Damn...Im 6 foot 3 and 200lbs and about a 7 on looks and its still hard for me to get girls...I was wondering do you think that girls are intimidated by good looking guys or guys who are real tall.....I know this sounds stupid but what do you guys think...has this happened to anyone good looking guys before...
But I AM good looking...
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Quit looking at yourself in the mirror and go do something about it, geeze....
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None of that is important. Only you know why you're not getting laid. What do you think about yourself? What parts of you are "ugly"? When you see a hot girl, fill in the blanks..."She'd never want me, I'm too ------, too --------, too ---------" Where are you getting tangled up? Do you not approach? Do you get numbers but they never become dates? Do you have trouble being yourself on these dates? We need some more information, and you need to look closer at yourself. Only YOU are stopping yourself from getting women.l
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Text book AFC!!!
PIMP
Bs. Everyone knows its easier to get girls if you've got the looks. If 2 guys both had the same game... but one was a scrawny 5ft'er who was not attractive and the other was some buff stud... its obvious who she'd pick. The only time looks dont matter is if you have no game at all. ****, before i had any game... id get girls approach me and try to holla...
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
You need the skills to pay the bills my friend. You could be model and have no game. If you don't have the necessary talent and skills required to make the tools work for you then you just as SOL as any other chump.
Women intimidated by goodlooking men?
Puh-leeeeeeeeeze!!!!! Tell me, are you not atracted to the Coors Light twins because they look too hot. Do you not want to ƒuck Britney because she's "too pretty." C'mon, dog. The hotter they are, the more you want to ƒuck them, with women, the better you look, the more they are attracted to you.
And by the way, a 7 does not intimidate women in the least. Once you near Brad Pitt levels it might change for ya, but last I checked plastic surgery was in the $20,000. So...
you're problem is YOUR LACK OF GAME.
You see the chick, and you think she might be intimidated. Clearly, what this means is you don't have the balls to approach her. If she was, great, walk over. But all you can do is hope and pray that she will walk over to you and now you twist the situation to it being that THEY are desperate. Give me a break. If you have the looks going for you, why don't YOU walk over? If they are attractive, you need to MAKE A MOVE. Quit dreaming and hoping and start acting!
BobbDobbs
Senior Don Juan
If you were still in high school it might be a factor, shy girls and all that. But at your age, it's unlikely that your good looks are too intimidating.
As everyone else has said here, if you are already confident in your looks, work on the weaknesses in your game.
As everyone else has said here, if you are already confident in your looks, work on the weaknesses in your game.
FYI I asked about body % percentage because it is key to understanding your looks. At 200 LBS and 6'0" your BMI is 27. You are either overweight or you are built. Either way could be part of the problem. If you are perceived as a meathead then it isn't good, but if you are overweight it isn't too good either. Also if your muscles make you a 7 then you may really be a 5 in the face.
Yes, chicks can be intimidated by good looking guys. Especially if they are only average looking themselves.
Hot babes can usually handle it better, as they know how to handle themselves around guys due to experience. Ugly/fat chicks often have less of a problem with it as they have less ego to dent if they get rejected by showing interest.
But don't confuse that and expect any chick to APPROACH you or INITIATE with you. That is the man's job - fact, get used to it.
Some good looking guys don't appreciate this as they DO get approached by chicks sometimes, or have chicks overtly show interest, or have dealt with attention wh0res/sunshine girls. They assume all chicks who are interested would do the same - that is not true.
Chicks have fragile egos. Their desirability as a woman is important to them, it gives them POWER (while men get their power from status, money, job etc). They can't take a rejection. Chicks wonder if YOU find them desirable. They will wait for you to make a move.
Get over the fear of rejection, don't be afraid to show interest in a chick before you think she might like you, and your success rate will go up dramatically.
Hot babes can usually handle it better, as they know how to handle themselves around guys due to experience. Ugly/fat chicks often have less of a problem with it as they have less ego to dent if they get rejected by showing interest.
But don't confuse that and expect any chick to APPROACH you or INITIATE with you. That is the man's job - fact, get used to it.
Some good looking guys don't appreciate this as they DO get approached by chicks sometimes, or have chicks overtly show interest, or have dealt with attention wh0res/sunshine girls. They assume all chicks who are interested would do the same - that is not true.
Chicks have fragile egos. Their desirability as a woman is important to them, it gives them POWER (while men get their power from status, money, job etc). They can't take a rejection. Chicks wonder if YOU find them desirable. They will wait for you to make a move.
Get over the fear of rejection, don't be afraid to show interest in a chick before you think she might like you, and your success rate will go up dramatically.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I agree with JJMcLure, except... by most standards I am not the most attractive guy here, I'm not ugly, but I'm no Brad Pitt either.
Yet, I still manage to have score with good looking girls (6-8)... the difference here is in how you carry your body. You got a guy that's a 9 in looks that is depressed, shoulders slumped, and just moping through the world... then walks in a shorter, guy that's not quite as built, a 6 in the looks, taking his time this guy walks through the room like he owns the place.
Who do you think is gonna go home with his choice of the ladies???
The moral of the story : It's not the looks that matter, it's how you carry the looks that you've got! (Or it's not the size, but the motion in the ocean...)
Yet, I still manage to have score with good looking girls (6-8)... the difference here is in how you carry your body. You got a guy that's a 9 in looks that is depressed, shoulders slumped, and just moping through the world... then walks in a shorter, guy that's not quite as built, a 6 in the looks, taking his time this guy walks through the room like he owns the place.
Who do you think is gonna go home with his choice of the ladies???
The moral of the story : It's not the looks that matter, it's how you carry the looks that you've got! (Or it's not the size, but the motion in the ocean...)
