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Well thank you for your opinions, and those who had reposnses that were a bit unfriendly well you dont understand my point, plus you are just being ignored.
I was reading a post from Pook who was saying that testosterone is what makes men masucline. Masculinity is just a way of acting which comes from the presesce of testosterone in your blood. A person with lesser amounts of testosterone will act more female.
This is straight from Pooks post. There has also been scientific studies of about people who take more risks and face more danger on a day to day basis have more testosterone ppm in their blood.
Now it also says in Pooks post which he used science to support his statements that a man with lots of testosterone will want to exercise and not sit down, to move around and take risks, he would not want to sit down and study or analyize. Its more Action and less studying seduction material.
If a man must have testosterone to be masculine and if being masculine by having large amount of testosterone makes us active and physical rather than mental and anyltical. Then there must be a point that if we keep recieveing testosterone that we will lose all of our thinking abililties since the chemical enduces action rather than thought.
But common man must find a balance between his testosterone telling him to do what he wants or do what society expects. A man who listens to his testosterone will not be the same guy who sits at home and embodies passive qualties.
If you look at a thug, you know that he has given up his attempt to be civilized and he has given way to his natural instincts of greed personal satisfaction and riches and sex.
Those who build society are very special people, most people dont do sh*t in society except demand and demand. Yeah people who built those buildings did so because they where paid,not out of any goodness, but for money their check they got.
Civilized, most people are not civilized, are you joking me. Look at hurican katrina, people posted up high powered sniper riffles and started shooting cops because they where angry. There are so many example of human chaos in the absense of forced order.
When order is removed human nature is to move toward chaos. Ever hear of enthropy. The idea that all things in nature move towards chaos.
Now when a man must subconsciencly pick bewteen masculinty or what his body tells him to do or what his mind tells him. There becomes a conflict. Society tells him that he must do so and so, while his body urges him to do something completly diffrent. Which side will the man listen to?
How many times do you tell yourself, man I wish I could go and beat that guy up and hit him with a bat in his face but you dont, for fear of repurcussions from the legal authorites.
But the desire for destruction is there. Its just only our minds that stop it from happening.
When men take risks when it comes to women, our bodies are telling us to go and talk to her but our mind keeps saying no.
In the army they teach men "You are much stronger than you mind beleives it is" The army teaches men to remove the civilized thinking so that shooting people doesnt seem dramtic as it would to you or me.
Cave men never had problems killing other humans, it was just a part of nature, you vs me. They never thought about it, it was just another day.
If you teach a man to not listen to his mind then he will naturally degress towards chaos and cave men animalistic behavior.
To be successful with women a man needs to be more free and on the spectrum of animalistic to civilized. He has to be a little more to the animalsitc side, it will help him take risks, scoff at rejection, treat women more like just pieces of as*s and not people whose feelings are to be considered.
But then a man must also be sohipsticated but the two can never coexist.
James Bond is a movie actor, there is a reason why all the guys love him.
Most guys in the army, when you talk to them, you can smell that there out for blood when ever there in the zone or out on the field. Thats how humans where 10,000 yrs ago all the time.
Imagine how ODD it would be when you took a guy who was just in a foxhole and you changed him up quickly into a suit and tie and he was teleported into a ball room full of socialites. I can just imagine what must be going through the male, a complete frame change. From chaos to high order. The two forms of 'James bond masculinity and James Bond sophstication cannot be present at the same time" He has to shift frames and act 'properly' and lower his animalistic desires.
This was an extreme example.
The trial that every man faces is to remove what society tells us what we must do vs learning to listen to what our bodies want when it comes to women.
My questions was how do you find the proper balance between the two and how would a man remove what his mind tells him that keeps him from being successful with women
Men must find a balance between trying to be what society wants and what women want vs what our bodies want.
Right now I want to go approach a thousand girls but my mind tells me no, if you fail society will laugh at you and your value will be lowered. So I think about it twice. Every man has a reason for not approaching.
