All_Kindz_Of_Gainz
Master Don Juan
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First of all, my mind is made up, so this is not an advice request, this is just to know your opinion. I already made the decision and communicated with her.
I have been with my girl for more than 2.5 years. I'm a very competent guy, who has learned a lot about computers, manual labor, cars, machines and everything in between. I had to do it to improve my quality of life, not to brag, just to let you know the type of guy I am. Naturally, I have developed some pride and values, I hold other people accountable to my own standards.
She has a brother (40 years old), whom I've helped him a lot, I've gotten many softwares for his business that cost more than $500 for around $20 bucks, I have stayed up late helping him with his business without asking for anything, I fixed his car that no mechanic wanted to do so he could sell it, without asking for anything. Cause honestly I don't need it, and I do like to help people and share my knowledge.
However, he has a photo on his fb of her ex and her without him, 6 months ago I told him that I have been brother-in-law for 2 years, and to me having a picture of her ex with her only on his fb to me is a disrespect and to her sister who is very happy with me, she even told him to delete it, but ever did. He has other pics with her ex and him but I don't really give a fvck about those.
I told to her that I think her brother does that cause of jealousy and envy, and that he is a piece of $hit for doing that, after how much I've helped him, he's doing that in bad faith, and not even taking what she asked seriously.
You may think this is insecurity, but I can assure you its not, its simply the lack of respect for her and myself. Having a brother in law who helps you a lot its like to have a brother who you can count. I also told her that I won't be going to his restaurant to eat any longer or his house for any event, that I prefer to cut this friendship and stick with my values before being a hypocrite.
You might think, take the high ground and ignore, do it for her family, but its just in my gut tells me he's not a good person, cause if I have a sister who is happy with her bf, her bf helps me a lot how I helped him, me personally, I would do everything in power to make that guy a brother, when society is a piece of $hit and pretty much everyone wants to take advantage of other people, but again that's me, I've never had this before, so I'm just following my gut.
What do you guys think?
I have been with my girl for more than 2.5 years. I'm a very competent guy, who has learned a lot about computers, manual labor, cars, machines and everything in between. I had to do it to improve my quality of life, not to brag, just to let you know the type of guy I am. Naturally, I have developed some pride and values, I hold other people accountable to my own standards.
She has a brother (40 years old), whom I've helped him a lot, I've gotten many softwares for his business that cost more than $500 for around $20 bucks, I have stayed up late helping him with his business without asking for anything, I fixed his car that no mechanic wanted to do so he could sell it, without asking for anything. Cause honestly I don't need it, and I do like to help people and share my knowledge.
However, he has a photo on his fb of her ex and her without him, 6 months ago I told him that I have been brother-in-law for 2 years, and to me having a picture of her ex with her only on his fb to me is a disrespect and to her sister who is very happy with me, she even told him to delete it, but ever did. He has other pics with her ex and him but I don't really give a fvck about those.
I told to her that I think her brother does that cause of jealousy and envy, and that he is a piece of $hit for doing that, after how much I've helped him, he's doing that in bad faith, and not even taking what she asked seriously.
You may think this is insecurity, but I can assure you its not, its simply the lack of respect for her and myself. Having a brother in law who helps you a lot its like to have a brother who you can count. I also told her that I won't be going to his restaurant to eat any longer or his house for any event, that I prefer to cut this friendship and stick with my values before being a hypocrite.
You might think, take the high ground and ignore, do it for her family, but its just in my gut tells me he's not a good person, cause if I have a sister who is happy with her bf, her bf helps me a lot how I helped him, me personally, I would do everything in power to make that guy a brother, when society is a piece of $hit and pretty much everyone wants to take advantage of other people, but again that's me, I've never had this before, so I'm just following my gut.
What do you guys think?
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