Alright. I've been to one so called club, all ages. It was pretty crap. Or I just don't know how to act at a club, so if anyone can help me out, tell what should I do? I know it sounds like a blunt question, but what? Start dancing for a bit then mingle? Or go straight in onto the chicks? And if I do start dancing, what the f**k do I do on the floor? :nervous:
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Ok, this is how its going to happen. Around like 8-10 people are coming. Going by car, 2 cars. Its going to be guys and girls. The girls are just friends, and the guys are all close friends of mine. All ages club, so were going to see alot of girls under 18. I just want a basic idea of what I can do with this.
be the life of the party with your friends, make them laugh here and there and make the girls laugh, dance with them and just be friendly, other girls will see this and think well wtf this guy is the **** everyone likes him.. why? i must find out.. and if you approach her you will already be a little hyped up for her seeing already how you are around your friends..
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this is something unexplainable via internet lol i would say the most important thing is moving your hips and looking confident.
Dont worry man im writing up a guide of "How To Walk in a Club".. ill also explain how to take a right leak in the bathroom and how to order a drink. Ill try to explain how you should talk too. If you want i can make an especial one for you about all the cool poses you can do while sitting, standing, etc to look "Alpha" and get all the chicks.
Daddy The Pimp
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actually , you dont wanna sit there and try to look alpha , tough , cool ...Chase12 said:
thats what every looser is doing . Just take a look . Most of them are standing by the bar with a beer , with nervous look , pretending like ALPHA and waiting for womens to approach .
What you wanna do is learn some dance moves . Until i learned some moves i felt alone in the club
. Im not expert but mostly , i just start dancing and get a girl to grind on me . Thats too damn easy .And just go there , dance , have fun . Be social with everyone
.Be the happy/fun guy that makes them feel great
. ( check this out http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=140701)And since you have girls coming over with you you have one of the keys . SOCIAL PROOF .
Clubs
Get there early before it starst to busy up, gives you time to get your first round of drinks in and chat with your mates about the night ahead. Also if you get there early you have more space to move around, trust me it can be tough getting around when the club is loaded.
Ok so the clubs is busying up, search out your targets and pinpoint ATLEAST 4 girls your gonna approach in the next hour. Approach each girl differently, if your new to the clubbing scene you need to figure out what works for you.
First girl: maybe order a drink from the bar when shes there and just start some general chit chat, she doesnt even need to be hot, but if you start talking to girls as soon as possible you'll get more into the swing of things. This way if things go bad then you just leave with your drink when it comes.
Second Girl: Approach her when shes sitting down, personally almost all my k-closes have come from this position, ask her about the night, introduce yourself to her friends, ask them where there from. I then tell them to come dance with me, i've pulled everytime i've used this strategy. If things go badly just say you've gotta get back to your friends.
Third Girl: The club i go to has a large mirror upstairs all the girls are usually preening themselves up next to it, wouldn't hurt to introduce yourself here. Never used this but it is a possibility.
Fourth Girl: Approach her while she's dancing. Pretty daunting at first, but sometimes you might even get lucky and have them pull you towards them while your walking to the bar or whatever. If your starting off mirror her, i'm no pro dancer man but no girl has ever shown me up on it. Keep eye contact keep your head up and lead her. Maybe twirl her, put her hand in yours, hands on her waist whatever, depends on the type of song. You could even sing some of the song with her! anything is better than nothing.
By having a go you will do more than 70% of guys in there. After your four approaches, evaluate what went right, and what went wrong. Disgard the bad approach set ups and improve the good. Maybe you'll be great at opening by dancing. Maybe you'll be good at keeping girls interested that you meet at the bar. I would suggest always going back to your mates tho. especially if they aren't approaching you dont wonna leave them feeling annoyed.
Aim to approach atleast 10 girls in total.
Report back how it goes.
Good luck man.
Ahh clubbing..where i perform at my BEST. For starters go with atleast one mate, i'd suggest 3 because atleast you'll have people to laugh and joke with.Badladman said:
Get there early before it starst to busy up, gives you time to get your first round of drinks in and chat with your mates about the night ahead. Also if you get there early you have more space to move around, trust me it can be tough getting around when the club is loaded.
Ok so the clubs is busying up, search out your targets and pinpoint ATLEAST 4 girls your gonna approach in the next hour. Approach each girl differently, if your new to the clubbing scene you need to figure out what works for you.
First girl: maybe order a drink from the bar when shes there and just start some general chit chat, she doesnt even need to be hot, but if you start talking to girls as soon as possible you'll get more into the swing of things. This way if things go bad then you just leave with your drink when it comes.
Second Girl: Approach her when shes sitting down, personally almost all my k-closes have come from this position, ask her about the night, introduce yourself to her friends, ask them where there from. I then tell them to come dance with me, i've pulled everytime i've used this strategy. If things go badly just say you've gotta get back to your friends.
Third Girl: The club i go to has a large mirror upstairs all the girls are usually preening themselves up next to it, wouldn't hurt to introduce yourself here. Never used this but it is a possibility.
Fourth Girl: Approach her while she's dancing. Pretty daunting at first, but sometimes you might even get lucky and have them pull you towards them while your walking to the bar or whatever. If your starting off mirror her, i'm no pro dancer man but no girl has ever shown me up on it. Keep eye contact keep your head up and lead her. Maybe twirl her, put her hand in yours, hands on her waist whatever, depends on the type of song. You could even sing some of the song with her! anything is better than nothing.
By having a go you will do more than 70% of guys in there. After your four approaches, evaluate what went right, and what went wrong. Disgard the bad approach set ups and improve the good. Maybe you'll be great at opening by dancing. Maybe you'll be good at keeping girls interested that you meet at the bar. I would suggest always going back to your mates tho. especially if they aren't approaching you dont wonna leave them feeling annoyed.
Aim to approach atleast 10 girls in total.
Report back how it goes.
Good luck man.