Can her interest level drop that fast??

[Paalias]

I would like to preface this a little. In saying that I have read a lot of things from this site over that past year. I have my own life(work, school, hobbies, etc) so I don't do a lot of dating. But, this site has changed my outlook on women and the way I live my life. Thank You.

There is a girl that I work with and for the past month she has shown an interest level in me that was off the scales. By that I mean she would go out of her way to see me, she would say 'hi' when I walked by, even if I wasn't paying attention or talking to somebody else. Even her body language would show she was nervous around me. She was just always interested in what I was doing on weekends, or whatever.

So, I finally asked her out. I think it was a really good date. We kept everything light and funny. I got in a lot of KINO and she seemed to have a good time. I did mention to her that we should keep business and outside ativities separated. She was totally fine with that. Now, I just happened to be gone the week after our date, so I talked to her once. She was sick though and didn't really want to talk. I understand this.

Now, when I come back to work. She doesn't go out of her way to say 'hi' anymore. She doesn't stop and talk to me like she used to. She will still talk to me though when I do see her. But, thinking it was all in my head, I asked her out again and she said 'yes'. She's not so nervous around me anymore, either.

My question is, did her interest level drop off that much from our first date? I mean did she say 'yes' again, because there is still a slight interest that is plummeting? I realize there are plenty of posts about a girls interest level, what to do and what NOT to do. I don't feel like I did anything wrong according to these guides.

Thanks

 

[silverwex]

Ignore her til she talks to u first.

Flirt with other gals in ur workplace.

If she still has interest for you, youll know if u follow the above.

 

[jbbrain]

DONT TRY TO READ GIRLS

why concern yourself with her interest level now??? Dude, u havent even fvcked her yet!

Better yet, dont get into women's heads in general until you're at least in a relationship...Even then...you're headed for a period of oneitis, obsession, and frustration.

Relax.

To top this all off, you even mentioned she said "yes" when you asked her out a second time. What the hell is the problem? Why all this overanalyzation with a girl you barely know who ACCEPTED your invitation for a second date? What you need to do is KNOW that everything is fine and that she likes you, and proceed from there. Be a fvcking man.

Have fun with her on your second date. Blow her away. Make her WANT you.

If you don't know HOW, this site is the perfect place for you. Put all this great knowledge into good use and report back after you've either fvcked her or are getting bored from all her incessant phone calling.

JUST SAY NO TO READING GIRLS! You'll be infinitely happier that way.

 

[JohnJones]

She may just not have had that good a time. However, if you ignore her a lot (like no contact at all) she will probably come back to see what's up.

 

[xblitz44x]

First of all, how old is she? That has a lot to do with things. Young girls tend to not know WHAT the fvck they want. You may have misinterpreted her 'signals' as "ultra high interest" when really she was just curious about you. Maybe she's playing games right now and she really DOES like you. Regardless you didn't do anything 'wrong' per se as long as you hung out there, played it naturally, and paid ATTENTION. If her perceptions of you were ruined after one date (which i seriously doubt) then there would be enough to fuel another date. Pay attention to her actions and you'll be able to figure out what type of thinking is driving them. Even when they try to hide it, they are transparent.