Der_chuckster
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Hello DJ's I stumbled upon your site a couple of months ago, but only decided to make an account now. Anyway for my question.
I broke up with my GF this afternoon and decide to initiate no contact. She seems to be not getting it. See when we fight she usually takes a walk and text me and we resolve it. However, this time when we fought I told her it was over. And since 2:00 pm I received 2 calls and 6 text messages. I only texted her once when I missed the 2nd call. And I wrote something along these lines; "Sorry, I was busy? Whatsup? Did you find my key card?"
So what? Should I reinitiate just to make it clear that its over? Meet up or whatever?
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See, her thing is she keeps on giving her number to other guys and not even mentioning she has a boyfriend, it happened 3 times now (I know shame on me) so now its time to drop it. In this case the dude asked her for the number she said yes in the beginning then when he said this AFC line "this is really embarassing but you are very beautiful.....blah blah blah....can I have your number?" thats when they got to talking and she did give her number, and one night we were walking she was trying to make me jealous (or is she?) he called her for a date and she said yes to the date with him (might I add "I would love to!") And I was right there beside her! I asked her that night and said it was nothing (we were both kinda drunk, her more than me). However, I insisted the next day (today) The worst part is she told me about it! Which implies her complete lack of respect. Even worse, she told me about it just because the dude cancelled on her.
She really thinks I am breaking up with her because it was "nothing" that she just want to be friends with him. But come on now, guys. If I was to do the same what do you think will happen?
I broke up with my GF this afternoon and decide to initiate no contact. She seems to be not getting it. See when we fight she usually takes a walk and text me and we resolve it. However, this time when we fought I told her it was over. And since 2:00 pm I received 2 calls and 6 text messages. I only texted her once when I missed the 2nd call. And I wrote something along these lines; "Sorry, I was busy? Whatsup? Did you find my key card?"
So what? Should I reinitiate just to make it clear that its over? Meet up or whatever?
[reading after this point is optional]
See, her thing is she keeps on giving her number to other guys and not even mentioning she has a boyfriend, it happened 3 times now (I know shame on me) so now its time to drop it. In this case the dude asked her for the number she said yes in the beginning then when he said this AFC line "this is really embarassing but you are very beautiful.....blah blah blah....can I have your number?" thats when they got to talking and she did give her number, and one night we were walking she was trying to make me jealous (or is she?) he called her for a date and she said yes to the date with him (might I add "I would love to!") And I was right there beside her! I asked her that night and said it was nothing (we were both kinda drunk, her more than me). However, I insisted the next day (today) The worst part is she told me about it! Which implies her complete lack of respect. Even worse, she told me about it just because the dude cancelled on her.
She really thinks I am breaking up with her because it was "nothing" that she just want to be friends with him. But come on now, guys. If I was to do the same what do you think will happen?
