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trace_man

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ok, lets say im at a club/bar and im sitting with some of my friends, and i keep seeing this girl looking at me, but you know, at the same time im looking at her wondering....you guys would say.. GO TALK TO HER! but i say, and i believe that she is looking at be thinking im wierd for looking at her. am i overthinking these situations? also what are these abreviations? i looked in the FAQ and my answer was unattainable.
 

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Yea, I know what you mean. The chick keeps looking at you, but you are also looking at her. You seem you wonder, Does this chick like what she sees or is she only looking at me, because I am looking at her. The only way too find out is to go talk to her.
 

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To clarify myself, I meant to say....maybe she is only looking at you because she feels....."This guys keeps looking at me, it is kind of freaking me out." She will maybe keep darting her eyes over at you to see if you are still looking at her. It has happened with me with girls I do not find attractive or just wierdos in general. On the other hand, it could be...."Wow, I like what I see. This is what pisses me off about chicks, If you like what you see, you have to send us a more obvious signal (a smile)
 

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Now, if they made it that easy, we would not need this site, would we?

Just grab your ballz and go talk to her.
 

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it shouldn't be too hard to tell if a girl is looking at you like 'hey there' or if she's looking at you like 'what are you looking at you freak'

look for psychological behaviors like fixing/stroking her hair or other sh1t like that... if she's stroking her hair, thats usually a sign of interest

but theres obviously only one way to find out for sure
 

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Ahh... newbie eh? Well don't worry, at this stage you'll have those thoughts. Def. not would she thinks that your weird for looking at her AS LONG as you SMILE at her. Check out the DJ bible if you haven't already.
 
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