can 'she' see other girl's #s

runna4

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Well, I was wondering - first date - we might be stopping back at my house (OK my parents' house) to show her around and I have a few pieces of paper and and on my calender in my room I have other girl's numbers around with their names, and this girl's number which she wrote on a piece of paper is right up there in the mix.

Should I clean that stuff up and stash it somewhere, or should I not give a flip. If she asks if I'm a playa or something can I just say like "well i only spend time with girls that'd I'd actually like to date/have a relationship with" or something of that sort to kind of hint to her? (I would like to date this chick indeed)
Or should I just say "I can't help it if other girls want to give me their number"

Any suggestions would be cool. I did a search and couldn't find something that related to this sort - I'm hinted toward the fact that I shouldn't care if she sees them, but I don't want to come off as rude or nothing.
 

Vincent

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Well,

i would use it to your advantage, a girl likes competition, and if she knows more are fighting for your attention, the better. Its really your call, i haven't had this situation, but i'd leave them out, just try not to intimidate her to much.

--Vincent
 

Da Game

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I'd use the "I can't help it" line.
 

ShizamDaMan

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Leave it up there, it's your house. If she asks just make sure she knows it's nothing out of the ordinary for you to have lots of people's phone numbers around. This will make her realize, "Hey, a lot of girls must enjoy your company... hmmmm."
 
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