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This is for the new to clubbing dude.

Copping or Catching fresh Meat

The first thing you want to do in your copping process is study your prey. The right prey are those for whom you can fill a void in their miserable little lives, or who will view you as being something special.

You are looking for prey who are somewhat isolated or at least somewhat unhappy. I look for women who have a quality that attracts me. This helps make my copping become more natural. Your prey is the destroyed ones who have deep seated issues.

The perfect prey will be open to what you appear to have to offer. Women who are not open to you, you must leave alone and hunt only those who respond to your presence.
You can tell which ones are responding to you by those involuntary responses they will show. For example they begin to mirror your body language, or may blush when you look at them, or start becoming extremely shy when your around. I’ve even had some show anger towards my presence. Yeah even anger shows that I am having an effect on her, even when she isn’t aware of it. Here is a list of their choosing signals:


>>>>note you can probable find better in the DJ bible<<<<<<<



Ho’s Choosing Signals

From a distance, before contact:
1. Occasionally looking in your direction or throwing yo ass a sideways glance.
2. Briefly holding your gaze then moving her eyes downwards and aways.
3. Smoothing her clothes or ****ing with her hair after you’ve caught her ass looking at you.
4. Turning her body toward you and smiling.
5. Adopting the same posture as you.
6. Accentuating her breasts. You know sticking out the forillas.
7. Seeming to appear by chance in the same ****ing vicinity as you-check it when she moves to another spot and after you’ve moved their. She appears like a ****ing ghost doing what Da Kidd and Paradise called perimeter breaches.
8. Accidentally bumping into you.
9. Touching you while she passes. This is a strong choosing signal.
10. Seeming to hang about in your area for no apparent reason as if she is waiting for you to be a got dam man and step up to her ass.

Close Up, while your in convo with the biatch:
Her eyes:
1. She holds your eye contact for long periods.
2. She starts blinking as if she is trying to bat her eyelashes at yo ass.
3. She starts raising and lowering her got dam eyebrow and then smiling at you. Take a brick in the head if you don’t get it.
4. Check her pupils and see if they are dilated or larger than normal. This means she is getting horny for you.

Her Hair or head area:
1. She starts playing with her hair, stroking it or curling it around her fingers. You’ve all see them do this shyt.
2. Occasionally throwing her hair back from her shoulders.
3. Tilting her head while she talks to you.

Her face and mouth area:
1. Occasionally licker her lips as if you’re a barbeque rib, or running her tongue around her lips.
2. Biting her lips.
3. Occasionally touching her cheek or chin, even though she isn’t hiding her face.
4. Laughing with you and smiling at you.
5. If she’s a stupid smoker then blowing smoke straight at you.

Her skin:
1. Check to see if her cheeks get flushed.
2. Check the neck area also for flushing. These are signs of sexual interest.
 
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Her Hands:
1. Look to see if she is exposing her palms and inner wrist towards you. Since these are vulnerable areas in usually means she is opening up to you.

Touching:
1. Touching any part of your body. Ie…your hands, arms , shoulders, or even you’r legs.
2. Fondling objects like her glass, rubbing it like a d*ck with a caressing or pulling motion.
3. Sliding her hands or fingers up and down long objects like a candlestick or back to the glass thing.
Her clothes:
1. Check to see if she starts straightening her clothes out, by smoothing & patting them.
2. Notice if she starts undoing a button on her blouse or shirt, or starts loosening anything up.

Her Voice:
1. Notice if she starts matching your voice.
2. Notice if she starts pacing your convo.

Her sitting Posture:
1. Notice if she is turning and facing you in her chair
2. Allowing the hem to slide up her leg, trying to expose some thigh flesh for you without trying to pull it back down. Women are aware of everything they do!
3. Is she starting to touch herself gently, especially one of her breasts?
4. Has she started leaning in towards you?
5. Is she starting to copy your body language and posture?
6. Lowers her glass to avoid putting a barrier between the two of you?
7. Check it if she starts gradually assuming a more open and inviting posture.

Her Legs:
1. Notice if she starts rubbing her legs against each other.
2. Or rubbing one leg against the leg of a chair or table.
3. Look to see if she starts crossing or uncrossing her legs and pointing the upper leg towards your pimpin ass.
4. Is she sitting with crossed legs and rocking her upper leg back and forth towards you? Yeah you got it.
5. How about if she is sitting with her legs open towards you. Need I say more?
6. Or if she is dangling a shoe on her toe.

When the ho’ is standing:
1. Is she standing with her head ****ed slightly at an angle, one foot behind the other, with her hips thrust slightly forward?
2. When she moves into your personal body space.

Rhythmic Movments:
1. She starts moving to the music while she is in convo with you.
2. She is rocking while sitting or standing during your convo.

If she is in a group:
1. If she is giving you her total attention and speaking only to you.
2. When she moves away from the group as though giving you an opportunity to holla at her in private, especially if she glances back at you after moving away. This is a private invite into her.
What she spits:
1. Notice if she starts paying you compliments, especially over shyt that seems petty.
If she disagrees with you she does it laughingly.

The whole process is a dance that occurs. The perfect cop will start with resistance to you, which makes getting the goods more sweeter. Don’t be fooled by a woman who is trying to play you with false attention, she is only trying to get something from you.

That is why I said study your prey. Learn all you can about them. Sometimes it’s good to hover in their vicinity to learn about them from a distance. Some players will pretend to become their friend to win their trust first then lure them into their trap.

I call this an indirect approach. But you gotta be careful not to actually end up in the friend zone. In my previous post on the pn I stated that I like to use what I call engineering a contact, which is another indirect approach. For example I will position myself at the bar where my prey goes to order her drinks. I will happen to be there next time she does and start up a conversation about something meaningless. That way I’m not in her face trying to score. This type of sneaky approach wins you past the womans guards.

You will lull your prey into thinking she is secure and then strike like a mongoose on a cobra. You need to develop the skill to move your prey in the direction you want her to go in. In previous post I mentioned managing the convo.

Still one of the most powerful approaches is to make them come to you. This means you need to give them space. Hang out in the periphery of your prey. Let them see you at various places that they attend, but never approach them.

When they do approach you, don’t suddenly poor it on. This will cause them to blow up off you. Too many players get desperate and blow it when the ho approaches. Most young players and women have hang ups on meeting new people. You gotta get past those barriers first before you can go any further. You gotta win that trust over, even though you are really a snake in the grass.

One author on dating suggested using the preys friends and associates as pawns to get you in the door of her mind. You do this by dropping hints to her friend or thoughts that you have about your prey. You know how much women love to talk, so don’t think that friend will not tell your intended victim.

Next is where you gotta have the gear to get that attention. Your dress has to be above what is around you at the time. Women love clothes. Dress for success. If you don’t know what that means pick up a copy of GQ magazine.
 
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Next you wanna stir up the pot. What this means is that once you got her attention you want to get her thinking about you. Women love mysteries. So appear to be mysterious. Send out mixed signals. By doing this you will appear to have depth of character (even if you are as shallow as shallow Hal). She will become confused and intrigued by your very presence.

I do this by appearing extremely manly, but when they talk to me I am very intelligent and passionate. This intrigues them to know end and make them want to know more about me. Once I even had one young thing tell her friend she was surprised that I could read since I look like I just stepped off a football field.

You gotta develop your own style here. The masculine approach may not work for everyone if their really not overly macho inside. <<<Like Stargeek and helmuts>>>>>

Some women love a combination of maleness and femininity (you hear this..you know whom I'm talking to...lol stargump...ok I will stop ruining this old post of mine) in men. But what matters is creating an aura of something more too you than meets the eye.

In your personality you gotta run hot and cold. Fun then aloof at times. This constant change up will confuse the f**k outta a woman and keep her enthralled with you.

One of the most powerful tools to take to a club to win women are other women with you. When you walk in with a bunch of fine women, don’t think all the other fine women will not start competing for your attention. They will wonder what you have that makes these other women want to be near you. So cultivate fine women to use as bait for other dimes. I learned this one from this Chinese guy years ago. He walked into this popular hot spot with 4 fine babes with him. Don’t think those babes weren’t also working to set him up also. Don’t’ think he didn’t score either.

If you have a fine woman, other women will also try to win your attention. This makes them feel good about themselves if they can win this other woman’s man attention away from them. You can use this flaw in women to create a cop.

I used to date this breezy back in the days. She taught aerobics and did body building. Her style of dress was to show off her perfect butt and legs (mostly mini skirts). Women would see me with her and for some strange reason throw themselves at me when she wasn’t around. I never thanked her for getting me so much punany. What I would do is play those female players who were trying to win attention right back. I even made my breezy compete for my attention over other women in the area. This kept her inline for many a years of abuse.

Competition is a powerful tool to use against women. They are competitive as hell and they hate to loose. When they would think another woman was about to take their man they would double the effort to keep him, or should I say yours truly.

With the aerobics teacher I started openly dating another teacher who even had the same name. I kept the two of them highly motivated for over 3 years, before finally deciding to just play with the second one.

I believe I posted before how this woman said being with me is like being on the edge of a cliff all day. Exciting and dangerous. Women are emotional junkies and you gotta keep those emotions primed to keep em.

When you appear to be a person other women want to go out with you have increased your power of attraction tenfold. All you must do is just appear to be. Most players want to keep what the do a secret. Don’t! One of the biggest players I know of in my town is openly a player and women actually line up to go out with him.

Imagine a restaurant full of people, now imagine a restaurant that’s empty. Now which one would you want to dine in? People want what others have. Simple fact. This player whom I spoke of was known as the biggest player in town and women loved him. They all thought they would be the one to change him.

I have used this same technique. I make sure women see me picking up women left and right. I will go to one certain club for a while always meeting new people. Now my reputation around there is that of a player, but I am still not at a loss of new victims. Go figure!

Women figure that I must have something that other men do not have and they line up to see. I use them and if they are good I keep them for a while and then discard them like a Miki D’s wrapper in my trash can.
****end of post***

good night gentlemen!
 
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You don't know how many times, I've been rejected until I learned a basic element of the game...women do the choosing, if she ain't choosing, don't step up. The percentage of white women who would sleep with a black man is real small, unlike what alot of guys think...these girls have to deal with social pressures and whatnot to even step into that door.

Recently I was at a trendy bar dancing with this blond cookie. It was one of those mostly white only rich yuppie places. Suddenly blondy see's this guy she knew come in the room and she suddenly stopped dancing. I walked the f*uck away! If they aren't ready to go through the door I don't waist my time.
 

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Man, this post makes the game sound so cruel, predatorial and ethically questionable at best.

I love it!

:D
 

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Originally posted by Don Ronny
Man, this post makes the game sound so cruel, predatorial and ethically questionable at best.
What, like Player Supreme? :D

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That sucks Player. How's the odds of white boys (foreign ones at that) scoring with the black girls there? Is there social pressure against hooking up there too?

Oscar.
 
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Originally posted by Oscar Wilde
What, like Player Supreme? :D

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That sucks Player. How's the odds of white boys (foreign ones at that) scoring with the black girls there? Is there social pressure against hooking up there too?

Oscar.
Yeah holmes there is. Sista's have to contend with other sistas and brotha's giving them the "look". Their pastors, moms & dads & other relatives. You gotta remember in this country we had something called "slavery". I admire the courage of sista's that "cross over". Their numbers are growing though. My boy in that pic, has had two as I was teaching him the game. Unfortunately they tend to be kinda controlling of "white boys".

I have a friend who was a journalist on the BBC who is from nigeria.. raised in England.I didnt' realize that even the english had slaves back then too. It is more acceptable over in England though to date outside of your race.

As starman "will" attest to by the pics I sent him I don't just date white only even though most of my pics were of white girls. I don't like the brotha's who hate on their own race and only date white girls....I am an equal opportunity destroyer..lol
 

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Yeah, I met some of your redneck klan types when I was passing through the southern states. Fsckers.

We had slavery here too, only it was us (the Irish) who were on the wrong side of things. In general we're not big fans of the Brits to this day. Mind you, my last 2 girls have been English... hehe :)

That's a pity, cos I like a bit of the flight recorder ... want to hit on some more beautiful black women.
 
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That's a pity, cos I like a bit of the flight recorder ... want to hit on some more beautiful black women. [/B][/QUOTE]


LOL...go get em tiger! But once you go black you never go back!
 

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Black chicks are hot.

They are usually strong and assertive and most of the ladies I have encountered are proud of their big, luscious asses (how many black girls do you know have an eating disorder? exactly!) Plus they age very well. I could see myself ending up with an ebony goddess.

So do you have any crossover tips for us white boys who have yet to sample the dark meat, Player Supreme?

But once you go black you never go back
Well ... thats a chance I am willing to take! :D
 

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I love this thread, so on point, so precise. I have a situation like this now that's been a little while in the making. Not in a bar though, a more social place but not for fratenizing. The game has started to unfold just like the post. And also I have to kill it soon before the I'm seen as a big sweety friend.
 

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"Occasionally licker her lips as if you’re a barbeque rib, or running her tongue around her lips. "

ahhahahahahahah
 
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