chicks with emotional problems

[TurtleShell]

another chick i had been going out with for a while, like a lot of them, seems to be f'ed up on anti-depressants and things like that. When i ended it with her i was so pissed off that i told her that all the confidence i had and all the jokes i told and everything was just an act and really behind all that i was just an insecure loser. i know it was the stupidist thing i could have done.
I just said it to try and make her feel that she wasn't so bad in comparrison because i didnt really know how to deal with someone with depression. But it seems a common thing with uni student chicks. and i just find it sooooo boring. and then when you tell them you arnt interested they act like its the end of the world. and so then i feel like i have to go all AFC or they will kill themselves.

getting chicks to go out with me and stuff like that is no problem. its keeping and finding ones that arnt verging on being mentally ill that is the problem.

whats a good screening process to use so that it doesnt get into the 6th date and they tell you they are on anti-depressants?

Cheers.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Even mentally disabled people need love to, but only love from the same.

That saying about.. OPPOSITES attract is only true physically but personality/mentality must be similar. If you're a confident person and you can get ladies all the time, don't waste your time trying to fix someone.

 

[duke007]

I think I'm having the same problem right now after a first date (essentially second since the first meeting was very long). It just doesn't seem worth it. Rather than let things fester for multiple dates and get her attached to you, it's probably better to break it off as soon as you get the vibe.

I'm a good judge of character, and since most girls I've ever interacted with have been confident and fun, one's with low self-esteem really stand out like a sore thumb.

It's quite depressing for me really, I get energy from the people around me and I couldn't bear to counsel a nutcase. It sucks that many women are either shy and baggage-laden or overly loud and slutty.

 

[sux2bu]

chicks with emotional problems - You just described the intire female population.

 

[LouieVaton Don]

Originally posted by TurtleShell


getting chicks to go out with me and stuff like that is no problem. its keeping and finding ones that arnt verging on being mentally ill that is the problem.

Although there might be alot of crazies where your doing your PU's(maybe in front of the nut house), I think its safe to say that maybe your either too nice, or you have issues yourself. Ive found that girls with emotional problems are more drawn to guys with issues themselves even though it may not be apparent early on. They also like nice guys because he'll cater to their needs, carry her baggage and be pateint with her problems, that is until she finally gets bored.