My head is filled with too much **** from life to figure out what's going on with this girl. So, I need to rely on you guys.
Met this girl about two weeks ago at a party, she walked over to my social circle and I went up to her. Heavy kino, flirting and banter from the first few moments. The next day she finds me on Facebook and the conversation was filled with banter, she knew how to have an intelligent conversation and I liked it.
Took her out a week later, one of the best I've had in while. Changed venue three times, great conversation, heavy kino, making out, but didn't close the deal since I had work 6 in the morning the next day. About 4 days later, we're at a party with our social circles and at the end she drags me to her room, and I throw her on the bed and get busy. She kept repeating how we're not having sex that night, I just shrugged it off, said okay, and continued what I was doing. After I get her topless, with her hands down my pants, she said it's not happening. Shrug it off and continue, and then she says stop, that's as far as you're getting tonight. This kind of ticked me off, as if she's a prize I need to chase after, so I stood up, got dressed and decided to leave. She says stay, so I stay and continue what I was doing then the same **** happens except this time she stands up, goes to the door and says leave. I smiled, grabbed my stuff and said bye.
The next 2 days she sent me 20 messages literally, which I ignored, didn't respond until the third day. Ever since this she's been acting continuously disrespectful in front of her friends towards me, I ignore her completely and step my foot down when she goes too far. The problem is we share the same social circle, her friends are, in their words, amazed by me and invite me to their stuff every day.
Her best friend tells me everything, since she's also a good friend of mine. Now she's saying she wants to be friends, but I don't even look her in the eye. As I'm writing this, I realize what a **** amount of stupid drama this is. I'm thinking of keeping my distance from her and her social circle for a while, while I'm doing my own thing.
So much **** surrounding this girl, that I fail to realize why I haven't cut her off completely yet. Probably because this is the first time in a while, where I have to put some sincere effort to get her to bed.
tl;dr: She's playing mind games, using sex as a means of power and acts disrespectful, but I still want to **** her because she's an hb9 and I feel I'm so close.
Met this girl about two weeks ago at a party, she walked over to my social circle and I went up to her. Heavy kino, flirting and banter from the first few moments. The next day she finds me on Facebook and the conversation was filled with banter, she knew how to have an intelligent conversation and I liked it.
Took her out a week later, one of the best I've had in while. Changed venue three times, great conversation, heavy kino, making out, but didn't close the deal since I had work 6 in the morning the next day. About 4 days later, we're at a party with our social circles and at the end she drags me to her room, and I throw her on the bed and get busy. She kept repeating how we're not having sex that night, I just shrugged it off, said okay, and continued what I was doing. After I get her topless, with her hands down my pants, she said it's not happening. Shrug it off and continue, and then she says stop, that's as far as you're getting tonight. This kind of ticked me off, as if she's a prize I need to chase after, so I stood up, got dressed and decided to leave. She says stay, so I stay and continue what I was doing then the same **** happens except this time she stands up, goes to the door and says leave. I smiled, grabbed my stuff and said bye.
The next 2 days she sent me 20 messages literally, which I ignored, didn't respond until the third day. Ever since this she's been acting continuously disrespectful in front of her friends towards me, I ignore her completely and step my foot down when she goes too far. The problem is we share the same social circle, her friends are, in their words, amazed by me and invite me to their stuff every day.
Her best friend tells me everything, since she's also a good friend of mine. Now she's saying she wants to be friends, but I don't even look her in the eye. As I'm writing this, I realize what a **** amount of stupid drama this is. I'm thinking of keeping my distance from her and her social circle for a while, while I'm doing my own thing.
So much **** surrounding this girl, that I fail to realize why I haven't cut her off completely yet. Probably because this is the first time in a while, where I have to put some sincere effort to get her to bed.
tl;dr: She's playing mind games, using sex as a means of power and acts disrespectful, but I still want to **** her because she's an hb9 and I feel I'm so close.
