TheGoldenStandard
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Ok so i ask this gurl out in my class over facebook (yea i know it sounds like a bad idea but i did it)
just a simple coffe date.
so she says and i quote
"hey yeah coffee sounds good. im not quite sure if you were trying to make it a date but i just want to let you know that im with someone back home so im really not looking into dating anybody. just wanted to be up front with you so if ya still want wed around 6 is a good time for me"
So i'm like hmmm i smell BS because for all intents and purposes she looks entirely single.
So i test her with "It's ok i'm not the jealous type.
anyway, weds is good. i'll call you before hand."
then she responds
"haha well the guy im with is the jealous type. as long as you're ok with goin as only friends then its alright"
DING DING DING, BS RADAR OVER LOAD
so i'm thinking. You mean to tell me you have this "jealous type" BF who not only allows you to list yourself single online but doesn't shoe up in ANY of your pictures.
::sigh::
So I get that she's not interested and that it's highly likely she jerkn' me around.
Now for the advice
1.Do I call her on her BS based on the info above and ditch date.
2.bow out gracefully and pay it no mind and ditch date.
or
3. Go through with it anyway so as not to lose a possible connect to other chicks and burn a potential bridge?
just a simple coffe date.
so she says and i quote
"hey yeah coffee sounds good. im not quite sure if you were trying to make it a date but i just want to let you know that im with someone back home so im really not looking into dating anybody. just wanted to be up front with you so if ya still want wed around 6 is a good time for me"
So i'm like hmmm i smell BS because for all intents and purposes she looks entirely single.
she is listed as single on her facebook profile.
she dosn't have ANY pictures of this guy in her photo albums plus no comments from this unamed guy.
Lastly she has "random play" listed as her interests
So i test her with "It's ok i'm not the jealous type.
anyway, weds is good. i'll call you before hand."
then she responds
"haha well the guy im with is the jealous type. as long as you're ok with goin as only friends then its alright"
DING DING DING, BS RADAR OVER LOAD
so i'm thinking. You mean to tell me you have this "jealous type" BF who not only allows you to list yourself single online but doesn't shoe up in ANY of your pictures.
::sigh::
So I get that she's not interested and that it's highly likely she jerkn' me around.
Now for the advice
1.Do I call her on her BS based on the info above and ditch date.
2.bow out gracefully and pay it no mind and ditch date.
or
3. Go through with it anyway so as not to lose a possible connect to other chicks and burn a potential bridge?