Casual or looking desperate?

Boricua_33015

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Theres this girl in my home room class (first period) and she iz a hot blonde brazilian 9. Im interested in makin this girl mine but I dont want to just go up and talk to her and spit my game just like that. I want to make it casual, like I talk to her if I have to, or if I need to. The only exeption is if I see her alone in the morning waiting for the teacher to come then Ill come over and talk to her. But any other time would seem desperate as she sits 2 seats ahead of me and I cant talk to her after class because it would mean that I would have to wait for her to exit the class, since she sits ahead of me, I would exit first. There have been times where she has talked to me but it seemed like she was making an excuse just to talk to me. Like one time she mentioned a paper that we did about 2 days ago and already turned it in. So I called her on it and I made some small talk with her and ended the conversation with "nice talking to u" and she just smiled while she looked down. That was the last time I talked to her because I havent made any effort to come and talk to her because I thought it would seem desperate. I told my freind about this and he told me that I wont go anywhere if I am waiting to talk to her just casually.

There was also one time where the class was waiting for the bell to ring by the door so we can exit, and I was waiting and she came and stood next to me (not really because she wanted to but because she had to) but she stood next to me REALLY close. Her arm was touching me and she was looking right my way while I just looked forward and acted like I didnt notice. Did she want me to talk to her? There was also a time where she was asking me about a problem for the homework and she stood next to me desk so close that her thighs were touching my arms (pvssy was close as hell too) and she would bend over to talk to me like we were about to kiss.

Well anyways, these past 3 days I could feel some sexual tension between us. I could just FEEL it, I dont know how to explain it. She has looked my way and kept looking that way and I would look at her but not sure if she was looking at me or something past me so I would stay with an emtionless face and then give off a little smirk and she would stay emtionless for a couple moments and then also give off a little smirk but I wasnt sure if she was giving it off to me because I smirked or what. Also she has been stomping on the ground for no reason sometimes when (i think) she knows im paying attention to her as if she is anxious because she wants me to talk to her. She did that for 2 days and stopped today. (yea i kno im paying attention to useless details but I really think she was doing that because she wanted me to talk to her.

My freind is having his house to himself this weekend and wants all his freinds to come and bring liquor and girls and have a good time at his house the whole weekend. Now if I talk to this girl tomorrow I want to get her number and also tell her about these little get togethers at my freinds house (it gets crazy in these get togethers, drinks are flowing, girls get horny, loud music, people smokin weed everywhere, people freestyling, having fresstyle battles, my freinds also freestyle). So if she wants to come then Ill get my freinds to pick her up.

I guess my question is, is it better to show like I made a big effort to talk to her like wait after class for her? (in the morning she usually comes late so she hardly ever waits at the door for the teacher) or is it better to set my self up where I could talk to her and make it seem casual then build up rapport from there then get her number?
 
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DJoneday

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approach her whenever (why restrict yourself to class?) and close the number, you dont start looking desperate until you talk to her over and over and over without ever going anywhere with it, so the answer to your question is that next time you see her, grab your balls and (come in closer, you need to hear this...)
GET
HER
NUMBER
and you'll hit two birds with one stone - you wanting her and you looking desperate talking to her ;)
Good luck,
 

Duff

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Dude your anaylising too much. She probably just sees you as being rude now.
Just talk to her next time u see her.
 

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i couldnt read it all, to boring and long. ill say this, forget about all the little stuff. it doesent mean a thing untill you aproach her. just go talk to her. say soemthign open and just let it flow.you wont look desperate if you go talk to her, you may show soem interest but thats not bad. just dont act desperate when you rtalk to her. nuf said
 

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yeah, i agree with the others. if you had never spoken to her before and waited for her after class it might seem weird, but from all the stuff you said has been going on WHY IN THE HELL HAVEN'T YOU GOTTEN HER NUMBER YET. Just wait for her after class and get it man. If things don't turn out well so what she wasn't interested, but it seems like you've got a problem with oneitis right now. As Nike said it best "Just do it" and quit being a puss y and analyzing everything. I used to do the same thing a few years ago and it got me nowhere. Be a man and just talk to her and get her number and invite her over, and if she declines then just NEXT her.
 
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