Calling a woman on her ****...

[Don_Jaime]

Yo guys I want to share a story with you and I need your guys opinion on how to handle this situation. It's kinda funny the games girls play isn't it?
Ok. Here is whats up...I met this cute 18 year old chick with a huge rack at a Halloween party. She is the cousin of a friend and he was cool with us hooking up so I made out with her that night and played with her tits and ****. I could of closed, but like a dumbass forgot my condoms on my dresser. Anyway, I picked her up the next night and had sex with her. Then I hang with her again a few days later to have sex again, but this time she wouldn't have sex and was holding out on me(we just made out a lot and we got each other super horny and then bam she said she didn't want to have sex) supposedly cuz she said she was still sore from the other day when I tore her up. So we just ended up watching Half Baked and I took her home. Was this a game she was playing with me to see if I get mad or what? Well, I kept my cool and took her home and then she texted me about half hour later and mentioned how she had a great time and she hopes to see me soon. I ignored her text that night. Ok so a couple days later she texts me again with a different number saying hey its me Vicky I am using my cousins phone cuz mine wont work out here and I am in Cabo san Lucas till Dec. 2 hope to see you when I get back. I take this as high interest level still and am like cool have fun. anyways she gets into a pattern of texting me like every 2-3 days hey sexy. Sometimes I respond and mess with her saying when she gets back we are gonna do some role playing where she dresses up in her scrubs and me in mine and she will be the bad medical assistant. hehe. But there are other times where I just ignore the text the whole night. I dont want her to think that she has me by the balls returning every text and ****. She always says that she misses my kisses and cant wait to see me, but I usually reply, don't get all mushy with me, just being playful yet also showing her that I am not emotionally attached to her the way she is with me. I mean i do like the girl, she is a cool chick and I want to keep hitting it, but I don't think I would make her my GF. Anyway, I call her maybe once a week on my time to see whats up with her and keep some rapport but I never stay on the phone for more than 15 minutes for sure. Ok, so anyway she texts me today saying hey sexy this is my new number. So in my head I am like wtf how do you get a new number when you are in Mexico, that doesn't make sense? My question is, should I call her on her **** or just ignore her text. I mean come on, now I feel like she is not really in Cabo San Lucas but is just playing games with me. I would like to keep the relationship but my integrity always comes first now. (damn, I never could have said that a year ago before I found this place) When thinking about the situation it makes me think a couple things:
1. She is putting me off to the side till december in case a relationship with someone else wont work out.
2.She is playing games and she wants to see if I notice that she might not really be in Cabo San Lucas and call her on her ****.
3. Maybe I am just over thinking things.
What do you guys think?

 

[Perfect10]

Yes, you guessed it. She was testing you.

The second that you get angry for her not giving it to you, she'll be the one with all the power in the relationship. Be strong my super horny DJ!
Just chill out and don't give in to her. Wait 'til she comes back.
If she continues alot with not giving you some of that sweet loving, then you should hit the road. Remember that she's 18 (Girls at that age are really unsure, that's why she's like that).

 

[Don_Jaime]

Yes, you guessed it. She was testing you.

The second that you get angry for her not giving it to you, she'll be the one with all the power in the relationship. Be strong my super horny DJ!
Just chill out and don't give in to her. Wait 'til she comes back.
If she continues alot with not giving you some of that sweet loving, then you should hit the road. Remember that she's 18 (Girls at that age are really unsure, that's why she's like that).

Cool Thanks Perfect 10...

Lol ok here is what happened today. She texted me again today so I was like **** it I will call her and test her today to see if she is playing me or not. I found out something funny on her part and I want to know how should I handle this...ok. I talk to her for about 5-10 minutes and the convo is going good and all of a sudden I ask her,"What time is it over there in Cabo San Lucas?" She says nothing for about 3-4 seconds and is totally dumbfounded and says to me "huh?" I repeat the question and she says hold on let me call you back....hahahahahaha...I caught this ***** red handed totally lying to me about being in Cabo. She calls back and I am about to LJBF her and I ask her after a minute of convo, "how did you change your number if your in mexico?" She tells me oh my phone broke blah blah blah and I had to get a new one. Yet she got a new number too. I think she knows I know what she is up to, she gets quiet and I tell her, "you are kinda quiet." She says I know I am kinda tired so I say I will let her go to sleep then and we just say bye and and she does not say goodnight as she usually does. She seemed in shock. She thought I wouldnt notice her little game but she got caught. Anyway she texts me like literally 2 minutes later and says, "I forgot to say goodnight! Ill see you soon." So I am curious to know from you guys did I handle that right or did I mess up by LJBFing her right on the spot. I am wondering next time we talk(which will be sometime after she supposedly gets back from Cabo) how should I LJBF her and should I tell her I put two and two together and tell her I am not a fool and that I know she was not really in Cabo. I know she really liked me and I might be rationalizing this, however, I told my sister what happened and asked her why would a girl do that. She said because she really really likes you and wants you to miss her and thats just girls way of trying to keep you for the long term. Is this true an if that is the case should I still LJBF her for lying to me like that. I still want to **** her and whatnot but now I feel like I cant trust her now because of this. What is your guys opinions? And for God's sakes can I actually get a few responses this time hehe

$Don Jaime$

 

[Don_Jaime]

Lol ok here is what happened today. She texted me again today so I was like **** it I will call her and test her today to see if she is playing me or not. I found out something funny on her part and I want to know how should I handle this...ok. I talk to her for about 5-10 minutes and the convo is going good and all of a sudden I ask her,"What time is it over there in Cabo San Lucas?" She says nothing for about 3-4 seconds and is totally dumbfounded and says to me "huh?" I repeat the question and she says hold on let me call you back....hahahahahaha...I caught this ***** red handed totally lying to me about being in Cabo. She calls back and I am about to LJBF her and I ask her after a minute of convo, "how did you change your number if your in mexico?" She tells me oh my phone broke blah blah blah and I had to get a new one. Yet she got a new number too. I think she knows I know what she is up to, she gets quiet and I tell her, "you are kinda quiet." She
says I know I am kinda tired so I say I will let her go to sleep then and we just say bye and and she does not say goodnight as she usually does. She seemed in shock. She thought I wouldnt notice her little game but she got caught. Anyway she texts me like literally 2 minutes later and says, "I forgot to say goodnight! Ill see you soon." So I am curious to know from you guys did I handle that right or did I mess up by not LJBFing her right on the spot. I am wondering next time we talk(which will be sometime after she supposedly gets back from Cabo) how should I LJBF her and should I tell her I put two and two together and tell her I am not a fool and that I know she was not really in Cabo. I know she really liked me and I might be rationalizing this, however, I told my sister what happened and asked her why would a girl do that. She said because she really really likes you and wants you to miss her and thats just girls way of trying to keep you for the
long term. Is this true an if that is the case should I still LJBF her for lying to me like that. I still want to **** her and whatnot but now I feel like I cant trust her now because of this. What is your guys opinions? And for God's sakes can I actually get a few responses this time hehe

$Don Jaime$

 

[jdon23]

Lol ok here is what happened today. She texted me again today so I was like **** it I will call her and test her today to see if she is playing me or not. I found out something funny on her part and I want to know how should I handle this...ok. I talk to her for about 5-10 minutes and the convo is going good and all of a sudden I ask her,"What time is it over there in Cabo San Lucas?" She says nothing for about 3-4 seconds and is totally dumbfounded and says to me "huh?" I repeat the question and she says hold on let me call you back....hahahahahaha...I caught this ***** red handed totally lying to me about being in Cabo. She calls back and I am about to LJBF her and I ask her after a minute of convo, "how did you change your number if your in mexico?" She tells me oh my phone broke blah blah blah and I had to get a new one. Yet she got a new number too. I think she knows I know what she is up to, she gets quiet and I tell her, "you are kinda quiet." She
says I know I am kinda tired so I say I will let her go to sleep then and we just say bye and and she does not say goodnight as she usually does. She seemed in shock. She thought I wouldnt notice her little game but she got caught. Anyway she texts me like literally 2 minutes later and says, "I forgot to say goodnight! Ill see you soon." So I am curious to know from you guys did I handle that right or did I mess up by not LJBFing her right on the spot. I am wondering next time we talk(which will be sometime after she supposedly gets back from Cabo) how should I LJBF her and should I tell her I put two and two together and tell her I am not a fool and that I know she was not really in Cabo. I know she really liked me and I might be rationalizing this, however, I told my sister what happened and asked her why would a girl do that. She said because she really really likes you and wants you to miss her and thats just girls way of trying to keep you for the
long term. Is this true an if that is the case should I still LJBF her for lying to me like that. I still want to **** her and whatnot but now I feel like I cant trust her now because of this. What is your guys opinions? And for God's sakes can I actually get a few responses this time hehe

$Don Jaime$

You have to remember you ARE dealing with a 18 year old woman. They love to play games. But you need to think about LJBFing her.

If you just want to fvck her, then who cares if she's doing this game? Her interest level is still high because she calls/txts you all the time. I would just laugh it off but I wouldn't call her out on it. Most likely, she will feel guilty and will definitely try to "win" your favor back.. most likely by riding the sh!t out of your member.

good luck

 

[Don_Jaime]

ok guys here an update. This girl comes back tomorrow and I really want to bone this cutie. Will it seem needy to tell her I want to hangout with her on the day she "supposedly" comes back ? Or should I make her wait a few days?

 

[Nutz]

Make her wait. Call her up to do something. Then bring along a hottie as a wing to amp up her jealousy and show you're not needy and are preselected. It'll really frak with her head and seal the deal for you. If you guys all go out for drinks just have your winggirl meet a friend when you're out and she can leave with them leaving you and your girl alone.

 

[pua1989]

dude...you are playing this perfect

 

[slaog]

Don't presume that the girl is up to something bad because she lied to you. Sometimes when girls really like somebody they'll lie just to make themselves look better. This is especially true with 18 year olds. Maybe she had to go somewhere with her parents and didn't want to say it incase she didn't look 'cool'. Thats just an example.


She seems to like you. Do not get angry with her. Just go back to how your were previously.

And for God's sakes can I actually get a few responses this time hehe

People won't read the thread usually if it's too hard to read. Use some paragraphs. Also try not to write too much or people won't read it.

 

[More Cowbell Please]

Why the hell can't people write in paragraphs? She's probably just testing you to see if you'll act like a wuss, because she isn't giving you all her attention.

 

[Aragon034]

Don't presume that the girl is up to something bad because she lied to you. Sometimes when girls really like somebody they'll lie just to make themselves look better. This is especially true with 18 year olds. Maybe she had to go somewhere with her parents and didn't want to say it incase she didn't look 'cool'. Thats just an example.


She seems to like you. Do not get angry with her. Just go back to how your were previously.




People won't read the thread usually if it's too hard to read. Use some paragraphs. Also try not to write too much or people won't read it.

Ditto to all the above, though personally i'd 'accidentally' find out by asking certain questions like you did just to know for sure. I wouldn't let her know that i know though.

if you want nothing more than a good and hearty **** out of her, why bother with any of her personal idiodicies? I trust you have other plates nearby that aren't trying to mess with your head like that.

You said you don't want her as GF, i can relate and in those cases i find that it's best to tell them right off the bat "i'm not after a relationship right now." or some other chick speak **** for "I love ****ing you, but i'd hate being with you all the time."

In so doing, you aren't 'leading her on' so when she does ask you for a relationship, she doesn't feel mistakenly used for her snatch. Saved me from heaploads of drama and i sense it could probably save you from an ulcer with this chick.

Have fun and Good Hunting.