Break up

[Legend]

Alright me and my girl broke up on sunday. It is now Saturday and man, i still feel like such a piece of shyt. I can get other girls but the thing is i'm hooked on her. She is the only one i want to fvck, i want to touch, i want to be around. I know this takes time but i'm really fvcked up i think. All i have been diong is lifting weights and drinking to much.

I'm trying to meet new chicks to get me off this one but its just the fact that things ended so coldly. We have'nt talked since sunday....we both just had a horrible time sunday and have'nt talked since. I called her friday and the wh*re very got back to me.

I just dont want my summer being ruined because i'm cought up with a girl that could never love me the way i would want.

Also i dont even feel like going through all the beginning steps with a new girl. I'm tried of all this dating shyt. Its a game i no longer want to be apart of. I opened myself to this girl and ended up getting hurt

Feeling like shyt

-John

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Just enjoy your break up. Yes, you heard right, sometimes one week is not enough to start looking into other things. We need time to 'dwell in the pain' and over analyze and stuff. This is normal. But after a couple of weeks of thinkin' of every possible outcome, get over it. You should come to accept it, and look at it as an opportunity to grow. You worry me when you say you don't want your entire summer to be like that. Then don't let it be that way. 1-2 weeks, ok, but then move on, get a life and don't dwell.

This is the time to change for the better. Human beings have the remarkable ability to use what Tony Robbins says "leaverage" to make drastic changes of improvements. In other words, use it as a summer REVOLUTION for you.

Off course, don't be one of those that finds every reason to keep the drama around by feeling sorry for yourself and dwelling as a form of identity. Get on with it.

 

[ChevyLover]

Fvck it. Shes a hoe. And hoes come a dime a dozen pal. Just think - If she ruined your whole summer because she broke up with you, she wins. Don't let her win. Find something you like to do, and forget about her. Give yourself a slap in the face and say "What the fvck! She's a *****. She doesn't deserve me. One day she will ask me to get back with her and I'll just laugh in her face! I now know something new from all of this - she is not worth my time."

NOW REPEAT WITH ME(and with emotion!): "NEXT!"

Don't worry about women for a while if you don't feel like putting in the effort to get them either. Time heals all wounds.

Don't call the biatch. Forget her. That relationship is over. It was a bad dream.


CL

 

[Legend]

thanks for the posts......i got so hammered tonight and feel like a million bucks. I'm not going to sweat this chick no longer. She make her choice. I'm the one with the future not her.