Chick trys to call me out – strange situation

[Bingo-Player]

HB 7 is in one of my social circles there is chemistry between us but nothing serious has ever come of it ........she seemed slightly shy too me and i never really bothered escalating much with her

So anyway a couple of days ago a mutual friend tells me that HB 7 got banged by an extremely low value beta on new year’s eve and regrets it

I don’t like new years and stayed in

I admit im slightly confused as i didn’t think she was a slvt and don’t understand why she did it

So im assuming this has gone back to hb 7 at some point and today i get a message saying

“ bingo i hear your p*ssed because i slept with blah blah on NYE and it could have been you “

WTF

I mean me and this chick aint exactly involved with each other i find it slightly concerning she even feels that comfortable to say something like that too me lol

I honestly have no idea what she expects me to say back to that lmao

Was thinking along the lines of

“don’t flatter yourself hb7 we both know you wouldn’t be regretting it as much if it was me “

Thoughts guys ?

 

[LMFAO]

She's talking to you like an AFC guy would, it's the wrong thing for her to say and frankly quite unusual as she's admitting sex with another guy and at the same time interest in you, by trying to make you jealous.

That's a good retort.

Other alternatives such as:
"yeah, I'm just so jealous. That just doesn't fly with me Missy---at best it will get you a spank on the ass, at worst who knows "
"We both know that if it was me, you wouldn't even be able to think straight right now "

 

[mikey2012]

Ignore her and she will want to suck you

 

[El Payaso]

Ignore. She's trying to bait you in and solidify your interest. Once she has that, she can play you in her games. No self respecting woman advertises herself like that. Broadcasting that she slept with another man to make you jealous.

Ignore and act like she doesn't exist. It will drive her nuts.

 

[Desdinova]

The best response is one that doesn't give away your opinion, thoughts, or feelings...

Her: bingo i hear your p*ssed because i slept with blah blah on NYE and it could have been you

You: Oh really???

When a woman's expressing herself, I usually try to draw a bit more out of her with non-opinionated responses. When you do this, you show that she's got your attention, but you're making her wonder what your thoughts and feelings are.

 

[Mr_Maximus]

Thats a turn off.

Do you want to bang her?

 

[Greasy Pig]

I agree with the "if it was with me your eyes would be rolling and your teeth still rattling"...or some such smart arse remark.
Don't buy into the drama she's obviously trying to cause. Just play it cool and treat her like the buttslvt she obviously is.
It sucks when slvts are slvts but not with you doesn't it? I hate that.

 

[Tictac]

So who have you been gossiping to that she even knows that you give a crisp?

 

[Alvafe]

serious this depends on what you will want,

a ? or ignore the msg is kinda of wtf? you can also play it like, "so you open your legs to someone else thinking of me huh? too bad for you I don't like slvts", and ignore her.

I guess i'm more curious about what you want from her or this situation?

I work more on I gave her a chance to be with me and she miss well too bad for her, I sure don't have patience or wish to waste time on damaged goods

 

[RangerMIke]

Okay... first of all she knows you are upset that it was not you. Women ALWAYS know when you want them. Also she is concerned about how she is being percieved in her social circle.

She is trying to find out if what happened impacts your attitude. You should respond in such a way as to indicate you still want to fvck her... and yet are indifferent. I can't really make a recommendation other than that because I don't know her or anything about what's happened between the two of you.

For me.... I would just ignore what she said and not give it a thought. Pretend you never got that text. just call her and make a date... escalate and fvck her.

One more thing... abandon this attitude that you think women are slvts when they want sex. It is our job as men to make them feel comfortable with their sexuality. Get used to the idea that women want sex just as much as we do.

 

[Bingo-Player]

The mutual being another chick has of course gone back and told her what i said exaggerated 10 fold

Agreed pig - it is a pain in the ass , there’s always those guys who are persistently in the right place at the right time they have next to no game but somehow still get laid

Kills me that people like us have to work so hard at not giving a fvck , others are simply in the right place at the right time

Anyway i think ignoring her wasn’t going to be beneficial to me in anyway I’m not involved with her and she’s attempted to offer me her p*ssy

ignoring would be stupid

I took a slightly different approach

“ come on now hb 7 don’t try and palm all your guilt off on me “

 

[Mike32ct]

The best response is one that doesn't give away your opinion, thoughts, or feelings...

Her: bingo i hear your p*ssed because i slept with blah blah on NYE and it could have been you

You: Oh really???

When a woman's expressing herself, I usually try to draw a bit more out of her with non-opinionated responses. When you do this, you show that she's got your attention, but you're making her wonder what your thoughts and feelings are.

^This. Make the hamster spin. Sort of like texting "ok" when a chick flakes.

The only thing that troubles me is the "I heard..." part. Be very careful not to provide gossip material to your social circle. Did you somehow "leak" to a friend that you sort of like this girl or made a comment about "Why did she sleep with that loser?" If you did, try to avoid that in the future.

If someone in your social circle tells you some juicy gossip like, "So and so hooked up with so and so," you should also respond in a neutral way like "oh yeah?" or "that's cool." Even if the hottest chick F-ed some loser, never show an ounce of real or perceived jealousy.

 

[zekko]

So anyway a couple of days ago a mutual friend tells me that HB 7 got banged by an extremely low value beta on new year’s eve and regrets it

I'm curious as to what her exact words were. I doubt that she actually said "low value beta", although maybe I'm wrong. I'm pretty sure I've never heard a female use the word "beta" before. So how did she put it, exactly?

 

[Jaylan]

Ignore. She's trying to bait you in and solidify your interest. Once she has that, she can play you in her games. No self respecting woman advertises herself like that. Broadcasting that she slept with another man to make you jealous.

Ignore and act like she doesn't exist. It will drive her nuts.

This.

I'd be turned off by that text greatly. She sounds super skanky.

 

[Between_The_Lines]

I would have ignored not through silence, but by changing the topic to something completely unrelated. Water under the bridge now. If she brings it up again, I'd go for something like "you keep bringing up your pvssy - must cure Cancer huh?"

 

[Yorkex]

"Is that your best pick up line "?

Or " Clearly he didn't do a good job "

 

[Vulpine]

"I'll watch the mailbox for your wedding invite, stud."

She might as well have texted you: "I'm dirty and loose. You know you want me."
Indeed, how do you respond to that?

What fits in a woman's purse, vibrates, and she can use it to play a variety of fantasy games to get attention?
A. Tickle me Elmo.
B. an X-Box controller.
C. a cell phone.
D. a vibrator.
E. All of the above.


LoL GFTOW ASAP :moon: :crazy:

 

[bukowski_merit]

Honestly, it sounds like she's trying to escalate on you.
And is doing it in a very amateur way.

All my eyes see is, "it could have been you "

Very clear invitation. Very clear attempt to prize herself. Very clear attempt to insert jealousy.


My follow up would look like this:

"I hear you have very bad sources."

"But i know how to deal with very bad sources; and i know how to deal with very bad girls "

 

[Bingo-Player]

thanks for the input guys , surprised at how many big names contributed to this .....


Nah she didn’t use those words zekko lmao that was the best way i could describe this guy to you lot

Apparently this guy was telling HB 7 that she is amazing when he was banging her and that they need to do it sober haha

Needless to say Hb 7 is full of regret

Oh yea it’s no secret me and HB want to fvck eachothers brains out

But theres a lot of oppionated people in the circle and unless it’s done quietly its going to back fire on us big time

Timing with this chick is gonna be everything

It might be worth noting ive already had relations with HB 7’s best friend............

 

[Trump]

So anyway a couple of days ago a mutual friend tells me that HB 7 got banged by an extremely low value beta on new year’s eve and regrets it

I don’t like new years and stayed in

I admit im slightly confused as i didn’t think she was a slvt and don’t understand why she did it

So im assuming this has gone back to hb 7 at some point and today i get a message saying

“ bingo i hear your p*ssed because i slept with blah blah on NYE and it could have been you “

WTF

I mean me and this chick aint exactly involved with each other i find it slightly concerning she even feels that comfortable to say something like that too me lol

I honestly have no idea what she expects me to say back to that lmao

Was thinking along the lines of

“don’t flatter yourself hb7 we both know you wouldn’t be regretting it as much if it was me “

Thoughts guys ?

Bro either they are trying to make stuff up to rattle you, or there is so little drama in their lives that they got nothing better to do than to create some drama.

You DONT respond. They are trying to bait you and get you emotional in writing and you get better things to do than get involved in this crap.

I'd move on and find a better social circle.