Calling A Month After The Girl Cancels

[John11276]

I recently had a second date set up with a cutie with a high IL. She had to back out the day before for personal reasons, but seemed very sincere about the whole thing. Probally too honest. My question is this, I plan on giving her another shot in a month or so, you guys ever had any luck with this kind of strategy? I'm not waiting around, I have other girls to tend to in the meantime.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

i would just leave it..if she had hi enough IL, it would be her contacting you...JMO.

Peace.

 

[crackhead]

Yeah man, as hard as it is, you pretty much have to just move on. I had the exact same thing happen to me about a month and a half ago. Completely sincere sounding making up some straight buuuuuuuulsh1t. If there is a chance that you will run into her eventually, I would say don't bother and just talk to her when you see her. Perhaps if you might not see her again for a while or ever why not I guess.

 

[davelmn2003]

I differ...If she was sincere about it and had a legitimate excuse, then I'd give it another shot. No reason to next a girl you're interested in so easily. If this time she flakes out again, next her in no time.

 

[Ar7]

If she has not called back within a week or have not made any solid attempt on the spot to set up another time for a date, then most likely you have fu@ked up bro.

 

[Kwah]

All phone numbers have an expiry date. Remember that.

 

[TesuqueRed]

What do you mean she was sincere? Did she counter-offer? Anyone can fake sincerity.

If you need to play it out, take her along as a friend when give your attention to others.