I have dated several women in Estonia. Absolutely fantastic women with good sense of humour.
But It's true, women seem to have alot of male friends. One reason could be that there are more women than men living there so there's actually more competition over men and they want to keep as many potential options as possible out of necessity because they're pursued by less thirsty men. It's also such a small country where everyone knows everyone and cheating is so common that no one seem to really care. But, that doesn't make it right and women with lots of male friends are a big red flag for something serious. If it's volountarily then they crave the male attention and your relationship becomes just a ticking bomb.
If it's not volountarily, then she's seriously damaged to a point (usually openly promiscuous) where other women know to stay away.
Your ex sounds more like a man than a woman, do you like to be dominated by women or what is so attractive about her?
I ask because you're surrounded by beautiful feminine women that value traditional masculinity wherever you go.
I'm from Portugal, she is from Estonia, we live in Finland.
My ex is a boss at the company she works for, she is strong and a bit masculine.
She is insecure about her body and has bulimia. I think she is not the cheating type but she loves the male attention. I didn't mind she had male friends, some of them were from high school. Sometimes they would come by and we all drunk and hangout. But she kept friendship with 2 ex **** buddies. And she saw them twice for coffee or so. I know for fact it's just friends, they other guys were dating at all. But as soon as our relationship became serious I told her those guys had to go. To be fair she only saw one of them 2x in our relationship. My personality probably for her is overly controling.
The 2 exes before me by the looks of it were very passive, she likes them.
With me, I was raised in Portugal. For instance we had several arguments because o never let her drive. I said the man drives. I don't want u to drive me. Or when we wall outside, I used to tell her, you either walk by my side or behind, I don't wanna see u ahead of me. She liked walked ahead of me.
Looking back, I played too much the macho latino guy controling, she got smothered ...
In the country where I live women have too much power. You can't control them too much, they feel like a bird in the cage, they will leave u.