Cease Posting Negative Sh!t!!!

Julius_Seizeher

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Gentlemen, forgive my passionate introduction.:cuss:

But it has been brought to my attention that a cancerous rebellion of negativity has been festering among our ranks.

And when I look to our forum, what do I see?

I see linked stories about men getting beat by their women, men petitioning people on facebook to convince a woman to marry him, stories of men being cuckolded and et cetera, et cetera...

We must suffer it no longer.

From now on, I want to see stories posted about men kicking ass. I want to read of men who climb mountains, who survive impossible circumstances, who knew the odds but said to hell with it, who dared life itself to not bend to his will and fulfill his desire...

I want to read of men who build great monuments, and discover wondrous things. I want to read of men who stared defiantly into the face of modern social orders, and whose triumphs shall forever be rejoiced here among us!

In short, I want to read of men who chose to truly live by their own rules, and whose everlasting glory it is our solemn duty to uphold.

Therefore, and without contention, shall it be decreed to stop posting negative sh!t, and to take it upon ourselves to make SS the highly motivating place it is supposed to be, fulfilling its' ultimate destiny...
 

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I know. I'm back here from a month siesta and find this place a little down in the dumps. I always come here for a positive lift.
 

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I think a lot of the negativity (what there is of it) could be squashed with application of the DJ Bible. :up:

Seriously, no one reads that sucker: it's got great advice and it's completely free!
 

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fuzzx said:
and stop posting stupid excuses about looks & money... they don't help you attract women.... you can have both and have 0 women. Application of the DJ bible and your experience with it is the only thing that will help you attract quality women.

I honestly belive that guys who posts a lot of those threads

  • DOn't go out to the field
  • Suck with women
  • Low self-steem(this is an inner game struggle thath happend to me a couple months ago)
  • Looknig for a magic pill
  • etc etc
I'm @ my highest weight in my life and this year I had some of the most beaitufl chicks ever I'm weighing in at 2 something cough:crackup:, cough beer belly and all banging chicks half my size....


Good times mate, good times
 

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Why not go to an AA meeting and tell everyone to quit being drunks? People come here because they need help, and there is a lot of negativity attached to a lot of it. Go over to RSD if you want to read positive threads. I get bored over there REAL fast because of it, though. You need to encourage people to think more positively, not tell them too. Your post is negative too. If everyone here were more positive, they would have no need for this forum. I understand what you're saying, but you're wasting your breath. BTW, this forum doesnt change. People always think SS is going down the tubes, but it hasnt changed. The only thing that ever changes is your own outlook. Whn you'er an AFC, this place is a goldmine. When you grow and change, you realize this place isnt that great. It didnt change, your way of thinking did.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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horaholic said:
BTW, this forum doesnt change. People always think SS is going down the tubes, but it hasnt changed. The only thing that ever changes is your own outlook. Whn you'er an AFC, this place is a goldmine. When you grow and change, you realize this place isnt that great. It didnt change, your way of thinking did.
Exactly. When I was reading old threads from years back, there's always someone posting a thread exactly like this, even during the Golden Age.

And now, here's a positive way to look at negative threads. When I'm in a "damn it I still suck so much with women" mood, all I have to do is to check out this site and instantly find many guys who suck even more in crazier, life-destroying ways. Instant mood lift! :up:

This forum is what you make of it.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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I speak, as though to myself!

Never did I imply forum members should not bring their problems here. I was speaking in regards to the linked stories that are posted here.
 

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Dear Proselytiser,
Your Post on Dear Old Vlad interest me....I agree God rarely Shovelled guts into a more Evil Basstard....However it seems that at the height of his terrible reign,his Kingdom was one of the safest lands in the World for a traveller to move around in....Zero tolerance does have its place it seems.
 
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horaholic says,

Why not go to an AA meeting and tell everyone to quit being drunks? People come here because they need help, and there is a lot of negativity attached to a lot of it. Go over to RSD if you want to read positive threads. I get bored over there REAL fast because of it, though. You need to encourage people to think more positively, not tell them too. Your post is negative too. If everyone here were more positive, they would have no need for this forum. I understand what you're saying, but you're wasting your breath. BTW, this forum doesnt change. People always think SS is going down the tubes, but it hasnt changed. The only thing that ever changes is your own outlook. Whn you'er an AFC, this place is a goldmine. When you grow and change, you realize this place isnt that great. It didnt change, your way of thinking did.

I'll add my two cents to this, I think that's it's good to "let it all out" but the problem is that no one stirs these guys in the right direction. ALOT of the time their answer is to fill the guy up with conspiracy theories which really just turns him into a bitter person and can make him start to hate women.

Sosuave now is NOTHING like the "Golden Age" you speak of. While it might have been threads like this one being made, they were few in numbers.

If you can't see how this place have become a svcking ground then you are not paying attention. Just think? What happened to all of the good/quality posters? They don't post no more. Ever wonder why? Of course they have better lives now but DON'T YOU THINK it's also something related to the negativity being promoted around here?

It's not the negativity that's posted that's bad (for example, a guy pissed because his girl was cheating), it's the promotion of a "Let's All Ban Together And Hate Women" Movement on this forum right now that's the problem. And if you don't join that "Let's All Ban Together And Hate Women" Movement then they label you a woman, a mangina, and all types of ****.

THAT'S THE PROBLEM with Sosuave now, in the "Golden Age" this place was NOTHING like that. Just go and read previous posts.

Again, if you can't see that, you are not paying attention.

If you want me to prove my case further, look at Jophil's woman bashing thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168190

Damn near 5,000 views. Jo's going into an entire speech about how women are out to get us. Now you show me ONE damn field report or positive thread on SOSUAVE in the last five years that gets this amount of attention? NONE.

Str8up's woman bashing threads got thousands of views also.

Again, if you don't see the direction this place is going you are NOT paying attention.
 

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^^^^

Care to give a few examples of where JOPHIL is "bashing" women in this thread? Perhaps you can show us where the "Let's All Ban Together And Hate Women" sentiment is in this? By my read he's very involved and attached with the woman he's having issue with.
 

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These posts are starting to get pretty ridiculous. Is this some sort of uprising?
I thought women were tough to deal with, lol.
 

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The Message Boy said:
ALOT of the time their answer is to fill the guy up with conspiracy theories which really just turns him into a bitter person and can make him start to hate women.

it's the promotion of a "Let's All Ban Together And Hate Women" Movement on this forum right now that's the problem. And if you don't join that "Let's All Ban Together And Hate Women" Movement then they label you a woman, a mangina, and all types of ****.

If you want me to prove my case further, look at Jophil's woman bashing thread.
Oh Message Boy, you poor delicate flower!
No one is spouting "Conspiracy Theories" :crazy: about how women are out to get you lads, least of all JoPhil. His thread is about a single incident and how he handled it. The others have simply responded with their opinions. This is still a place of free speech, and if their opinion counters your THEN DEAL WITH IT!

We girls can take care of our selves. Really! Not helpless!:nono:




Except when opening jars...still need big manly hands for that.:up:

....and spiders! Ewwwwww!:nervous:
 

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Dear Message Boy,
Surely after your latest little encounter with the gentler sex you can see why guys like Jophil have such a firm attitude,maybe ask him about how to deal with a BPD girl......A few more encounters like this and you will change your tune.
 
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