Can I make it happen?

[I_Will_Win]

first off I am 6' 1" 350lbs I have a very very bad need to get a woman. I do not pursue anything in life but woman. I know how bad that is but I can't think about anything except getting a woman. Anyway I think I have a decent personality and I can make people laugh. So is there hope for me at my current weight? Of course I am working on my weight. But I have to have a woman soon. Can I get one?

 

[easyjim]

Yes, you can.

If you see your weight as a problem all the women will too.

If a woman has a problem with your weight, it's just that... her problem, not yours.

That said, lose what you can.....It can only help.

 

[zimzum]

It might be difficult...
People tend to classify people by the way they look, and body language, at first sight... If the biggest nerd is a total dj, but looks like a nerd, he will be treated like a nerd at first... You cant change that...

That's why we talk all the time about clothes and body language...because they are important...

But that doesnt mean that you cant get any girl.. You can...but it will be really MUCH more difficult, than if you were thin...(depending on the girl that you want to get)...

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

I've seen men with 300 pound women - surely a 300 pound man can get a woman! Men are more into the physical look of a woman than women are into the look of a man - we have to be aroused to perform the sex act!

Lose weight with the same drive and vigor that you have in pursuing a woman, then the women will come!

 

[Mr.Fortesque]

I know it is hard, but first try to be happy without woman withyour friends and hobbies, then U will soon become one.