Hey guys,
SITUATION:
-dated a chick (hb7) for about 3 months only once a week.
-Dates only consisted of cheap drinks/desserts then go home for makeout sessions.
-Most sexually we've done is finger/oral
-I was never an emotional tampon, only communicated to arrange dates. Never really understood why I got LMR'd all the time.
-After 3 months, I read rollo tomassi's rule #3 and decided to stop wasting time with that chick. I quietly stopped setting up dates, but kept being polite and nice with her. never initiate any contact with her.
-She starts to ping me sweet texts more like "good night"'s and kisses, I just reply with "thanks! you too"
-She then mentions "id like to see you during the day too, blablabla" baiting me to invite her out again. Again I only reply professionaly nice, but don't set up any date.
-She leaves for a 2 week trip, but right before, she emails me saying that she misses me and hopes that everything is going well. I reply along the lines of "thanks! you too!" again.
-She's back from vacation. Texts me randomly "Hello! " I don't bother replying.
- 4-5 days later she emails me on facebook that "she texted me, but assumes that I'm on vacation, and wants to get together when I get back, and wishes me good stuff where ever I am".
Now I like the chick obviously, but I understand that once LMR'd, relationships usually don't work unfortunately.
I think that if I just go back to setting up a date, then we'll just go back to the old routine of me setting up dates and her giving me LMR's.
The only way I want to see her again is if there is a change. as in she shows a big upgrade in her interest level.
Basically what is a bigger DHV for me?
1-Keep ignoring and move on. (either she goes overt and pushes hard to meet me; or we never speak to each other again)
or
2-actually respond a short "yup! let's get together soon! take care" leaving it at that (not setting up a date, she can make a move, take it or leave it).
Keep in mind that I accept moving on, and I would prefer it over going back to investing time on a chick that doesn't put out fully.
Thanks!
SITUATION:
-dated a chick (hb7) for about 3 months only once a week.
-Dates only consisted of cheap drinks/desserts then go home for makeout sessions.
-Most sexually we've done is finger/oral
-I was never an emotional tampon, only communicated to arrange dates. Never really understood why I got LMR'd all the time.
-After 3 months, I read rollo tomassi's rule #3 and decided to stop wasting time with that chick. I quietly stopped setting up dates, but kept being polite and nice with her. never initiate any contact with her.
-She starts to ping me sweet texts more like "good night"'s and kisses, I just reply with "thanks! you too"
-She then mentions "id like to see you during the day too, blablabla" baiting me to invite her out again. Again I only reply professionaly nice, but don't set up any date.
-She leaves for a 2 week trip, but right before, she emails me saying that she misses me and hopes that everything is going well. I reply along the lines of "thanks! you too!" again.
-She's back from vacation. Texts me randomly "Hello! " I don't bother replying.
- 4-5 days later she emails me on facebook that "she texted me, but assumes that I'm on vacation, and wants to get together when I get back, and wishes me good stuff where ever I am".
Now I like the chick obviously, but I understand that once LMR'd, relationships usually don't work unfortunately.
I think that if I just go back to setting up a date, then we'll just go back to the old routine of me setting up dates and her giving me LMR's.
The only way I want to see her again is if there is a change. as in she shows a big upgrade in her interest level.
Basically what is a bigger DHV for me?
1-Keep ignoring and move on. (either she goes overt and pushes hard to meet me; or we never speak to each other again)
or
2-actually respond a short "yup! let's get together soon! take care" leaving it at that (not setting up a date, she can make a move, take it or leave it).
Keep in mind that I accept moving on, and I would prefer it over going back to investing time on a chick that doesn't put out fully.
Thanks!