TheCaptain21
Don Juan
now heres the part everyone just loves to ask about, how do u meet girls in a club......when u walk into a club, especially in a big city, most people have money, dont let that bother you, you walk in there like you own the place, gotta have that attitude anyways but just a reminder, when u walk in don't rush to sit down, walk around scope the place out, walk past the girls sitting and lounging around give them a smile and a head nod or some kidn of aknowledgement, eye contact with everyone who looks your way naturally, be friendly with the people working there, talk to the djs, doormen, manager, owner converse with people create some social proof, talk to the dj too, a lotta girls are dj crazy so if u know the dj that gives u some free points.......the idea here is make your presence known so before you go humping some girls ass on the dance floor making a fool of yourself walk around and become familiar with the place as well as the people there........if your gonna drink dont get too trashed there is nothing worse than losing your balance on the dance floor cuz ur wasted and u wanna be in control of your emotions as well, drink your drink on the dance floor, sometiemes i'll just stand at the edge of the dance floor dirnking my drink watching either the dj or the people dancing, by standing in one place like this girls walk in and out of the dance floor and NOTICE you,
allright down to the nitty griddy, after doing all this its dance time, first off if you can't dance start buying house mixes or whatever it is that they play at the clubs you go to and just start dancing on your own time to get your body loosened up for the real thing (having smooth relaxed steps is key) the more you do it the better you get, and if you can't coordinate well with a girl then your just gonna have to go clubbin a lot and get expirience or just simply have a lot of sex, generally people grind in clubs and all gridning is is "dance floor sex" i see a lotta guys who just simply move back and forth with a girl, not gonna work these same girls rip on them for having one move, switch positions, move like you would in bed, i can't tell you how many girls have told me they feel like they are having sex with me when they dance with me, definately a good thing, so get that body loose, so back to the dance floor, now most guys for some reason think its ok to sneak behind a girl and hump her ass and thats how you dance with a girl, first of all whoever told you that is a ****ing moron because for one it shows a sense of insecurity and cowardness since you can't look the girl in the eye when u go to dance with her and on top of that every club girl i've talked to HATES it when a guy tries to hump their ass, theres two ways to approach a girl you want to dance with, first way is to walk up IN FRONT OF HER, make eye contact, grab her hand, twirl her and get going, the worst that can happen is she pulls her hand away but the point here is that you are walking right up to her and you are letting her know that you are coming, the other way is you can talk to girls standing out on the side drinking or whatever, its probably better to approach a girl who is already drinking so u dont get stuck with the dillemna of "should i buy her a drink"
side note: in my opinion buying a girl a drink is a risk and can go either way, its not right or wrong to buy a girl a drink as long as you know how to COMMUNICATE with her, just realize that because you bought her a drink doesn't mean she owes you anything, the reason i buy girls drinks is because i know i like to have a drink in my hand at a club as well as most people, so i like them to have something while i am talking to them to keep the enviroment comfortable, now when ur buying girls drinks and u think that ur in because of that thats when u **** up,
anyways back to the 2nd approach, converse with the girl for a while see how things are going once you feel a comfort zone talk a little more then say "i'm gonna go dance lets go" or something along those lines, grab her hand and take her to the dance floor, just make sure you dictate it, dont ask her to dance thats lame, say it in a way where your making it clear that YOU wanna dance and your doing it with or without her, u can also use a good song as an excuse to go out there, either way just make sure ur not "asking her to dance" ......ok so now you have a dance partner, you think your finished? hardly.....anyways if you took the first approach and just walked up and danced, that does not mean you have succeeded, do not be one of those AFCs or dance with the same girl the whole night (or attempt to) becuase if u try that she'll most likely move to the next guy, what you do is you aks her to go sit down, go have a drink, go relax cuz ur tired, whatever u gotta do to get her off the loud and crowded dance floor and into a more relaxed area of the club where you can spit your game, once u do this start applying your dj skills, get her a drink, main thing is make her feel like she knows you, in the end the way you talk to a girl is what decides if your gonna take one home from the club, unless you get lucky and find a girl whos as horny and desperate as you are and will **** you in the bathroom simply because you touched her and she can't take the sexual frustration anymore, but thats a matter of odds (unless of course you are a natural or a really good looking guy) anyways with all this said if you think things are going well invite her and her friends to afterhours (assuming you are with a few of your boys), this is key because this gets her into your place and from there your on your own, that just about wraps it up, good luck
allright down to the nitty griddy, after doing all this its dance time, first off if you can't dance start buying house mixes or whatever it is that they play at the clubs you go to and just start dancing on your own time to get your body loosened up for the real thing (having smooth relaxed steps is key) the more you do it the better you get, and if you can't coordinate well with a girl then your just gonna have to go clubbin a lot and get expirience or just simply have a lot of sex, generally people grind in clubs and all gridning is is "dance floor sex" i see a lotta guys who just simply move back and forth with a girl, not gonna work these same girls rip on them for having one move, switch positions, move like you would in bed, i can't tell you how many girls have told me they feel like they are having sex with me when they dance with me, definately a good thing, so get that body loose, so back to the dance floor, now most guys for some reason think its ok to sneak behind a girl and hump her ass and thats how you dance with a girl, first of all whoever told you that is a ****ing moron because for one it shows a sense of insecurity and cowardness since you can't look the girl in the eye when u go to dance with her and on top of that every club girl i've talked to HATES it when a guy tries to hump their ass, theres two ways to approach a girl you want to dance with, first way is to walk up IN FRONT OF HER, make eye contact, grab her hand, twirl her and get going, the worst that can happen is she pulls her hand away but the point here is that you are walking right up to her and you are letting her know that you are coming, the other way is you can talk to girls standing out on the side drinking or whatever, its probably better to approach a girl who is already drinking so u dont get stuck with the dillemna of "should i buy her a drink"
side note: in my opinion buying a girl a drink is a risk and can go either way, its not right or wrong to buy a girl a drink as long as you know how to COMMUNICATE with her, just realize that because you bought her a drink doesn't mean she owes you anything, the reason i buy girls drinks is because i know i like to have a drink in my hand at a club as well as most people, so i like them to have something while i am talking to them to keep the enviroment comfortable, now when ur buying girls drinks and u think that ur in because of that thats when u **** up,
anyways back to the 2nd approach, converse with the girl for a while see how things are going once you feel a comfort zone talk a little more then say "i'm gonna go dance lets go" or something along those lines, grab her hand and take her to the dance floor, just make sure you dictate it, dont ask her to dance thats lame, say it in a way where your making it clear that YOU wanna dance and your doing it with or without her, u can also use a good song as an excuse to go out there, either way just make sure ur not "asking her to dance" ......ok so now you have a dance partner, you think your finished? hardly.....anyways if you took the first approach and just walked up and danced, that does not mean you have succeeded, do not be one of those AFCs or dance with the same girl the whole night (or attempt to) becuase if u try that she'll most likely move to the next guy, what you do is you aks her to go sit down, go have a drink, go relax cuz ur tired, whatever u gotta do to get her off the loud and crowded dance floor and into a more relaxed area of the club where you can spit your game, once u do this start applying your dj skills, get her a drink, main thing is make her feel like she knows you, in the end the way you talk to a girl is what decides if your gonna take one home from the club, unless you get lucky and find a girl whos as horny and desperate as you are and will **** you in the bathroom simply because you touched her and she can't take the sexual frustration anymore, but thats a matter of odds (unless of course you are a natural or a really good looking guy) anyways with all this said if you think things are going well invite her and her friends to afterhours (assuming you are with a few of your boys), this is key because this gets her into your place and from there your on your own, that just about wraps it up, good luck
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