cheating??

[wvpimp00]

I have been friends with my current g/f for 11 months and we have been dating for a month, but before we even dated we were acting like we were already dating..

Ok.. currently I have some issues with her..
in the past 1+ week she has only called me once and we hung out twice, once while she was at a frineds for like an hour and then again at her house and she didnt feel good and wasnt much fun..
I went to see her at her frineds house and as I was waiting at the door for one of her frineds to tell her I was there I heard one of her female friends say "You have a b/f you shouldnt be doign that stuff".. but she came outside and we talked for a while..
then i went to see her again the next day and she told me that night she woudl call me around 8, well she didnt I had to og to her house and she was "asleep" and we went and layed on her trampoline and she barely talked to me except to say her stomach hurt.. and she barely looked at me teh whoel time, she looked teh other way, until I pushed mysef away form her then she came over and layed her head on my shoulder...

for the last week or two she doesnt call or anything, she tells me a family member is sick and she is having emotional problems with it.. i dunno if i shoudl believe her..
But when we are together things are fine and when we talk; if e havent talked for a few days we tell each other how much we missed each other..

But she odviously isnt getting her lovin' from me, because Im not seeing her that much nemore because of her "family members illness".. how do i knwo if she is messing around on me?
she hangs out with older guys and goes boating with them and parties at there house.. but they are liek 20 years older than her.. I just have a problem with her never calling and sorta pushing me away.. I want to let her knwo shes pushing me away.. how do I tell her without coming off as an a$$ just in case a family member is ill* ????? any help is appreciated..
we are both 18* if thats any help... and best friends...

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Dump her, QUICK.

Don't even think about taking this from her.

Damn, you even had to ask? Yeah, I guess so, I know how it hurts.

Good luck bro.
Osc.

PS I say dump her, cos you don't wanna let her be the one to break it off, you'll feel worse in the future. You have the power, use it. There's plenty more girls out there. If possible, hook up with one of her friends, either before or after you guys split.

 

[wvpimp00]

see i hate to dump her because it took liek 6 months for us to finally end up together.. before i asked her to be my g/f she found a note I had wrote a girl saying i didnt want a g/f* so she just sorta pushed me away because she was afriad I woudl hurt her..
when we are together things are great shes nice to me and we have fun but when we are apart she doesnt call etc.. when shes susposed too.. she doesnt do it all teh time just here and there and it stresses me out.. i dunno what to do.. i like her a lot and i dont want to break it off I just want to let her know hwo I feel..
which is: im being pushed away by her*
Help PLEASE!

 

[Oscar Wilde]

ok, so what you're saying is that you don't care if she's cheating on you? Getting some good loving from some more experienced guys who are real men? That doesn't bother you?

Yes, I'm trying to make you get angry, you need to!!

Guys, talk some sense into the lad!

Oscar.

 

[assasin]

wvpimp00, you're going to have to suck it up and face facts, your releationship is dead, it died long before the last week, and all you have left is the rotting corpse, and as you know. It stinks.

Clean house, get away from all the unpleasant stuff, take what you can from the experience and discard the rest. The next stage IS easier than the current one, because while you might not have the "I've got a girlfriend" badge anymore, atleast you'll still have the "I've got some self respect" badge.

 

[Cesare Cardinali]

The chick is cheating on you and you should dump her ASAP. Stop being such a wuss. If her family member were ill, she would need to spend time with you to help her get through this. Not out with older guys who are plowing her like a ragdoll.

Dump her and start working on yourself.

 

[trajhenkhet]

Just tell her that your not putting up with mind games anymore and she can do whatever she wants and you'll do whatever (and whoever you want ). When she has made up her mind come and find you and if your not dating anyone at the time great and if you are, aww too bad. Should have made up ones mind faster.

 

[wvpimp00]

lol.. yeah im a sucker.. i was going to teh store with my mom and guess who i passed? it was her and 2 of those older guys.. she waved and i was thinking: ho!
i am really pissed, because I sent her emaisl and call her and she doenst have enough time to get ahold of me but she has enough time ot go with them..
what woudl u gusy say ot her if you were me? shes gonna call tongiht and im gonna let her have it!!!!

 

[Ser_i]

dump her man.

I know it can be tough some times.. but you don't want to end up as the loser who got dumped and can't get over her.


you must allways keep control

and besides you can do better then her

 

[wvpimp00]

thanks i am gonna dump her soon, she gave me an excuse:"i have a lot of family in so ive been busy"..lol.. BS*
so i guess they wont let her call me right>--right..lol..