cold street approach solution

[coolness]

Hi guys, this is how I do it:

I try and reverse the pressure.


FIRST SCENARIO:

I look at my best and choose a sunny,friendly day.

She moves towards me. I want her to feel my presence. I´m calm, I walk confident, I give her good eye-contact (don´t lock your eye´s on her´s, move calmly between her eyes and her forhead), I relax my facial muscles. Don´t underestimate your effect on her. If your´re her type this is already shock and awe to her. I wait for her reaction:

- She shows some sort of weakness ... she blinks, looks to the ground, looks away but looks again ... in this case I give her a little relaxed smile (don´t grin like an a..)
- She shows resistance by doing what I did to her, she gives me confident eye-contact...I give her the smile
- She ignores me after she sees me by looking to the side and keeping it there...beeing bold is risky, she obviously doesn´t like my look, is not in the mood, has a boyfriend, etc... that´s only for a master-smooth-talker

My little smile puts even more pressure on her:

- she returns the smile... I say “hi” and give her a male-sounding “stop!” if she doesn´t stop on her own
- she freezes me out by only doing the confident eye-contact... give her a “Hi” anyways, maybe you took her breath away
- she react shy in some form...give her a “hi” and the “stop!” if it´s necessary

I keep up the pressure by doing the body-language I mentioned. Now that I have her attention (hopefully she stops, i only count an attempt if she stops) I give her my line:

- if it´s the hot type who get´s hit on all day I say (after giving her a ****y smile and a deep look into her eyes): “It´s so nice of you to come to town because of me.” That´s all. It works. (Well, it sounds just the way I want it on german. That´s were I live. I don´t know if it would sound too ... something on english, it´s not my first language). If her IQ is not less than 90 she will get it and be amused. If she doesn´t get it put pressure on her by asking her after a dramatic pause if she doesn´t get hit on that often.
- If she seems to be the shy type just say “Hi, I´m (your name)”. Use dramatic pauses against her. Make her feel dumb and guilty because she didn´t get that it´s her turn to react.

Now you can kick in the convo, or ask her out whatever.


SECOND SCENARIO:

She walks in front of you. Well you get my point. Just reverse the pressure. Pass by her, turn around and give her a bold look, smile, say “hi”. Or get her attention by saying “hi” (don´t scare her by standing right next to her when you do that) And forget about the chicks who are in a real rush. It would destroy your calm appearence if you run after her.

 

[coolness]

It´s like a good game of chess, trap your enemies by making them move into the direction you want them to move. Never let them have the initative.

A simple example:

her: "I have a boyfriend"
me: "That´s OK, I´m not jealous"
her: "But he is"
me: "He doesn´t seem to be that confident"

most women say "but he is", that gives me the opportunity to say something negativ about her boyfriend and she can´t blame me for it.

Another one:

her: "your way of approaching is so rude" (she means the cold pickup)
me: "how else could i possibly approach?"
her: "I don´t know, just ... nicer"
me: "You don´t get hit on that often, do you?"

Not that many guys do cold street approaches. If she says yes, I do get approached she looks like a naive lair. And she won´t admit that she´s unexperienced, either. I win, a neghit she can´t blame me for.

 

[jwhite17]

coolness,
good tips, I have a couple of questions because I'm curious. How many girls do you approach a day? how many actually stop? What is your success rate with this method? Also, I say hi and smile to girls all the time around my college campus, none have stopped, why do you think that is?

 

[coolness]

did you tell them to stop? In a calm but demanding way, like it's the only socially accepted thing for them to do?

I approach about 2 or sometimes 3 women a day. It's hard to spot honestly beautiful women, there are not that many of them around here.

Most of the scenario one women stop. (I don't count the women who totally ignore me). The scenario two women are mostly curious about what I'm gonna say and keep on walking next to me.

more then half of the women give me the "I have a boyfriend" line. I never got a number in this situation, but in most cases I managed to get an honourable "thanks for asking".

about 2 out of 10 hate me for my approach and walk away without a comment

1 out of 10 gives me her number, or an Email-address. I don't give out mine. I count an approach as an approach if she gives me the opportunity to talk to her.

I'm not into dating yet, I want to get this step right, first.