Cleared it with the mods! A thread I’ve wanted to do for years. Post your real life picture let the community help fix your looks!(completely optiona)

Bokanovsky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2012
Messages
4,809
Reaction score
4,477
Yea, others suggested it. I used to let it grow out and shave just once a week. My part time job allows beards BUT they have to be neat and trimmed which I hate trimming it. When I grow it out I look like Joe Thorton's beard. The guy on the SJ Sharks with the sloppy beard. Some suggest without facial hair I look way too young and kiddish for my age.
You don't need a full beard; 2-3 mm stubble will look even better. Buy a trimmer from Costco for $50 and use it twice a week (5-10 min per session). Also, your haircut is too short.
 

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,543
Reaction score
5,068
Location
Bridgeport, CT
You don't need a full beard; 2-3 mm stubble will look even better. Buy a trimmer from Costco for $50 and use it twice a week (5-10 min per session). Also, your haircut is too short.
Look at Tanner Guzy, im not a fan of him but wow the ttansformation

He's a ginger, more of an orange color though.. Shorter hair the better. Most ladies do not trip over themselves with orange / gingers...
 

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,543
Reaction score
5,068
Location
Bridgeport, CT
Why when I go on Tinder or Bumble they're overweight a lot of times or located 35 or more miles away? Been a week since I saw anything over HB6 within 20 miles of me on those apps.
Your HB6, are my and most dude's here HB 2-3's. Take what you can get. I will agree with the 5 o'clock shadow though. It will make you look more masculine. You every edge you can get. Everyone told you to move, but you do not want to leave Mommy.. So, IDK.
 

lamath

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2018
Messages
2,739
Reaction score
2,671
Age
43
Location
Canada
He's a ginger, more of an orange color though.. Shorter hair the better. Most ladies do not trip over themselves with orange / gingers...
Ik truth is most ginger men are at a disadvantage look wise.
But Tanner is a great examplenon how someone can turn things arround. Big improvement from what he started with
 

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,543
Reaction score
5,068
Location
Bridgeport, CT
Ik truth is most ginger men are at a disadvantage look wise.
But Tanner is a great examplenon how someone can turn things arround. Big improvement from what he started with
Maybe some scruff and a shaved head would work for him? Hard to say. @biggoal, do you have any friends or people who you can ask for advice in terms of IRL that are good with style? Do you know any gay dudes? They will prob. be good one's to ask on style.
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,696
Reaction score
798
Age
40
Maybe some scruff and a shaved head would work for him? Hard to say. @biggoal, do you have any friends or people who you can ask for advice in terms of IRL that are good with style? Do you know any gay dudes? They will prob. be good one's to ask on style.
I did have an lesbian manager (low end HB 7) once but she got transfered to another location. One year older than me. Instagram and FB hog she is.
 

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,543
Reaction score
5,068
Location
Bridgeport, CT
I did have an lesbian manager (low end HB 7) once but she got transfered to another location. One year older than me. Instagram and FB hog she is.
Ask her for advice. You need someone hands on IRL. Besides,, ladies love to do make overs.
 

lamath

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2018
Messages
2,739
Reaction score
2,671
Age
43
Location
Canada
Maybe some scruff and a shaved head would work for him? Hard to say. @biggoal, do you have any friends or people who you can ask for advice in terms of IRL that are good with style? Do you know any gay dudes? They will prob. be good one's to ask on style.
Lean af and a weak chin, bad combo.
Def some scruff maybe a beard amd some weight on him
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,696
Reaction score
798
Age
40
Agreed. Weight gainer is perfect for him. It's the fastest way he can put on the LBS; but he also needs to push some iron.
Gaining weight doesn't do any good if you don't work out. It will go to fat. In my case the fat goes straight to my gut.
 

Blacksheep

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2018
Messages
1,531
Reaction score
1,058
Age
33
Location
Brazil
Never done old

But i know getting a good shot can be very hard.
Im sure it can help greatly, but imo 1 or 2 prof shot is good, but other pic need to look non-proffesional.
That's true... unless you pay a good photographer.

And about normal photos that's something important. I use to have a mix of those.
 

Blacksheep

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2018
Messages
1,531
Reaction score
1,058
Age
33
Location
Brazil
I'm tired of OLD sites and how I have to drive 30 or more miles just to meet anyone.
That's not good in that point.

Maybe try some nice events (not parties)... You may found some nice girls in there.
 

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,723
Reaction score
6,667
Age
67
Location
The 7th Dimension
Gaining weight doesn't do any good if you don't work out. It will go to fat. In my case the fat goes straight to my gut.
What’s the status of your workout machine? Is it together yet?
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,696
Reaction score
798
Age
40
That's not good in that point.

Maybe try some nice events (not parties)... You may found some nice girls in there.
Like I said if you lived in my region and 60 or over you'd clean up down here. It's like the opposite age wise living in nyc or la for dating. But most girls decent ones at a min 45 miles away. That just wont work for a relationship and wont go anywhere. Why would a woman even reply to you if you're 60 miles away anyway. I'm up to 70 mile radius because 60 miles or less and I see the same handful of faces everyday.
 
Top