COLLEGE CHICKS: SURROUNDED BY DUDES; Help me out

[drixsa]

alright heres the deal:

i am at college visiting a friend.

we are hittin up a ton of parties prolly 4-5 last night

the problem is that most of em are frat parties

and there are like 2-3 dudes for every chick

my wingman is so-so but needs encouragement

the only problem is that any girl i talk to gets constantly surround by these frat boys

i need some tips to keep the conversation and the lady stuck on me

 

[regulus]

frat parties are not the place to meet women unless you're in that frat.

 

[Halo]

Frat parties aren't the place to meet anyone period. Unless you just really enjoy drinking warm Natural Light. When I lived in the dorms we always had way better parties than any of those jock straps were throwing.

I guess it depends on what you want. You'll definitely find physically attractive girls hanging around the frat guys (which, as you have noted, generally outnumber the girls by a large margin). It's a question of whether or not you can put up with their non-physical aspects, which are usually quite lackluster.

This brings to mind an issue often discussed here, the whole concept of being a "peacock". Some say standing out brings you more attention, yet the majority of girls at my school seem to be attracted to guys who are essentially identical. My school by itself probably accounts for 10% of Abercrombie's annual revenue. A sad commentary, but I digress. So while these girls are in many cases physically beautiful, I am finding myself less interested in them if for other reason than the fact that they're so ordinary in all other respects.

 

[cgraz]

drixsa: This exact thing happened to me wednesday night at a frat party. This girl was the hottest I've ever seen in my life, and she had one of those shirts that just covers her chest and shows her entire stomach, a nice belly ring, and tight ass jeans that did her a lot of justice...

Everyone in the party was checking this girl out. Everytime I wanted to approach, there were like 5 guys all around her, and it was easy to tell they were all hitting on her and she wasn't buying it. She kept looking around. What I found works great is just go around and talk to other girls. Use them as social proof. Or, if this girl is there with friends, go talk to them. She's going to continually be eyeing out her friends. Then, keep flirting with the girl from a distance with eye contact and smiling. Let her know you're interested. Check her body language and all for signs of interest. Now she'll eiher approach you or she won't. If she doesn't, but was showing signs of interest, walk over and say something like, "So were you just going to keep checking me out all night but not approach me? Are you always this shy?"

or whatever works for you. Then from the start you already have an edge over the 30 other chumps that have been hitting on her. Just continue working your game and it should be an easy close.

If people constantly approach, then get her # and come back to her later if you want to do a full close that night. If not, just give her a call some other time.

Cgraz

 

[Eric Smith]

College parties where I'm at are sucking ass so far. I just came back from a kegger last night (better to meet chicks) and most of them were so far gone that they could not keep a conversation with you. I just go to parties for girls to flash me. I just try to talk to girls during the weekdays during school.

Frat parties suck. I went to one and there are a few hot chicks there but most of them are taken by the frat boys.

 

[drixsa]

aight thanx for the good word

i was hopin for some more solid tips though

im lookin out for some house/aparment parties tonite

later

 

[Intense]

frat parties are not the place to meet women unless you're in that frat.

"Frat"? Come on guys. It's Fraternity. Do you call your country cvnt?

 

[isotope]

yell, "the keg is almost gone, grab beer while you can!" and all the frat boys will run off and you can DJ the girl

or just differentiate yourself... those frat boys do all sort of act the same... if you can show her that she should be bored with them and not with you, maybe you can get ehr.

and consider, is this bimbo really the girl you want? yes, sorority chicks are HOT, but they are usually shallow. They groom themselves so much and only care about whatever trend society says is cool.

 

[drixsa]

aight guys

i had better luck last night

the truth is most of the girls are just stupid freshman or they are shallow(HOTT) wh0res

i have been at a loss the other nights b/c all the girls there have known all the frat guys in advance

at the univ. that i am at you need to be on the "list" or atleast know a brother to get u in

its like a huge c0ck block

its funny b/c a lot of the girls there wanted a$$ more than i did

another issue is that b/c 3-4 guys will persue a girl at once shell put herself on a pedistal

so i had a chance to use some good ol neg-hits

that usually isnt my style but i didnt feel bad doing it

i did my best DJ'ing though at the dorm, the pizza shop, and the house party we went to

its a bit harder to approach with words, like a loud club, b/c the music is so damn loud

i did find though that a good place to chat it up with the girls was in the lines waiting for the bathroom.

i pretty much am playin wingman now to set my boy up with a bunch of chicks for his first year of college

aight ill be postin some stuff later

 

[JohnGalt]

Yeah the whole college party thing tends to give girls an advantage because often times so many guys are going for them there that it goes to their heads. Ive found that just randomly meeting chicks during class or on campus or extra-curricular activities works out better. Also just making friends with girls can lead to the benefits of them introducing you to their friends.

 

[dionysius_d]

i don't live in the US.. but i understand the concept..

you don't have to go to a frat party to find guys outnumbering girls 5 to 1.. just try most popular night clubs in the city..

except at the frat party, there's nothing stopping a swarm of c0cks hovering around a chick all night.. at least in a club, guys will try and then move on.

 

[seulaxplaya]

sounds like a gay frat party. i usually goto frat parties whree there are tons of girls. anyways. u dont go to parties to talk to chicks. you goto parties to get numbers and have someone go home with u that night. plain and simple. say as little as possible. make eye contact make them laugh. drink. dance. heres a small example. last night i was talking to this chick got her name and basics. i grabbe her hand took her to the dance floor grinded with her for awhile. stepped out for awhile to get some beers. came back drank and danced. Later on we are outside and she spills a little bit of beer on me so i have a full can and just pour it all over her. In her hair breasts everywhere. So she retailates and then just charges me and starts kissin me and grabbing me. I make the comment that we are both sticky and shes like wheres ther shower. So I lead her up there and ill leave the rest up to u. Lesson here is joke around, dont talk that much. take risks by moving fast and making it obvious what you want. I dont recommend the beer thing because that will most likely get ur ass kicked by someone. I am sure u got hte point though