pretty well. I'm kinda reluctant to do it, I always treated her really nice and stuff, but when I got rejected by her, she then only talked to me when she needed help.
But then again I kinda don't wanna be a ass.
Stop being such a stereotypical Asian AFC. I see yellow male-bytches like you on campuses ALL THE TIME - these Asian guys with pretty high-lighted hair following around skinny Asian girls lugging around prada handbags while teetering on 5 inch high heels. I don't understand why so many Asian girls have so many Asian guys by the balls. Why are they so damn whipped by these 85-pound CHICKS?? It's the gayest shyt I've ever seen in my life, and it's rampant within the Asian community. It's gayness to tha fullest - and it needs to STOP.
Now grab those Asian balls and kick that hoe to the curb. Do NOT study with her - ESPECIALLY when you know your material better than she does. You have nothing to gain. Just let another Asian AFC take your place, and don't waste your time. Use that time to go work out, play sports, drink with friends, or hit on other girls.
(And if you're not Asian, just pretend you never read this.)
Originally posted by jayhu12 would you study with a girl your really attracted to, and got rejected from? This girl I use to like asked me to study, she really doesn't understand the material. I know as a fact it ain't going any where, she has a boyfriend .. etc. Theres no benefit for me causeI know my **** pretty well. I'm kinda reluctant to do it, I always treated her really nice and stuff, but when I got rejected by her, she then only talked to me when she needed help.
But then again I kinda don't wanna be a ass.
you say, "sure, i may be able to spare you some time if you need a little help...i actually like to explain ideas to people because it helps me to understand them better."
this is exactly true..explaining topics helps YOU to understand them better.
you dont have to say exactly what i wrote, but you MUST include the following ideas when u tell her:
1. you MIGHT be able to spare some time
2. youre going to help her because it will help YOU
by making sure you include these, you prevent yourself from looking like a little bytch whos being used.
you say, "sure, i may be able to spare you some time if you need a little help...i actually like to explain ideas to people because it helps me to understand them better."
this is exactly true..explaining topics helps YOU to understand them better.
you dont have to say exactly what i wrote, but you MUST include the following ideas when u tell her:
1. you MIGHT be able to spare some time
2. youre going to help her because it will help YOU
by making sure you include these, you prevent yourself from looking like a little bytch whos being used.
Er, No. It will make you look like someone who's trying to convince themselves that they're not a bytch who's being used. Bottom line, if you don't need to study anymore and you choose to do so for her, you're still doing what she wants at no benefit to yourself.
Original poster - you're not being an ass by refusing to be used. Stop being so nice to girls who don't care about you.
Jayhu12: "Helping" a girl study, when you do not want/need to, and you are not her BF or FB or whatever, has to be the most AFC thing going. Why don't you wear a welcome mat on your forehead?
Man do I hate the AFCs who do this stuff. They are the cause of women getting away with being b1tches... they only become b1tches because the AFCs let them get away with it. And I used to be one! Thank God I am cured!
Stop being such a stereotypical Asian AFC. I see yellow male-bytches like you on campuses ALL THE TIME - these Asian guys with pretty high-lighted hair following around skinny Asian girls lugging around prada handbags while teetering on 5 inch high heels. I don't understand why so many Asian girls have so many Asian guys by the balls. Why are they so damn whipped by these 85-pound CHICKS?? It's the gayest shyt I've ever seen in my life, and it's rampant within the Asian community. It's gayness to tha fullest - and it needs to STOP.
Now grab those Asian balls and kick that hoe to the curb. Do NOT study with her - ESPECIALLY when you know your material better than she does. You have nothing to gain. Just let another Asian AFC take your place, and don't waste your time. Use that time to go work out, play sports, drink with friends, or hit on other girls.
(And if you're not Asian, just pretend you never read this.)
hahahaha, this is the exact same thing that's happening to my friend. He sits beside this girl he liked, found out she has a boyfriend. We are both asian btw.
Unfortunately, I sit "near" my friend, since he saves me a seat. Have to answer this girl's questions. But I heard she's rich, with a father who's an accountant. So hopefully I'm doing some networking for the future.
Don't help her unless you get something out of it, but even still, going out of your way to teach her something is stupid.
how about asking her "whats in it for me?". Time is money, and money is my b!tch, without my time, how am i supposed to get rich? (sorry, im in ryhming mode the past few days) Tell her to pay you for your time. tell her you don't go looking for handouts, so you don't givem either, if she wants you to use your time then she should pay you for it. (alternate forms of payment acceptable) like maybe a ====)
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Stop being such a stereotypical Asian AFC. I see yellow male-bytches like you on campuses ALL THE TIME - these Asian guys with pretty high-lighted hair following around skinny Asian girls lugging around prada handbags while teetering on 5 inch high heels. I don't understand why so many Asian girls have so many Asian guys by the balls. Why are they so damn whipped by these 85-pound CHICKS?? It's the gayest shyt I've ever seen in my life, and it's rampant within the Asian community. It's gayness to tha fullest - and it needs to STOP.
Now grab those Asian balls and kick that hoe to the curb. Do NOT study with her - ESPECIALLY when you know your material better than she does. You have nothing to gain. Just let another Asian AFC take your place, and don't waste your time. Use that time to go work out, play sports, drink with friends, or hit on other girls.
(And if you're not Asian, just pretend you never read this.)
I personally like to call women on the BS when they try to use their charms to get my help (since they all know I'm a fricken genius). Just say something like "don't bother trying to charm me or anything. I know you're trying to use me. Admit it."
Well, thats not exactly how I would say it, but I'm kinda blanking out right now. You get the idea, right? It works for me, anyway.
Isn't there some way you could use this situation to your advantage?
A beautiful girl wants something from you.
Should he cuss her out or something?
Like tell her:
"If you're too dumb to figure this stuff out yourself, what the hell are you good for? I don't need to be wasting my time with a brainless moron like you."
Why would you? Bacause you think you could win her over? Maybe you should be reminded that she's not interested in you and you NEXTed her. It's just that simple.
Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.
Don't know if you're responding to me or 2c2bt, but I personally just like calling people's BS. Just a petty way to make me feel superior about myself.
I don't know about you, but I help girls quite often. Their brains are not wired for physics, math, chem, biology, economics and many other things.
I am too lazy to study the material for myself. It's too easy/boring. If I explain physics to one girl, math to the other and chem to one more, I WILL REMEMBER ANYTHING I TAUGHT FOREVER. And the ho will forget it in a week, cause she doesn't really care.
Plus you still get a certain kind of relationship with the girl and there are ways to use it to your advantage.
Just make sure that you are doing this not because you want to get into her pants, but bcause you like it.
If you want to go ahead, if not then don't. What's so hard about it? If you do have some spare time, then teach her a few things here and there, she'll be grateful. If you don't have any spare time doing other things then tell her you're busy. You're making this a deal by even asking us this question. Your interest in her should not be relevent in this case.
I also agree with Ice cold here, teaching does allow one to remember more. I teacher others only when I have the time, if not tough luck.
I'm with these guys. Its a pretty AFC move. Tell her she can get her boyfriend to do it. If for nothing else, that makes her tell you "he isn't as smart as you are," and making her say that is just plain fun.
Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.
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