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# closing without laying down the foundation???

Pimp-sicle

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Got a interesting question. How many of you guys have tried to # close a HB who you didn't have a real chance to work your magic on??

There are 2 HB's in my summer school class who have given me some good indictors of interest. (Hair twirling, stretching, staring etc) However, I'm a little hesistant to # close girls without a proper opportunity to show them my skillz. We will call the 2 girls, HB 7 and HB 7.5.

HB 7.5 and I have walked to the parking lot from class a couple of times. She's initiated a conversation with me a couple of times and always is open and friendly. She smiles a lot and says bye to me etc. HB 7 and I have had minimal contact but that's all changing because we got put in the same group for our presentation later this week. I'm not worried about her because I'll have some good group meeting time to show her my game.

The feeling I get from HB 7.5 is that gut vibe. You know when you can just kinda of sense that there's a vibe going on there? We haven't flirted just fluff talked a couple of times. But today I noticed that when I made good eye contact, that she would look, look away and then look up again. I actually put this girl through a test when I first met her a couple of weeks ago. What happened was I initiated a conversation with her to break the ice. The next time I saw her I thought I'd test to judge her interest level. I was about 3 feet in front of her walking to the parking lot and she was right behind me. I wanted to see if she would initiate a conversation with me but she didn't, so I put her in the ABOUT TO BE NEXTED CATERGORY. Now I realize this might be a little quick to NEXT, but I don't have that much time with these girls in summer school. However today she initiated a conversation with me twice. She even got off her cell phone as she saw me walking up. Since our few conversations have been very general and full of fluff talk, I'm a little hesistant to # close. Not because I'm afraid but just because I didn't have a chance to lay down my C/F etc. What do you guys think??
 
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If they are already choosing then why not close the deals. You don't have to wait for them to see your mack cause they already are interested...

You've probably heard about salesmen who lose sales cause they don't know when to shut up....since the customer is already bought into the product...


Go ahead and ask which ever one you want to coffee and get her number.

Pimp: hey barbie, let's do coffee sometime soon
Barbie: ok mr pimp.
Pimp as he pulls out his celly: put your number in my cell and I will give you a call soon

shyt is that easy pimp-cycle. You don't have to wait to do some c/f on her...she has already bought the product.
 

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Player Supreme: Thanks for the insight. I already decided to # close both girls, its just that I usually have some time to lay my game down, so asking for the # is a mere formality to me. I wasn't really doubting myself, I just didn't know how to handle this type of situation. Any more thoughts would be welcome.
 

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Wow 27 views and 1 reply. C'mon I've given out my advice on 99% of my posts and I have one minor question and no help. I know the DJ forum is better than that.


PIMP
 

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It sounds like a mistake I used to make. See you sound like you're getting a lot of coincidental convo out of the fact that you're in the same class (which is good).

To close , all you have to do is walk on over and engage her , (get into a convo with her , without pretending that it's just cos you happen to be in the same class) after five minutes of which you should be able to close just fine.

As for ABTBN'ed it sounds way to soon to put her in that category.

I don't next anyone till I have signed notes from their mother , track coach and Rabbi saying they don't like me (cos soooo many times 've got bad vibes from a girl that has subsequently paid).
 

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Walden: Good point, I'm planning on # closing HB 7.5 today and HB 7 tomorrow. I already got HB 7's e-mail but that was mainly to send her my project. I'll work the magic today and tomorrow and let you all know how it goes.
 
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