Hi,
Just wanted some feedback of how you guys see the situation so far regarding the following:
1. Cold approached gorgeous girl on a Sunday in a department store.
2. Complimented her on her outfit, a bit of fluff talk, got her number. Actually when I said we should keep in touch she volunteered her number and asked me to confirm by ringing her so she could have my number.
3. Text her on Thursday....just saying "....unusual the way we met, but I saw you, I liked yours style and wanted to meet you; so i did. How are you?"
This is the kinda txt I always send first time I contact a girl after a cold approach. I always get a positive response.
Anyway she responded, "....if you want to see me again you can..." and I said i'd call her in a bit as I was just popping into the gym.
4. Called her, chatted. She's very straight and to the point. So kept convo' short and arranged date for Saturday...but I said i would confirm as I had things to do.
5. She said, I'm available Friday, Saturday or Sunday......Wow never heard that from a girl before....I told you she is straight.
6. Rang Saturday, confirmed pick-up for Sat at 5pm. Picked her up....went upto her flat but was in a rush as I had double parked.
7. Anyway, took her out to a fireworks display in London....busy....so managed to get Kino in...went to funfair afterwards. Finished early and then went to a bar and had drinks for a few hours.
8 Basically, the conversation went well throughout the evening, a bit off Kino and overall I felt I was in control and leading the evening.....She asked me throughout at one time "you must have a lot of girls that fancy you right now".....I was driving at the time and I just smiled and said ..."a few". ANY HOUGHTS ON WHY SHE WOULD SAY AND DID I RESPOND OKAY....(I do understand but I just want to get your thoughts guys...?)
9 The bar closed after 2.5 hours and we were walking out of the hotel and she was trying to find if the ****tail bar was open. But the concierge said only to hotel guests. I think she wanted to stay and chat more.
10. Anyway, dropped her to her flat and kissed her good night ....on the cheeks only.....She didn't invite me up....Anyway she said you can call me again if you want to see me. I said you can call me as you have my number.
11. text her the next day (Sunday) sayng "we had a good time and that she's quite refreshing"......she said thanks, take care.
----Anyway, a bit of background info here....She's around 22, Super rich oriental student living in the heart of London, bored of her college friends especially the guys, a bit of a loner, when I cold approached her on the Sun' she was dressed all gucci/armani style and she was just going to by some sandwiches as her flat is down the road from there. Very straight and direct girl.
Me, average earner, smart dresser but I'm much older than her...37....she doesn't know as she hasn't asked and I haven't told her....she would guess I am 30....and i can easily pass for that. My game has been developing and getting much better since i've been reading SS. Further I am seeing another girl which I met a few backs in a cold approach.
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12. So come monday my mobile phone crashes and i lose all my numbers and HERS!!
13. Anyway, i decide on Wed to pass by and just get her number. Normally i would never call on someone uninvited...it's just rude! No plans to stay or anything so i don't look deperate. Knock on the door at 7.30pm No answer.....come back an hour later 8.30pm....no answer.
14. Come back Thursday nock at 8.30pm....no answer.....But had bought a simple card today just saying lost your number please txt me so i can call you. I decide to go for a coffee locally and comeback....If no answer then I would just post card.
15. Got a call from her when i was having coffee. She said you were just at my house what's up. HER INTERCOM TO THE FLAT HAS A CAMERA SO OBVIOUSLY SHE'S BEEN WATCHING ME....i thought these cameras only operate when she answers and a light comes on...WRONGG!
16. I just say the truth...lost your number and was just passing through to get her number...she say's well you have it now...maybe in a bit of an abrupt tone as if she's pissed off. I said i was just down the road....but before i could finish she said i don't have anyone round my flat during the week as she studies. Anyway I said i only came for the number as i had lost it. So I would chat to her soon and take care. On the way back to my car I dropped the card into her letterbox.
SO OBVIOUSLY SHE WAS WATCHING ME AS WELL ON WEDNESDAY...TWICE...I MUST HAVE LOKKED LIKE A REAL DESPERADO :-(
17. Anyway, this awkward situation was bugging me.....so, I rang her Saturday...No answer. She txts me a 20 mins later saying whats up?....I txt her back saying nothing and I don't feel ike txting so I will call her in 10 mins.
18. I basically wanted to explain what happened and that I was not the type of guy who would do what I did....as it probably creeped her out.
The behaviour was not congruent with my game and I wanted to try and put it back on track. By being direct and honest and telling her the situation as it was.
19. Anyway rang her and spoke to her....just said the other day was only because I lost her number and that I would never pop round someone's house uninvited. She said don't worry about it....i continued and told her i don't want to her to think i'm one of the weirdos she's met in the past etc....She said she wasn't my girlfriend and i didn't have to explain. Further, she said you were here on Wednesday? I said YES straight away (honesty being the best policy in this case, as she probably watched me on her camera...twice.....what fool I feel like)
Anyway once I had said my peace....I said we'll chat soon and bye.
I beleive she is feeling...Is this guy a weirdo, stalker, crazy? But, it may run through her mind maybe he's genuine and just did lose the number. Hopefully, dropping the card would have supported my case (ie: I came for the number nd nothinh else)
Anyway, what do you guys think of the situation. I'm thinking give her time to absorb the situation...then just act normal and ring her to arrange a date?
Just wanted some feedback of how you guys see the situation so far regarding the following:
1. Cold approached gorgeous girl on a Sunday in a department store.
2. Complimented her on her outfit, a bit of fluff talk, got her number. Actually when I said we should keep in touch she volunteered her number and asked me to confirm by ringing her so she could have my number.
3. Text her on Thursday....just saying "....unusual the way we met, but I saw you, I liked yours style and wanted to meet you; so i did. How are you?"
This is the kinda txt I always send first time I contact a girl after a cold approach. I always get a positive response.
Anyway she responded, "....if you want to see me again you can..." and I said i'd call her in a bit as I was just popping into the gym.
4. Called her, chatted. She's very straight and to the point. So kept convo' short and arranged date for Saturday...but I said i would confirm as I had things to do.
5. She said, I'm available Friday, Saturday or Sunday......Wow never heard that from a girl before....I told you she is straight.
6. Rang Saturday, confirmed pick-up for Sat at 5pm. Picked her up....went upto her flat but was in a rush as I had double parked.
7. Anyway, took her out to a fireworks display in London....busy....so managed to get Kino in...went to funfair afterwards. Finished early and then went to a bar and had drinks for a few hours.
8 Basically, the conversation went well throughout the evening, a bit off Kino and overall I felt I was in control and leading the evening.....She asked me throughout at one time "you must have a lot of girls that fancy you right now".....I was driving at the time and I just smiled and said ..."a few". ANY HOUGHTS ON WHY SHE WOULD SAY AND DID I RESPOND OKAY....(I do understand but I just want to get your thoughts guys...?)
9 The bar closed after 2.5 hours and we were walking out of the hotel and she was trying to find if the ****tail bar was open. But the concierge said only to hotel guests. I think she wanted to stay and chat more.
10. Anyway, dropped her to her flat and kissed her good night ....on the cheeks only.....She didn't invite me up....Anyway she said you can call me again if you want to see me. I said you can call me as you have my number.
11. text her the next day (Sunday) sayng "we had a good time and that she's quite refreshing"......she said thanks, take care.
----Anyway, a bit of background info here....She's around 22, Super rich oriental student living in the heart of London, bored of her college friends especially the guys, a bit of a loner, when I cold approached her on the Sun' she was dressed all gucci/armani style and she was just going to by some sandwiches as her flat is down the road from there. Very straight and direct girl.
Me, average earner, smart dresser but I'm much older than her...37....she doesn't know as she hasn't asked and I haven't told her....she would guess I am 30....and i can easily pass for that. My game has been developing and getting much better since i've been reading SS. Further I am seeing another girl which I met a few backs in a cold approach.
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12. So come monday my mobile phone crashes and i lose all my numbers and HERS!!
13. Anyway, i decide on Wed to pass by and just get her number. Normally i would never call on someone uninvited...it's just rude! No plans to stay or anything so i don't look deperate. Knock on the door at 7.30pm No answer.....come back an hour later 8.30pm....no answer.
14. Come back Thursday nock at 8.30pm....no answer.....But had bought a simple card today just saying lost your number please txt me so i can call you. I decide to go for a coffee locally and comeback....If no answer then I would just post card.
15. Got a call from her when i was having coffee. She said you were just at my house what's up. HER INTERCOM TO THE FLAT HAS A CAMERA SO OBVIOUSLY SHE'S BEEN WATCHING ME....i thought these cameras only operate when she answers and a light comes on...WRONGG!
16. I just say the truth...lost your number and was just passing through to get her number...she say's well you have it now...maybe in a bit of an abrupt tone as if she's pissed off. I said i was just down the road....but before i could finish she said i don't have anyone round my flat during the week as she studies. Anyway I said i only came for the number as i had lost it. So I would chat to her soon and take care. On the way back to my car I dropped the card into her letterbox.
SO OBVIOUSLY SHE WAS WATCHING ME AS WELL ON WEDNESDAY...TWICE...I MUST HAVE LOKKED LIKE A REAL DESPERADO :-(
17. Anyway, this awkward situation was bugging me.....so, I rang her Saturday...No answer. She txts me a 20 mins later saying whats up?....I txt her back saying nothing and I don't feel ike txting so I will call her in 10 mins.
18. I basically wanted to explain what happened and that I was not the type of guy who would do what I did....as it probably creeped her out.
The behaviour was not congruent with my game and I wanted to try and put it back on track. By being direct and honest and telling her the situation as it was.
19. Anyway rang her and spoke to her....just said the other day was only because I lost her number and that I would never pop round someone's house uninvited. She said don't worry about it....i continued and told her i don't want to her to think i'm one of the weirdos she's met in the past etc....She said she wasn't my girlfriend and i didn't have to explain. Further, she said you were here on Wednesday? I said YES straight away (honesty being the best policy in this case, as she probably watched me on her camera...twice.....what fool I feel like)
Anyway once I had said my peace....I said we'll chat soon and bye.
I beleive she is feeling...Is this guy a weirdo, stalker, crazy? But, it may run through her mind maybe he's genuine and just did lose the number. Hopefully, dropping the card would have supported my case (ie: I came for the number nd nothinh else)
Anyway, what do you guys think of the situation. I'm thinking give her time to absorb the situation...then just act normal and ring her to arrange a date?