Caught me another AW???

Ken785

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so ive been hanging out with this girl lately. i met her @ the library @ my university. HB8...chatted her up...asked for her number but ended up getting her myspace instead. then i later got her number. anyways weve been hanging out having lunch chatting n stuff...i met her for lunch 3 times already. ive got few IOIs from her like she wants to study with me, go to the gym...take her to the city sometime...go to theme parks...but heres what ive learned from her...

-shes a go go dancer/wannabe import model.

-18.

-has ALL guy friends...

-has Zero girlfriends...

-has dated ALOT of guys...

has even told me there was this guy @ the gym trying to ask for her number but she gave him her myspace instead...(exactly what she did to me)

im interested in her but she has said that she likes to "casually" date guys....

ive tried to kiss her twice now (even asked like "aww...no kiss goodbye?? and she giggled and was like nOo....)

Shes a nice girl. I know this is straight out an attention wh0re...i want to tell her that i dont think things are going to work out and im not just looking to mess around.

how would you guys blow her off saying im not looking to be her girlfriends and im looking for something serious? im not going to pursue this chick if i know things are going to go nowhere...
 

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You already KNOW it will go nowhere. Either fvck her and chuck her, or dont fvck her and chuck her. Dont get involved with this kind of chick. You WILL get cheated on, and you WILL get dumped, and you WILL be feeling totally jealous ALL the time. Or best case scenario, you will be LJBF'd. You KNOW this, right?
 

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if she is a gogo dancer then that means she can help you network and maybe you cvan hook up with her skrippah co-workers. She is an attention junkie, most attention junkies have deep underlying issues.
 

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Run away.

Do you really need some grand scheme to "blow her off?" My guess is you're trying to figure out how to get her. The odds are like 99-1 against you. Furthermore, if you really did get her, you'd have nothing but problems. Strippers and attention *****s are screwed up in the head. Just leave her alone, she has plenty of other guys to give her attention and she'll turn to them.
 

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Ken785 said:
anyone else have an opinion?
You already given yourself an opinion that other people will give you the same result. You either go for it, or you don't. Don't rationalize or question whether she is worth it.
 

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The funny thing is, he's asking how to blow off a girl he had lunch with 3 times. There's nothing to blow off. Just stop contacting her and she'll get the hint. What, like she's going to get oneitis?
 

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Don't bother with this AW bro. Trust me, I know a girl who has a ton of "guy" friends, and only 1 girl friend. AW to the max, no need for that crap. DUMP!
 

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I just wonder what goes through these attention *****'s heads. I met an attention ***** at the bar recently, it took me like 2-3 minutes to figure her out. She said "I'm calling my friend to come down here." I asked "what's his name?" Figuring it would be a huge chance it would be a guy. I was right. I just wonder if they actually like these guys as friends, as a person, or they serve no other purpose than to feed their ego. My guess is they serve no purpose other than to feed their ego, and are gone when she gets bored with them.
 

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Aw's unless its medical to me IMO is just another word for "player" , i love a challenge i say break that bytch.. but if you have 0 repore and are just getting to know her.. its a long road of push-pull games and all that crazy ass shyt before she finally starts confideing in you and giveing you that tail and everything along with it (emotional,mental)..
 

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so last night i went to the gym with her. had a great time. she was all telling me how she went to this car show last weekend and met the singer Baby Bash. took a picture with him, then he asks if she has a myspace, so she gives it to him, he messages her giving out his number saying he was going to be in town for a few more days and they should "Hang Out" (you know how that goes) she was all telling me how nervous she is and this and that, i think it was a shyt test so i go "Great! tell him i said whats up!" then when we were in the sauna she tells me she wants to get a sauna if she ever buys a mansion. i said "Yeah...well if you marry baby bash it could happen..." she looked at me kinda weird....

and then when we were doing crunches...she asked if if i ever worked out my abs....i said no...she said "aww well you have to if you wanna get with me..."

and i just just gave her that look like "hUh??". and the the car ride home i was mostly silent...but we got something to eat and went back to my house and had a boring conversation then after we finished eating she left and i told her to call me when she gets home so i know she got home safe. she just left without saying much. she never did call me. i texted her twice today joking around saying im sick and sore and that was the last time i will ever impress he at the gym..haha"

she hasnt texted me back yet.

do you guys think i handled her shyt test right? she acted kinda upset cuz i didnt seem like i cared much.

anyways....i know this sounds kinda afc but im just using her for social proof.
 

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Eeew. I use to have the biggest crushes on attention hors. I always like earning people's validation when I was younger...especially from a chick!

No no my friend. It's over. She's 18 and naive. She's got stars in her eyes and her ears are closed.

Leave her alone. Just slowly cut off communication. I mean don't if you want to be her friend, but if it's more you want you're not getting it brah!
 

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It is time to pursue other women. You have a budding case of one-itis. Don't think too much about any one girl. Seduction techniques cannot guarantee that you will lay any one girl. It will help you to have choice with a variety of women instead of guaranteeing success with a single female. Game other girls. Like I said, game other girls.


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Ken785 said:
so ive been hanging out with this girl lately. i met her @ the library @ my university. HB8...chatted her up...asked for her number but ended up getting her myspace instead. then i later got her number. anyways weve been hanging out having lunch chatting n stuff...i met her for lunch 3 times already. ive got few IOIs from her like she wants to study with me, go to the gym...take her to the city sometime...go to theme parks...but heres what ive learned from her...

-shes a go go dancer/wannabe import model.

-18.

-has ALL guy friends...

-has Zero girlfriends...

-has dated ALOT of guys...

has even told me there was this guy @ the gym trying to ask for her number but she gave him her myspace instead...(exactly what she did to me)

im interested in her but she has said that she likes to "casually" date guys....

ive tried to kiss her twice now (even asked like "aww...no kiss goodbye?? and she giggled and was like nOo....)

Shes a nice girl. I know this is straight out an attention wh0re...i want to tell her that i dont think things are going to work out and im not just looking to mess around.

how would you guys blow her off saying im not looking to be her girlfriends and im looking for something serious? im not going to pursue this chick if i know things are going to go nowhere...
 
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