I been hanging with this very hot girl in one of my classes for close to 3 weeks now. I got the vibe she was into me so I approached her and we now sit together in class and went on our first date early this week to a NHL hockey game. However, I dont know what is up with this girl. She putting out mixed signals that she likes me- flirts, but then she turns around and plays hard to get-- for example anytime were alone or in class she doesnt talk much, if she does its small talk and its usually about school. But when she speaks it almost feels like she is taking my clothes off with her eyes she is looking so hard. She doesnt even blink...kind of creepy haha. Also, she ALWAYS on her cell phone 24/7 as if she is trying to act important and busy. Then all the sudden she whips out the chap stick and gets her lips all greasy, starts brushing her hair to the side and stretching like crazy to get my attention. Is this girl a whack job or what?
I've tried some light kino with her (she didnt seem to mind), but I'm almost put off to try anymore since the signals of attraction are so weak. And forgot to mention the date we went on this last monday, I didnt even initiate a hug or kiss bc I wasnt getting a strong enough vibe from her during the date. Although she was friendly, I wasn't feeling the connection. As I'm sitting with her in my car waiting for her to get the hell out, she ends up reaching over giving me a big hug. I was kinda of surprised, but rolled with it. Definitely didnt make much of it since it could of been thank you gesture.
The next day in class after our date I've tried changing my approach trying to act unavailable. When we were in class, I'd only speak to her when she sat beside me or if she asked me a question, which could usually be summed up in a yes or no and was related again only to school. Other then that I try not to say anything more. I try to act indifferent as possible and it seemed to work for a day. She started to do a little kino on me by brushing up against my leg and arm and closing in on the personal space much more then before. Very subtle, but I did notice them. Then the next day like a light switch she act more disinterested and put off, to top it off she completely ignored me and began chatting it up with a girl that sits on our same row and 2 guys in front of us like I didnt even exist. What really pissed me off is she started telling that girl beside her life story and she hasn't told me ****. At that point I'd finally had enough, and after class had ended, I bounced to the parking lot without saying goodbye and walking her out. Didnt look back at her once, almost as she didnt exist. I should of played it cooler, but my emotions got the best of me and I just wanted to diss her hard.
At this point I think I'm officially done, unless she quits the games. I'm not sure how I sure approach this situation coming monday when I see her again. I almost want to be an immature ******* sit somewhere else, not beside her haha.
Any Advice?? Should I be that ******* that avoids her like the plague, continue to sit beside her and keep playing the game, or confess my love to her once she sits down for class (lol! yeah right...)
I've tried some light kino with her (she didnt seem to mind), but I'm almost put off to try anymore since the signals of attraction are so weak. And forgot to mention the date we went on this last monday, I didnt even initiate a hug or kiss bc I wasnt getting a strong enough vibe from her during the date. Although she was friendly, I wasn't feeling the connection. As I'm sitting with her in my car waiting for her to get the hell out, she ends up reaching over giving me a big hug. I was kinda of surprised, but rolled with it. Definitely didnt make much of it since it could of been thank you gesture.
The next day in class after our date I've tried changing my approach trying to act unavailable. When we were in class, I'd only speak to her when she sat beside me or if she asked me a question, which could usually be summed up in a yes or no and was related again only to school. Other then that I try not to say anything more. I try to act indifferent as possible and it seemed to work for a day. She started to do a little kino on me by brushing up against my leg and arm and closing in on the personal space much more then before. Very subtle, but I did notice them. Then the next day like a light switch she act more disinterested and put off, to top it off she completely ignored me and began chatting it up with a girl that sits on our same row and 2 guys in front of us like I didnt even exist. What really pissed me off is she started telling that girl beside her life story and she hasn't told me ****. At that point I'd finally had enough, and after class had ended, I bounced to the parking lot without saying goodbye and walking her out. Didnt look back at her once, almost as she didnt exist. I should of played it cooler, but my emotions got the best of me and I just wanted to diss her hard.
At this point I think I'm officially done, unless she quits the games. I'm not sure how I sure approach this situation coming monday when I see her again. I almost want to be an immature ******* sit somewhere else, not beside her haha.
Any Advice?? Should I be that ******* that avoids her like the plague, continue to sit beside her and keep playing the game, or confess my love to her once she sits down for class (lol! yeah right...)
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