backseatjuan
Banned
What the title says.
I can lay out the history here, and how she ordered taxi at 5 in the morning and said she wants to get more wine and how I threw her out and said don't you dare coming back no more. But...
Who cares. Even I don't care.
The important thing is backseatjuan met this 23 year old girl at 3 in the morning 22nd December 2011 - most probably back then she went through a similar story - she was quite drunk and stopped my car to ask for cigarette. I said don't have one and drove off, but then come back and picked her up. At 4 in the morning she was in my bed. She kept drinking and sleeping for the next several days.
There was plenty of red signs as she lived with me. First one happened during new year's, we got drunk, and she kept asking for more and more, as usual. But when it come to sex she said no. I got tired of that kicked her out of my house.
Then, oh how stupid I was back then, I got her back. A week or two later she went to her girl friend and was suppose to come back home, but ended up with her ex and his brother, getting piss drunk. I still got her back thought at 2 at night.
Oh did I mention that she was pregnant?
Oh yea, the first day we met she said she is going to have a baby. And she did have a baby boy 10th of August. I went with her to Uzbekistan, she gave birth there and left baby with her mom. Prior to August 10th it was a general consensus that baby is not mine and that she is going to leave him to her mom. On August 10th it all changed, mom stated that the baby is mine, has my eyes, looks like me, and basically is mine. Counting weeks from 22 December 2011 did not mean anything to anyone at that point!
So anyway, there was plenty more red signs, especially those involving:
1) Alcohol, she can't stop, she speaks blatant truth, she becomes slvtty to other men.
2) Trust issues. Why oh why did she keep checking my computer.
3) Made up jealousy. She'd get jealous to everyone.
Then later on her family turned out to be total crap.
1 month and 1 week ago she got drunk again and told me to go down on her. I went, but stopped, I said her poon stinks and she should wash it. She assumed I didn't want her and that I had women in my computer that I am talking to, and she gather up her sh`t and promptly left. Then I got her at 7 in the morning, and was planning to buy her a ticket home, so I won't be responsible if something happens to her.
That turned into I can't live without you, let's stay together, and no more stuff like this.
Get this, we even planned to marry and bring baby here so he can be with us.
Well, last couple of weeks I was questioning it all. I've noticed the sex got to twice a week. I've noticed she wasn't cooking or cleaning. I've notice her coldness.
Last evening she bought wine, one bottle she showed me upfront, the other one she hide in her purse. We drank those two bottles and I talked her into having anal sex. We went to a pharmacy to buy enema and lube. Then she insisted we go buy more wine, we went. She bought 1 bottle of wine and 1 bottle of cognac (I didn't know about cognac). So we had anal for the first time in her life. Then..
We start having sex, I went down on her, and that was pretty much it, she couldn't cvm. When I tried fvcking her she told me no, I can't do it with you. I started talking about that, and she told me sometimes she can do it with me and other times she can't. After sex I ask her if she came, and she often says yes, but it turned out she lies and last that she came was more than couple of weeks ago.
So basically she told me truth, because sometimes we have sex, and other times she don't want to have sex.
She kept trying to pick a fight with me over imaginary online women. Eventually at 5 in the morning she called a taxi and said she is going to get some more wine. I said no, go to sleep. She kept insisting and eventually I either had to hit her or let her go. I said go, and don't come back here no more, I don't want to see your ass.
My feeling?
I've slept from 5 til 7 am, and now it's 10 am, I'm drinking coffee and clearly am exhausted from no sleep, but at the same time I don't want to sleep. I'd say I get moments of I want her back, but thus far these moments have been broken by a sight of relief. Here I am, alone.
I'm alone.
I'm alone looked at it from a positive perspective.
I don't know what I'm going to do with cooking, and cleaning, and washing. Nor what I'm going to feel let's say this evening.
I'd say she was a good girl, my mom liked her. But I'd also say she wasn't truthful to herself and me. She was raped when she was 12 or 14. I picked her out from the street with nothing on her, and I dumped her back to those streets with nothing on her.
Lesson learned here, stay away from low quality women.
Lesson learned, if you get at least 1 red flag run.
I can lay out the history here, and how she ordered taxi at 5 in the morning and said she wants to get more wine and how I threw her out and said don't you dare coming back no more. But...
Who cares. Even I don't care.
The important thing is backseatjuan met this 23 year old girl at 3 in the morning 22nd December 2011 - most probably back then she went through a similar story - she was quite drunk and stopped my car to ask for cigarette. I said don't have one and drove off, but then come back and picked her up. At 4 in the morning she was in my bed. She kept drinking and sleeping for the next several days.
There was plenty of red signs as she lived with me. First one happened during new year's, we got drunk, and she kept asking for more and more, as usual. But when it come to sex she said no. I got tired of that kicked her out of my house.
Then, oh how stupid I was back then, I got her back. A week or two later she went to her girl friend and was suppose to come back home, but ended up with her ex and his brother, getting piss drunk. I still got her back thought at 2 at night.
Oh did I mention that she was pregnant?
Oh yea, the first day we met she said she is going to have a baby. And she did have a baby boy 10th of August. I went with her to Uzbekistan, she gave birth there and left baby with her mom. Prior to August 10th it was a general consensus that baby is not mine and that she is going to leave him to her mom. On August 10th it all changed, mom stated that the baby is mine, has my eyes, looks like me, and basically is mine. Counting weeks from 22 December 2011 did not mean anything to anyone at that point!
So anyway, there was plenty more red signs, especially those involving:
1) Alcohol, she can't stop, she speaks blatant truth, she becomes slvtty to other men.
2) Trust issues. Why oh why did she keep checking my computer.
3) Made up jealousy. She'd get jealous to everyone.
Then later on her family turned out to be total crap.
1 month and 1 week ago she got drunk again and told me to go down on her. I went, but stopped, I said her poon stinks and she should wash it. She assumed I didn't want her and that I had women in my computer that I am talking to, and she gather up her sh`t and promptly left. Then I got her at 7 in the morning, and was planning to buy her a ticket home, so I won't be responsible if something happens to her.
That turned into I can't live without you, let's stay together, and no more stuff like this.
Get this, we even planned to marry and bring baby here so he can be with us.
Well, last couple of weeks I was questioning it all. I've noticed the sex got to twice a week. I've noticed she wasn't cooking or cleaning. I've notice her coldness.
Last evening she bought wine, one bottle she showed me upfront, the other one she hide in her purse. We drank those two bottles and I talked her into having anal sex. We went to a pharmacy to buy enema and lube. Then she insisted we go buy more wine, we went. She bought 1 bottle of wine and 1 bottle of cognac (I didn't know about cognac). So we had anal for the first time in her life. Then..
We start having sex, I went down on her, and that was pretty much it, she couldn't cvm. When I tried fvcking her she told me no, I can't do it with you. I started talking about that, and she told me sometimes she can do it with me and other times she can't. After sex I ask her if she came, and she often says yes, but it turned out she lies and last that she came was more than couple of weeks ago.
So basically she told me truth, because sometimes we have sex, and other times she don't want to have sex.
She kept trying to pick a fight with me over imaginary online women. Eventually at 5 in the morning she called a taxi and said she is going to get some more wine. I said no, go to sleep. She kept insisting and eventually I either had to hit her or let her go. I said go, and don't come back here no more, I don't want to see your ass.
My feeling?
I've slept from 5 til 7 am, and now it's 10 am, I'm drinking coffee and clearly am exhausted from no sleep, but at the same time I don't want to sleep. I'd say I get moments of I want her back, but thus far these moments have been broken by a sight of relief. Here I am, alone.
I'm alone.
I'm alone looked at it from a positive perspective.
I don't know what I'm going to do with cooking, and cleaning, and washing. Nor what I'm going to feel let's say this evening.
I'd say she was a good girl, my mom liked her. But I'd also say she wasn't truthful to herself and me. She was raped when she was 12 or 14. I picked her out from the street with nothing on her, and I dumped her back to those streets with nothing on her.
Lesson learned here, stay away from low quality women.
Lesson learned, if you get at least 1 red flag run.
