Calling a woman out

[BadBoy89]

I've probably made a thread like this before, but anyway here we go.

If a girl assumes something about you, you have to hit her back. Alot of this site keeps saying "walk away, be smooth, girls are silly, don't take it seriously." Well, I somewhat listened to that advice during my last date, and it messed me up. Usually I'm quick to reply, but this time I didn't for a while.

Went out a woman, she looked ok but not really my type. At the end of the date she said "nice meeting you, talk soon." I said "take care" Came home. About 2 hours later, she texts "Hi Badboy, thanks for coffee, just wanted to say didn't feel romantic connection. Good luck in your search."

Now because this site, the players who sleep with girls with their eyes closed in 10 min of meeting them, teaches to "walk away, be smooth" I didn't respond.
But it bugged she assumed that I felt something.

So today, I almost 2 weeks after the date, I exploded inside. I texted back "Hi xyz, I just got your message. I don't remember saying I felt a romantic spark. Good luck in your search," Oh man it felt good.

Now if I said "Hi xyz, I enjoyed our date, lets do it again" and she said that, OK ,no problem. But when I don't say anything and a woman assumes, IT'S ON.

Now I'm not a player who sleeps with hundreds of girls, but my main point is this: if a woman assumes something about you, you have to, HAVE TO, HAVE TO hit them back.

 

[Vanderdonck]

About 2 hours later, she texts "Hi Badboy, thanks for coffee, just wanted to say didn't feel romantic connection. Good luck in your search."


But it bugged she assumed that I felt something.

She said she didn't feel anything. Where did she she say anything about you feeling something? I don't see it.

 

[Westminster]

Don't let in bug you, OP. It's just a date which didn't go anywhere for whatever reason. You didn't have a lot invested in it. Personally, I wouldn't have responded, but maybe something short like "OK, no probs. Ditto" would be alright. But I probably wouldn't bother.

Rise a above it, just move on.

 

[Barrister]

I don’t think this site teaches “just walk away” so much as to always let things roll off of you. In this situation specifically, “agree and amplify” was the way to go immediately after the text was received. Responding two weeks later makes you look like you’ve sat around being angry about it - which is accurate because that is exactly what you did.

“hey, no hard feelings at all. Had a good time but agree there was no spark. No use forcing anything. Good luck with everything and I’ll see you around if you’re lucky.”

 

[SW15]

I would have forgotten this woman ever existed within 24-48 of receiving that unpleasant text message. Some things aren't even worth acknowledging.

She would have been deleted from my phone as soon as it was received.

Also, I typically don't do coffee dates. The only time when I might do a coffee date is if I am doing a bookstore approach and I manage to do an instantaneous date in the coffee shop located inside a bookstore. Some bookstore locations have coffee shops set up inside of them.