Can someone tell me how to get a threesome out of this?

[3lvovo1]

Hi, guys. How are y'all doing?

In very brief, I met two awesome girls at a club. I have been taking dance lessons lately, so they totally were into my dance moves. Girl A kept dancing with me whilst girl B couldn't stop mentioning how she had double D tits while we had a joint outside. This has never happened to me personally before and I did not know how to take advantage of that situation. It just sort of shocked me. So, I just meekly let them go home with their boyfriends but they gave me their flat address since we live in the same block of flats as it turns out.

I went to see them at their flat address and we hung out, I was doing my best to be congruent, "man-to-woman," show off that lazer eye-contact, like those RSD videos say to do. And I don't even know if that worked or not but by the end girl B, was really warm to me, she gave me the world's warmest hug. NO close from me. I didn't have a phone throughout the entire interaction so I told them to meet me at my place so we could smoke a joint some time. I did not believe that it would actually happen like that because in my experience it hasn't worked out like that at all. . lol.

But they actually DID come through . and girl A was smiling at me the whole time, giving those nudge, nudge, wink-wink! vibes. she also sort of "kept her distance" and girl B was approximately the same standard of behavior as always. She mentioned that she had a boyfriend at this point even though she said there was no one in her life the day before. And the tragedy here is that I didn't know how to proceed from there. I was stuck "in my head" and I felt under some kind of pressure to make a move of some kind. but I was 100% clueless about how to proceed going forward.
It became SO awkward! I and they left never to come back again.

What should I have done? Maybe it's just some small thing that I missed but I can't figure it out. And it's so awful, it's like they took a closer look and saw the nerd within and that was all it took.
If it was you what would you do? I do have their details I'm just too embarrassed to call. I'm being real.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

Yea, you're frame wasn't for the situation. Don't beat yourself up about it. There's more broads man.

In the future - before they come over just make sure your frame and head is straight. You have to think you are a guy that's been In the situation before, nothing shocks you, a threesome is like every other day, and you're the boss of the room.

If it were me...I would have turned on some music grabbed the hand of the one girl who seemed more into me and told her to dance with me. While I was dancing I would have TOLD the other to fix me a glass of liquor. Not ask...TELL. Like I said...this is all about frame. Your frame would make you say it just the right way for her with that request to understand that the order is really a test to see if she's down for your ultimate goal. The one who's more reserved in IOIs is nearly always the herd leader. Your mission is to Dominate her.


Submission is like the key to a lot of things and both of these were tests of submission for regular/ request to see if you could move forward. If the girl you told gets you the drink walks up to you and hands it to you, you have your answer and make the move by accepting the cup and then taking her hand and putting it on your crotch. The one who you were dancing with would was already highly into you so she would have been turned on by your dominance of the other girl.

If she says no - just say nothing, turn your head opposite of her direction and finish the "dance with the broad you came with". All your attention is on her and the other one would likely try to leave and say she/we have to go.

It's a vibe thing but you already are one up by being in the situation and seem like a cool dude. Just work on your frame and you'll be good.