I'm questioning if I should continue to be in a relationship with my gf of 4 months, we're both 22 year old students.
Let's start with the good. When we met at a music festival she had an attraction level in the 70-80 range(Couldn't keep her hands off me / got jealous when I made small talk with a different girl / we also had sex the first night). After 6 months of knowing her we've been to Vegas, Miami, New Orleans and backpacked throughout Europe. She even spent $1000 on my plane ticket just to go to Europe with her. She's a hard worker and I've also met her parents and realized she grew up in a loving household. Long story short, the relationship long is great when it's just her and I.
After we became exclusive when we're hanging out with other people, she used to make sexual jokes with my buds and even drunkenly flashed her tits once when both of our friends were in the room. I made it a point that if she ever did that again we were done; she cried and apologized. That was 4 months ago and she hasn't crossed that boundary since. Throughout our relationship she's snooped through my phone twice and got upset when she found out I was dating other women before we became exclusive. Now she's insecure and constantly ask me if I'm cheating on her. I assure her she's the only woman in my life...yadayada. When we're away from each other she'll send me nudes through snapchat, wanting my attention 24/7. The problem I have is she snapchats other guys as well as a friend of mine who saw her tits when she was drunk. I know I'll sound beta if I tell her who she can and can't snap but in the back of my mind I'm wondering what they are sending to one another. Should I remain indifferent, confront her, or next?
Let's start with the good. When we met at a music festival she had an attraction level in the 70-80 range(Couldn't keep her hands off me / got jealous when I made small talk with a different girl / we also had sex the first night). After 6 months of knowing her we've been to Vegas, Miami, New Orleans and backpacked throughout Europe. She even spent $1000 on my plane ticket just to go to Europe with her. She's a hard worker and I've also met her parents and realized she grew up in a loving household. Long story short, the relationship long is great when it's just her and I.
After we became exclusive when we're hanging out with other people, she used to make sexual jokes with my buds and even drunkenly flashed her tits once when both of our friends were in the room. I made it a point that if she ever did that again we were done; she cried and apologized. That was 4 months ago and she hasn't crossed that boundary since. Throughout our relationship she's snooped through my phone twice and got upset when she found out I was dating other women before we became exclusive. Now she's insecure and constantly ask me if I'm cheating on her. I assure her she's the only woman in my life...yadayada. When we're away from each other she'll send me nudes through snapchat, wanting my attention 24/7. The problem I have is she snapchats other guys as well as a friend of mine who saw her tits when she was drunk. I know I'll sound beta if I tell her who she can and can't snap but in the back of my mind I'm wondering what they are sending to one another. Should I remain indifferent, confront her, or next?
