BxPrince 24's Approach Journal

[BxPrince24]

My goal is to get 100 approaches, 50 minimum, by the end of the summer. So far I have four. Things will get better, i'm sure of it.

June 8th, 2006
-I saw a HB8 walking down the street. So I cross the street to go over and talk to her. I said "Excuse me, Can I talk to you for a minute?" She said "No" I said "Alright. You look nice today though" She said "thanks" I went back across the street n chilled with my buddies.

-I saw a HB9 walking up the block. So i caught up to her and said "Excuse me, how are you doin today?" She continued walking as if I didn't exist. I went back and chilled with my buddies.

-I saw 2 other HB8s and I went to both of them (one at a time, not in a group). Same thing as with the HB9, no responses.

Hopefully the weather will keep up tomorrow so I can get some more done. :box:

 

[BxPrince24]

June 9th, 2006
- Saw a HB7 talking on her cell. Tried to talk to her but she ignored me.

 

[JHeights83rd]

OK, thing about where we live is this: In the 80s and early 90s those guys o.d. on that 'cold approaching' stuff. All over NYC they did this. Guys used to go up to girls all the time with their 1980s pu lines and girls would fall for that **** like nothing. 1980s pu lines are like wat you see on an episode of Fresh prince of bel aire with Will Smith. Now, its the year 2000, those pu guys had their fun with their 1980s pu lines, but now women in your area are all too familiar with that. (alot of those puas got too greedy and let that take over their lives, you can have ur fun but remember rent still has to be paid) So now alot of them are sloppy, raggedy bum ass.

But anyway b/c of what happend in the early 90s with that ****, to girls, its just played out now. They built up some type of immunity to it. Plus theyre subject to all types of catcalls and people yelling **** at them. When you go up to that chick and start hitting her off with some random ****, because she all too familiar with that pu stuff, shes thinking "oh sh** this n***** trying to talk to me" Now, people say on this site "attraction isnt a choice" but this is only 1/2 truth. When you approach her, she gotta choose whether shes gonna take you seriously or not.

 

[JHeights83rd]

Calling is the worst. When you call she usually says, "oh, im ... right now, ill call you back later" You never get a good convo in with her. I think, when youre a complete stranger to her, she takes you less serious than some guy she meets off of one of her friends. Its very frustrating for me, very small success rate. I was forced to do that **** b/c i moved to bx for10th grade and went to catholic school.

But to help you: its much better to meet girls by chilling and other girls. But if you approach, you should go to harlem, especially 125th street. Or Crown Heights Bk is good too. Or you could go to Central Pk area, and some stores on the upper west side. Like barnes and nobles. Then you can have something relevent to say to her, then you can have a good convo and hopefully, shell have more interest in you. Bx streets has to be the worst pu environment ever. That place got hit hardest by that epidemic of guys running around with the 1980s pu lines. Thats why now, when you approach a girl in bx, if youre not trying to sell something, she automatically knows your agenda, to p her u, and she deads you. When she deads you, it gets rid of you, the threat to her ego, that she would have by getting pu by a stranger, and gratify her ego at the same time, by giving her attention, and her being so good that she can reject your attention.

 

[BxPrince24]

I know what u mean. but I don't have much choice. I don't have much female friends in my area to work through. I'm still not gonna let that stop me though. If i'mma get rejected 100 times, so be it. it's not time wasted to me.. Sucks that the situation is mostly true though.