Club openers - whats yours?

[wonderer]

Been off the scene for awhile so need to build up my confidence again. What are your club openers once you see a girl you want to approach?

Mine are:

Do you work at topshop??
Hey is your name sasha??
Hey, are you girls from reading??


Share your openers guys - stories and what has worked would be great!

 

[OlympicTim]

I go in say Hey I'm Tim then go with a generic compliment and go from their

 

[escaleraroyal]

Wanna make love upstairs?

 

[Lozboss]

Been off the scene for awhile so need to build up my confidence again. What are your club openers once you see a girl you want to approach?

Mine are:

Do you work at topshop??
Hey is your name sasha??
Hey, are you girls from reading??


Share your openers guys - stories and what has worked would be great!

UK buddy?

I'd work on your lines mate- being British myself these are quite weak.

Tim- don't compliment a woman off the bat- it's ingenuine and doesn't raise their interest level. It also shows neediness.

Corey Wayne explains this in detail in his book.

You should also not introduce yourself- ask their name and if they ask you it's a good indicator of interest- don't lose this easy chance to gauge interest.

Eg something as simple as:

'Hey- what's your name?"

It's about your confidence and approaching women who have shown signs of potential interest- not really what you say.

 

[guru1000]

In any setting:

"Hello."

It's not what you say: it's how you say it.

 

[Reykhel]

"Excuse me young lady, could I interest you on going halves on a bastard" :crackup:

On a serious note: I kind of agree with Guru1000. But in particular in a club setting, your energy needs to be a little bit higher than hers. You need to be bringing fun and energy to the table so to speak...

Situational openers work: I said to a black chick who was smoking recently..(roofless bar/club by the river) "Smoking kills. naughty, naughty....." She responded with "yes, i am naughty" (this always comes in handy.. I love adding "naughty, naughty..") Then I teased her about her afro....


Hi I'm name...
"what's your name?"
"are you from....(whatever town it is) (I love/hate whatever town...)
"what do you do?" (tease her or validate her about it)
"who are you here with?" (checking her logistics)

Lie about what you do. Yes lie. Why? Just lie, make something up and try keep a straight face. You'll almost be pissing yourself laughing trying to go along with it. You'll be surprised the energy and fun vibe this gives YOU. Then you can tell her after...I lied, I'm not really a "...........", I can't be trusted. Do you love me less now?

You can tease her or validate her answers and all the answers are giving you conversational "threads" to go with.....

I used to go with what Lozboss said about the not giving your name: ie waiting for her to ask your name to check interest level, but I found it was killing the flow a little while kind of waiting to see will she ask......

 

[skinnyguy]

I'm thinking of using this one:

"Have you ever had a bad breakup before?"

Considering that most hot girls at the club have had a bad breakup, it gives them something to relate to and they are likely to open up to you. Stuff like "what's your name" doesn't get them to open up. You want to create some sort of commonality.

 

[Reykhel]

adding to the fun or bringing the energy level down?

I'm thinking of using this one:

"Have you ever had a bad breakup before?"

Considering that most hot girls at the club have had a bad breakup, it gives them something to relate to and they are likely to open up to you. Stuff like "what's your name" doesn't get them to open up. You want to create some sort of commonality.

Please tell me you are joking??!!!! It's a joke right?

People go out to have fun, not to talk about their past problems. Do you think this sort of question would add to the fun or bring the energy level down?

If a girl I'd just met in a club asked me that....I'd be like....wtf???

Commonality? Is commonality going to get her to spread her legs. I don't want any girl to open up to me, I've enough to be dealing with my own life.....what I do want her to open up is her legs....

You're creating opportunities for sex to take place. You're not Jeremy Kyle or Maury saddling up beside her and saying "well baby, let's talk about your past heartaches"

But you're joking, you've got to be....

If you're not.......please use the line and come back with a field report

If it works I'll wash your Porshe

 

[OlympicTim]

Wanna make love upstairs?

Im trying this tonight

 

[skinnyguy]

Please tell me you are joking??!!!! It's a joke right?

People go out to have fun, not to talk about their past problems. Do you think this sort of question would add to the fun or bring the energy level down?

If a girl I'd just met in a club asked me that....I'd be like....wtf???

Commonality? Is commonality going to get her to spread her legs. I don't want any girl to open up to me, I've enough to be dealing with my own life.....what I do want her to open up is her legs....

You're creating opportunities for sex to take place. You're not Jeremy Kyle or Maury saddling up beside her and saying "well baby, let's talk about your past heartaches"

But you're joking, you've got to be....

If you're not.......please use the line and come back with a field report

If it works I'll wash your Porshe

Actually, women love talking about theirselves and their problems.

If you say "what's your name" you're just another c0vk trying to get in her pants.

If anything it's DIFFERENT than what other guys are doing. If she's hot and heard every line in the book, she won't talk to a guy unless he is unique. I don't always agree with RSD but I do agree with them on this. It's a question that doesn't pedestalize her and treats her like a normal person.


Unless you're an 8+ in looks you won't be getting into bed with her unless she can actually have a conversation with you. By doing this line I'm not trying to be an emotional tampon. No one said you have to sympathize with her. If you share breakup stories you might actually lead her to a more deep conversation that makes her more attracted to you.

 

[Reykhel]

Actually, women love talking about theirselves and their problems.

If you say "what's your name" you're just another c0vk trying to get in her pants.

If anything it's DIFFERENT than what other guys are doing. If she's hot and heard every line in the book, she won't talk to a guy unless he is unique. I don't always agree with RSD but I do agree with them on this. It's a question that doesn't pedestalize her and treats her like a normal person.


Unless you're an 8+ in looks you won't be getting into bed with her unless she can actually have a conversation with you. By doing this line I'm not trying to be an emotional tampon. No one said you have to sympathize with her. If you share breakup stories you might actually lead her to a more deep conversation that makes her more attracted to you.

If this works for you.....I'll stand corrected.

In my experience women do not go to clubs to talk about their problems. You could say they go to clubs to get away from their problems...In other words: to let their hair down and have fun. To danse to have drinks and to bang.....

So asking a girl her name makes you another c0ck trying to get into her panties?

So you don't ask her name? You just go straight to "have you ever had a bad breakup"?

Surely you have to get past introductions first????!!! If I didn't exchange names at some point I'd be viewed as socially retarded...

I'm surprised you're saying you got this from RSD. Surely you mean you could throw it in later in the night? (which I still wouldn't do)

 

[skinnyguy]

Ok I give up. You're right. You should tell her she's beautiful and that she is God's gift to men.

 

[Reykhel]

Straw man

Ok I give up. You're right. You should tell her she's beautiful and that she is God's gift to men.

I give up too on this discussion seen as you've opted to go down the STRAW MAN route.

Nowhere in my posts did I suggest that.

Good luck.

 

[NSX-R]

Exactly what guru said. Afterwards let the thing flow. I'm a guy who uses his environment and what he sees to talk. They find it amazing when they expect you to say for ex "no" and you do the opposite. Just be relaxed and have fun.

 

[NSX-R]

If she says No, be a confident man and say "You have a good night."

...then walk away.

This may just take her for a quick little spin and maybe, just maybe, you'll see her a bit later that night.

Nothing drives a girl crazier than to see a guy she rejected chatting it up with other women after she brushed him off.

We have to count that not every chick wants to meet a guy and instead they just want to have fun on their own. Some female friends have told me their experience when some guys hit up on them while they just want to relax . I can say I could feel the pain of these guys while the girls were explaining the situation.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I'm thinking of using this one:

"Have you ever had a bad breakup before?"

Considering that most hot girls at the club have had a bad breakup, it gives them something to relate to and they are likely to open up to you. Stuff like "what's your name" doesn't get them to open up. You want to create some sort of commonality.

this is likely to get you freindzoned very quickly

 

[skinnyguy]

this is likely to get you freindzoned very quickly

That is fair but any line can get you friendzoned

Big picture, I don't even go to clubs much anymore because the women there are so low quality. There might be a few hot ones (who are messed up in the head) but they are surrounded by guys. I see a bunch of fatties at clubs

Clubs are for women, just like OLD

 

[NSX-R]

I see what you're saying, but not all women leave Saturday night at 9 looking for a ONS, but they end up stumbling out of some dude's apartment at 3am.

Why?

Because said dude knew how to push past those "I just want to hang out with my girls tonight" barriers.

Have you ever been in Greece? Trust me if the ***** shield had a maximum level of 10 , the average women would had it at 6 and the Greek girls at 9. Your balls should be made with something heavier and stronger than steel to pass over this shield. If they just want to have fun then you can't penetrate them even if you're Adonis himself.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Have you ever been in Greece? Trust me if the ***** shield had a maximum level of 10 , the average women would had it at 6 and the Greek girls at 9. Your balls should be made with something heavier and stronger than steel to pass over this shield. If they just want to have fun then you can't penetrate them even if you're Adonis himself.

haha i hear similar about italian women

 

[NSX-R]

haha i hear similar about italian women

Same thing, I think italian ones are just a little bit easier but on the same level. I guess it has to do with the weather lol