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Master Don Juan
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Yeah man, for those who have been tuning in to my threads/posts as it pertains to cold approaching, you know how much I am an advocate of that method, as I view it to be the single most effective way of maximizing your chances of getting women.
To find yourself in the puzzy of a woman of whom wasn't even thinking (or in some cases, didn't even see you) before you stepped up to her, it is truly an exhilarating feeling.
And once you've had that feeling, it can become intoxicating.
Addictive, even.
However, do you know what is an even more exhilarating feeling? When you are in the puzzy of a woman of whom CHOSE YOU...and in some cases, YOU weren't even thinking about HER.
Do you remember how good it felt when you were in elementary school, and just knowing that a girl liked you; it was the best feeling in the world??
Remember that?
Wayyy before nasty thoughts of sleeping girls ever entered your mind, it meant so much more to know that, out of all the other boys in the class, this girl liked you.
Well, you get the same feeling as an adult, when a woman chooses you.
It can have you feeling like you are in the third grade all over again.
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Choosing signals vs Cold Approach
Which is better?
As some of you may know, there has been a debate within the manisphere, as to which method is better....choosing signals or cold approaching?
Opinions vary.
But what do I think?
Obviously, cold approaching is better. Why?
Because only about 5% men will get the proper amount of choosing signals to whereas it is enough for him to sustain an adequate sexual life.
The rest of us men (95%) will never get choosing signals to such a degree.
So, for us to rely on something that we will probably never get anyway, that is simply not an efficient method, if your goal is to get women.
However, choosing signals are still great and as a man, we should use BOTH to our advantage, as opposed to singling out one for the other...use both.
And as MrLocario once rightfully stated, even if you are getting choosing signals, there is no guarantee that you will even be attracted to the chick that is choosing you.
Suppose all of the women that are choosing you are, in your opinion, unattractive? Then what?
At least with cold approaching, the chances of you bagging a chick that you are attracted to increases significantly, because it is YOU who chose HER.
That is why cold approaching is better....but we should use BOTH...both are great tools to use at our disposal.
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Signs She is Choosing You
You have to know how to read the signals...and it isn't always easy because some of the time, the signals may be very subtle. But here some of the most obvious signs that when she looks at you, she likes what she sees.
1. She is looking/staring at you: This is indeed the first and most common signal you will receive from a woman who finds you attractive.
If you notice a woman who is constantly looking at you, this is a choosing signal. Sometimes, her stares may be quick glances, or sometimes, her gaze may be more than a few seconds.
And usually when you look her way, she looks away.
But obviously, it will depend on the circumstances. For example, if you are in a convenient store and it is late at night and close to closing time, and you come into the store...the woman at the register may be looking at you to see if you are up to something.
But, all things equal, usually when a woman is constantly looking at you, she likes what she sees.
Women do not constantly look at men that they do not find attractive.
2. She is constantly placing herself in your vicinity: Now, most times, the main and only choosing signal you will receive is #1.
However, if the woman is REALLY feeling you, she will go out her way to place herself in your vicinity. If you are at the gym and there is this chick that is constantly making her way to different machines within your immediate vicinity, she is choosing you. You go to the opposite side of the gym to do dumbbells, and here she comes, about 3 chairs over, to do dumbbells. You go over to the treadmill to do some cardio, and you notice her walk past your treadmill a few times.
There aren't that many coincidences at the same place. She is choosing you.
Or, any woman that is constantly stopping by your area (where ever it may be) to talk to you, and have meaningless chats...is choosing you.
Now sure, some women/people are social...but see if she is social with everyone, or just you. Monitor the situation because 9 times out of 10, women don't normally go out of their way to social with men that they are NOT feeling.
If you notice this, she is choosing you.
3. She approaches you directly, and tells you that she is feeling you: This one is the obvious of them all, but also the most rare of them all.
Most men will NEVER experience a woman approaching them and telling that they are that guy. The chances of this happening are slim to none...however, it can happen and it does happen.
I said all of that to say this; choosing signals are cool...and even great, but do NOT rely solely on choosing signals in your dating life.
Use all 4 methods...
1. Cold approach
2. Warm approach
3. Choosing signals
4. Ignoring method
All 4 are tools in your arsenal. Use them at your convenience, and use them wisely.
On my next thread, I will highlight some of my choosing signal experiences.
Yeah man, for those who have been tuning in to my threads/posts as it pertains to cold approaching, you know how much I am an advocate of that method, as I view it to be the single most effective way of maximizing your chances of getting women.
To find yourself in the puzzy of a woman of whom wasn't even thinking (or in some cases, didn't even see you) before you stepped up to her, it is truly an exhilarating feeling.
And once you've had that feeling, it can become intoxicating.
Addictive, even.
However, do you know what is an even more exhilarating feeling? When you are in the puzzy of a woman of whom CHOSE YOU...and in some cases, YOU weren't even thinking about HER.
Do you remember how good it felt when you were in elementary school, and just knowing that a girl liked you; it was the best feeling in the world??
Remember that?
Wayyy before nasty thoughts of sleeping girls ever entered your mind, it meant so much more to know that, out of all the other boys in the class, this girl liked you.
Well, you get the same feeling as an adult, when a woman chooses you.
It can have you feeling like you are in the third grade all over again.
---------------------
Choosing signals vs Cold Approach
Which is better?
As some of you may know, there has been a debate within the manisphere, as to which method is better....choosing signals or cold approaching?
Opinions vary.
But what do I think?
Obviously, cold approaching is better. Why?
Because only about 5% men will get the proper amount of choosing signals to whereas it is enough for him to sustain an adequate sexual life.
The rest of us men (95%) will never get choosing signals to such a degree.
So, for us to rely on something that we will probably never get anyway, that is simply not an efficient method, if your goal is to get women.
However, choosing signals are still great and as a man, we should use BOTH to our advantage, as opposed to singling out one for the other...use both.
And as MrLocario once rightfully stated, even if you are getting choosing signals, there is no guarantee that you will even be attracted to the chick that is choosing you.
Suppose all of the women that are choosing you are, in your opinion, unattractive? Then what?
At least with cold approaching, the chances of you bagging a chick that you are attracted to increases significantly, because it is YOU who chose HER.
That is why cold approaching is better....but we should use BOTH...both are great tools to use at our disposal.
------------
Signs She is Choosing You
You have to know how to read the signals...and it isn't always easy because some of the time, the signals may be very subtle. But here some of the most obvious signs that when she looks at you, she likes what she sees.
1. She is looking/staring at you: This is indeed the first and most common signal you will receive from a woman who finds you attractive.
If you notice a woman who is constantly looking at you, this is a choosing signal. Sometimes, her stares may be quick glances, or sometimes, her gaze may be more than a few seconds.
And usually when you look her way, she looks away.
But obviously, it will depend on the circumstances. For example, if you are in a convenient store and it is late at night and close to closing time, and you come into the store...the woman at the register may be looking at you to see if you are up to something.
But, all things equal, usually when a woman is constantly looking at you, she likes what she sees.
Women do not constantly look at men that they do not find attractive.
2. She is constantly placing herself in your vicinity: Now, most times, the main and only choosing signal you will receive is #1.
However, if the woman is REALLY feeling you, she will go out her way to place herself in your vicinity. If you are at the gym and there is this chick that is constantly making her way to different machines within your immediate vicinity, she is choosing you. You go to the opposite side of the gym to do dumbbells, and here she comes, about 3 chairs over, to do dumbbells. You go over to the treadmill to do some cardio, and you notice her walk past your treadmill a few times.
There aren't that many coincidences at the same place. She is choosing you.
Or, any woman that is constantly stopping by your area (where ever it may be) to talk to you, and have meaningless chats...is choosing you.
Now sure, some women/people are social...but see if she is social with everyone, or just you. Monitor the situation because 9 times out of 10, women don't normally go out of their way to social with men that they are NOT feeling.
If you notice this, she is choosing you.
3. She approaches you directly, and tells you that she is feeling you: This one is the obvious of them all, but also the most rare of them all.
Most men will NEVER experience a woman approaching them and telling that they are that guy. The chances of this happening are slim to none...however, it can happen and it does happen.
I said all of that to say this; choosing signals are cool...and even great, but do NOT rely solely on choosing signals in your dating life.
Use all 4 methods...
1. Cold approach
2. Warm approach
3. Choosing signals
4. Ignoring method
All 4 are tools in your arsenal. Use them at your convenience, and use them wisely.
On my next thread, I will highlight some of my choosing signal experiences.